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I took a 30 year mortgage and paid it off in 15 by paying two payments at once by adding the next months principal to the usual mortgage payment. Year 2000 dollars bought a lot more than 2025 dollars do, so paying a mortgage on a house with today's prices might seem like and likely will be a bargain in 10 years. So, use the long term mortgage as a bridge to paying the loan off is less time. This is especially true if you expect your career to pay you more in the future. Those extra principal payments do get larger as time goes by so you need to account for that.

One of my favorite escorts, and the one that is the best sex partner, has an average sized cock but an huge amount of enthusiasm, skill, energy and endurance. Granted, I do not bottom. so size it not an issue in that regard, but even if I did, he has the reputation of being energizer bunny like in this regard and there are videos to prove it. I am always stunned by big muscle guys like Vin Marco and Apollo Phoenix who have great bodies and large endowments, but while they have been great for me, there is something to be said for all types of enthusiastic men.

I am glad it worked out for you and him. Perhaps a valuable lesson has been learned in that you definitely seem to have been much more invested than he. For future encounters, the first time you do not get what you were expecting, tell him. If it happens a second time, remind him. If it happens a third time, stop hiring him and tell him good bye at that meeting.

It is considerate of you to want the escorts you are financing to have a good time, but really it is there job to make sure that you do. You need to be clear what you need and what they need should be secondary to that. Not to say that they cannot have fun, but it should only be at your willingness. So, in the threesomes I have arranged, most were with partners and they were told that my expectation was that at least one of them should be paying attention to me unless I indicate that I am all for being the odd man out for a bit. I once had a three way with a couple whom I hired several times. One was always the top for anal though he gave excellent head and the other always the bottom. I enjoyed watching them go at it as I am not into bottoming. One time, the last time actually, the top asked me to top him. He told me he did not usually bottom during paid encounters but he wanted to see how that would work out. He apparently did not inform his partner that this was going to happen and when the top suddenly threw his legs in the air and groaned for me to fuck him, I obliged, to the consternation of the the bottom who watched for a bit and then asked if he was needed in a way that was not conducive to my continuing to fuck his partner. After that encounter, which did continue with my switching to fucking the bottom, I never did hire them again. I wanted to hire the top as a single, but I did not want to cause any difficulty. The top said he would need to clear it with his partner if I was going to fuck him. So even the best laid plans can go awry.

You do not owe him an explanation. There is a thread on this forum asking what were you not prepared for as you get older. My contribution to that was: No one teaches you how to say no politely and definitively. So this is it: I have enjoyed out time together in the past but recently I have not. Therefore, I am seeking other options. Thanks for your time and efforts. If you are in town, I am up for an off clock meeting, if that is something you would like. If I have a change of heart, I will let you know but please to not question me about this further. Happy holidays to you and I wish you all the best. I was seeing an escort for 10 years and we spoke just about every day. One day we both came to the conclusion that it was not working. I told him to cancel our next appointment and that I would call if I needed his services. It was sad but necessary. Now 10 months later, I realize that this definitely needed to be done. If I encounter him again, I would be polite but not invested. Sometimes a divorce is needed and you must be prepared that they are not always amicable, but even difficult ones are, in the long run, for the best.

Gary Oldman at the least has a $3 million house in Palm Springs. An acquaintance of mine who is renovating the house next door says he is there on weekend a month. So I would not worry about him. Champagne problems. Granted the house in not spectacular but it is in the shadow of the mountains in a nice section. of town.

Often I think babe or daddy is because they forgot your name. I like for them to Call Me by MY Name. I agree, I do not have feminine parts and neither do they, so lets call an ass an ass and a penis any one of a dozen things but skip pussy. I see a guy regularly now who uses lots of emojis and pet names but he is young and I find it cute with him. Most others, would rather they skip it. I do enjoy a good flattering lie. So during passion I like things such as you are the best, oh my god it feels so good and please do not ever stop. I know they are just things that are said and at times they make me laugh to myself but in general at the time, I enjoy it.

Having just moved from New Jersey to California, I have not found the cost of living to be that much different. As you are Filipino, you are rightfully concerned about diveristy and the sourthern US is not known for its tolerance. So if you are going to move there, you definitely need to find a community which has other Filipinos or at the very least has a church that you will feel comfortable joining. I am not religious but much of the social activity in the southern areas out of the big cities centers around church. Northern NJ is much more expensive then Central Jersey and South Jersey, so you might consider an in state move. Also. many hospitals are offering substantial bonuses to nurses to sign on though you do have a time commitment with those. Have you considered being a travelling nurse to try out a variety of locations before manking a final decision?

Sorry for your loss. As we age, the losses become more frequent and the ability to make new friends or even fwb is limited so each one hits a bit harder. Once again condolences.

By homeless, according to my reading of another article about this, his final home which was in Baltimore was foreclosed, so he is living at Airbnb and hotels. He is working as a singer in Cyprus and moves where he finds work. So he is not on the street, just out of houses,

I had two recent encounters with Brogan and my mileage definitely did vary. We spent two full hours of sweaty and acrobatic sex. Acrobatic is not something I expect of myself at my age but it is a legitimate description. He did suck...the good way. He was also very sensitive to sensual touch and very loud. All things I enjoy. I will definitely hire him again when he passes through Palm Springs. Broganxbrogan - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in West Hollywood, CA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in West Hollywood, CA - Broganxbrogan: Midwest Muscle

Great face especially with the scruff not so much the goatee.

High risk, high reward. The risk is, for some, part of the thrill of it all. In any case, there are lots of gyms around.

The gym I go to here in Palm Spring caters to a gay crowd that skews older. The steam bath is the place where encounters of the type that should have happened here take place. If you would have followed him, he may have gone to the steam and you could have sat next to him. Hands touch. Legs touch. A hand is rubbed on a thigh and fairly soon afterward someone is getting blown. As this event happened in the early afternoon on a Wednesday, it is likely that there were not many people there and the steam may have been private enough even if the gym does not cater to a gay clientele. You could followed and suggested you meet on the way out and have gone to your car and found a place that was fairly private. The short answer is: An opportunity was missed. You now know better so do better.

What you want to do may change from visit to visit. I think if you can't answer that question, you can probably answer what you do not want to do. That will at least give the escort some guidance. I do not want to bottom/ top. I do not want scat or urine or a lot of pain. I am not into leather. That will give him some idea. But I am sure you can think of some things you like: kissing? sexy underwear? nipple play? having him show off? Those are just examples which will help things go along. And at that point you can add that you are open to other things as they arise and that you will let him know what is working for you and you hope he does the same. So essentially: Baseline nos. Baseline yeses. Flexibility. Willingness to try new things. It is unfair to expect the escort to guess what is going to work for you as he has lots of clients with lots of different preferences. He will be much more relaxed if you give him some general directions and show that you are willing to try other things. You may not realize that there are somethings you like which you wouldn't have thought to be the case. BTW, I like to ask the escort while we are together something like: Where would you like me to put my mouth? Would you like it if I pull your hair while we are kissing or if I slap your ass?

Scheduling is difficult at times. I recently hired an escort and was set for a Friday 5 PM appointment which is a time he selected. The day before he requested we move the appointment to 7 PM. Still fine. The day of he asked that it be pushed to Sunday. Sunday he called two hours before and asked for it to be pushed back several hours. I accommodated each request. The meeting was not one of the best but it was acceptable. I am retired and have a fairly open schedule, but even for me, these changes seemed excessive. Perhaps it was the gods of sexual satisfaction indicating to me that this was not a great match, but I did not listen. Things happen. Providers and clients have lives that are unpredictable and subject to sudden changes. I understand that the OP is frustrated but all jobs have plusses and minuses. Best to focus on the plusses and deal with the minuses as graciously as you can muster.

Considering my preferences, I would prefer a back or top of the head shot rather than a face shot

While different opinions are aloud =, sometimes it is better to keep them quiet. Whoops, i see a different wiseguy made the same observation of punning on aloud.

I just had an encounter with a terrifically built handsome man with an above average sized but significantly thick dick. The encounter was fun but despite the man's impressive physical attributes, I would not repeat the encounter. He was too self involved or rather he was not as involved with what was happening with us as I would have liked and as the encounter went on, he had some fairly noticeable limitations which came into play only after those things had been done earlier. For example, he was a great kisser initially but he would not kiss again after we had performed oral and he would not go back to performing oral after the initial time. This led me to consider whether I would want to have his gifts if I had to take his baggage. This in turn became the germ of an idea for a porno movie where two strangers meet, have sex and lo and behold have the rarest of conclusions with a simultaneous orgasms causing their sexual identities to switch bodies. Before they realize what has happened, they have separated without any contact information. As anyone who has ever seen one of these body switch movies knows, mild amusement and confusion transpire subsequently. So my question is: Would you want to exchange sexual identities and physical being with the last person with whom you had a sexual encounter?

When I first started hiring I did not know what I wanted. That led to many enjoyable but not exhilarating experiences. Once I figured out what I wanted, I had no difficulty asking for it or initiating it and seeing what the response was. While the original experiences were fun the latter ones are the ones I will be thinking about upon my exit from this earthly toil. I may not get to heaven, but it will seem like it when I am on the road.

If he is a competitive body builder, it is possible that both pictures are accurate one when he is in contest shape and the other when he is not. On the other hand, I vote for photoshop of the photo on the left.

Prostitution is the oldest profession and while the majority of that is heterosexual, homosexual sex is practiced by at least 12% of the male population. But for a long time and even in most gay social circles, hiring an escort is not usually discussed. In Palm Springs section of Rentmen, there have been as many as 15 pages of escorts for a population of 150000 in the great Palm Springs area. There is a lot of money and bodily fluids being exchanged

Depends on personal standards. Some have them and some can look past them.

I know sexual assault is real and damaging, but it seems many of these allegations only come to light years after the event and only after the alleged perpetrator has gotten a significant degree of financial stability. Until proven, allegations are just that, some are just bitterness and gossip. I know nothing of this show nor the person being accused, but I am tired of these johnny come lately accusations and the rush to establish a hands off attitude. In the 1990 s one of my medical students accused me of not giving her honors due to sexual discrimination. Her evidence of this was a Nicole Miller tie with the title night and day. I had many Nicole Miller graphic ties and this one had an stylishly sexy business woman wearing a long black business suit and stilettos and fishnet stockings. The student told the medical school that she would drop the allegations if her grade was changed to the "honors" she felt she deserved. I refused to change her grade and faxed a copy of the tie to the dean. The matter was dropped at that point. She suffered no consequences of her manipulative accusation.

Are you looking for clothing optional? Inndulge while not a opulent has several entrances and exits which do not require the guest to go through the lobby as is the case in Vista Grande. It is also considerably less expensive. As I am more a blue collar hotel guy, others would likely have better ideas.