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It seems that you may the one to avoid. Seems danger likes to find you and if it misses, I do not want to be in the firing zone. Congrats on survival. By the way, there is a convicted felon who is screwing most of us.

I met up with again in Palm Springs a few months ago. As always, it was a pleasure and not exceptionally costly.

It is very difficult for some, me included, to draw that line as I feel all I am trying to do is help them out. However, there are people that use my desire to help to excess. It is too late for me to set a definitive boundary but when asked now, I have the very real response of being retired. However, when people ask and it is a serious issue and they have not gotten cogent information from their doctor, I am inclined to offer to help though in truth I would not have to do so if the doctor in question had done a better job.

As a physician, being asked to do work without compensation comes from all quarters: friends, escorts, family members, patients I run into out in the public, strangers on a plane, acquaintances at a party etc. I usually try to answer to the best of my ability and then advise them to seek out paid professional help, telling them that without a full exam and history, any information I give them should be considered incomplete. No one has ever offered to compensate me in any manner for this. I had a regular escort who I calculate used hundreds of hours of my time with his medical questions. I was a pushover, I agree with you that you should not be. The person with whom you were dealing was insulting and greedy and you were right to end you utilization of his services.

In my recent move to Palm Springs, I have been unbelievably happy. There are many places to go and things to do. There are several clothing optional upscale resorts but also down and dirty clothing optional resorts. Most of the resorts have day passes so, if you find the place you are staying less than optimal, you can try other resorts. I just spent a Sunday afternoon at Canyon Club, which by most standards is not high end, but I had a great afternoon meeting people and just hanging at the pool. There is a playroom and a maze there but neither seemed particularly busy when I was there. There are many casinos and acts such as Jerry Seinfeld are doing shows there. So, if the logistics of travel are not a problem, I would opt for Palm Springs. Key West is not as gay as it used to be and the weather is much less predictable. Palm Spings will be hot, but, poolside everything is cool

There was an escort and porn actor Parker Williams and I decided that I wanted him to try and have me bottom. He was generously endowed and he was trying to be concerned but, we we were not achieving the desired result. In a moment of utter stupidity, I said. "just push the fucking thing in already". He did. It was not fun. I screamed quite loudly and begged him to take it out. After he did so, he told me: And that is why I love my job. So at least one of us had a good time and to be fair, he more than made up for it on the turnaround.

Wnen did you guys sneak into my house?

As a bi guy, I am usually a top. I have tried to bottom, usually about once a year with very limited success. So ever once and again, I try to bottom and I recognize why it has been so long since the last time I tried it. So for the bi guys out there, are you willing and able to give and receive or are you a one way street? This pertains only to anal, as I think most guys who have sex with men give and receive oral, though they may have a preference for one or the other.

Since you had a conversation with him and he remembered not only your name but also what you had told him, it was time to make a gentle move. I think something to the effect of "i am going to miss seeing you around the pool. Perhaps I can take you out for lunch before you head away." If he says yes, then there is hope. If he says no, then there is no hope. To make it a little less obvious, you could have also told him to invite his brother. After a lifetime of missed opportunities, I have decided not to miss any others if I can avoid it. My advice to all here is to do the same.

I do not want to rub you the wrong way, but I think it is usually obvious in context. There are post concerning massage in the deli. In reality, the deli should be for escort type activities only as there is a section for massage in all its variations.

If you are planning a shower to start things off, it seems as though the lingerie will be coming off and not coming back on until you leave. So I would not overly fuss with that. I must admit as a bi man, lingerie does nothing for me except make me chuckle. I do feel obliged to offer a comment as to how sexy it looks, but in reality, it is just to appreciate the effort I do like a woman who dresses seductively without going overboard\, but if the goal is to get the clothes off, if he is doing the removing, make sure it is easy to get them off. Nothing is more of a mood slower than not being able to figure out how to get the clothes off or having the woman have to explain that there is a hidden snap. For me, I would be fine with justan overcoat and a pair of stilettos and then drop the coat on the floor by the door. The one thing I wholehearted suggest is that you take a deep breath at the door. Let you body relax and calm your thoughts. No matter how you mapped out the encounter in your mind, it is going to be different than that and you need to go with the flow. Speaking of flow, that is a definite no.

Gary Sandy, I think more Pecan Sandy judging by the size of his nuts

That may be true but then how do you explain her coming in third in a Dolly Parton look alike contest?

Old enough to use obvious sarcasm in replying to your post. I am also pretty sure that your take on Colbert is a propaganda feed is hyperbole. He definitely has a point of view but if you watched with any regularity you would have heard many Biden jokes when Biden was in office. Note the quotes around "News"

Best friends with Dom DeLuise probably helped fuel those rumors. They seem like an unlikely pair to be best friends. Strange but not as strange as Marlon Brando and Wally Cox being best friends.

I've tried watching Fox "News" several times under the impression it was a news show. Seemed more like a propaganda feed to me. Never understood how it stayed on the air as long as it did. I guess, not everything is meant for me.

I find this statement specious. I do not have children. I do pay school taxes. There are many other examples of services that are offered to the public of which most people do not partake and yet they are financed by taxes. I am not forcing people who do not listen to foot the bill, I am stating that a society that values educational television and radio should have no difficulty spending tax money on insuring that it exists. That this administration has no difficulty supporting other programs which I find abhorrent, does not mean others should be deprived of them.

I'm smirkin' about the merkin. Nice reference.

Ok boys so here it is. I wanna fuck for money. Looking for any input that gives me a little more education and knowledge on the subject thanks. I think that one thing to consider is that you will be dealing with men not boys. Men of all shapes sizes and ages and for the most part, you will probably not find them physically attractive. If your hope is to cherry pick the cream of the crop, you will be spending a lot of time picking out and very little time picking up. Another thing to consider is that for many of the men, there is a lot more than fucking involved. You need excellent interactive skills. You need to prompt and dependable. You need to have patience with clients who are new to the game and know nothing. (Similar to the situation you are in right now but on the other end.). You will need to be able to tailor your performance to the wants and needs of the client. Ultimately, the client is paying for your skill at satisfying him. You will need to understand that many of your clients do not care if you enjoy yourself or not, as long as they do. So, the client comes first and you may not come at all. There will be time wasters, endless talkers and just about every variation of guys looking to get off without ever seeing you. This work is not easy. Clients are not easy. Putting yourself second is not easy, especially for guys who want to "fuck for money." However, if you are good and lucky, you will meet all kinds of men. Many of them intelligent and worldly and with more than a few bucks in the bank. They may take you along to the interesting and exotic places they visit. They may bring you to the nicest restaurants and cultural and sporting events. All this can happen and has happened for some professional escorts who realize that escorting is a service profession and not just sexually servicing men for a few bucks.

Big cock. Big hair. Good on one of those.

Quite erudite. SHOWOFF.

I am not sure if in that last sentence you meant expecting ourselves as a community or ourselves as individuals. I agree that we should all expect our own posts to meet a high standard and we can work and strive to do better. Expecting each member here to adhere to that same ethos is noble but, unfortunately, unobtainable. We should all think "when I knew better I did better" of our own behavior but the only one we can truly hold accountable to that is looking back at us in the mirror.

i have never had an escort increase his rate for me once I have been established as a client. I am old enough to be a grandfather som maybe that is why I am always grandfathered in. If the occasion does arise, I would probably go witht he higher rate for that visit and then decide if the extra money did anything for the experience. If I am left smiling, I will certainly pay the increased fee again, and if I am left wet and exhausted, well that is worth a tip.

The movie ran that long as that is how long movies ran back in the 30s and 40s. The new editing is more in keeping with the new mindsets for most films. There are definitely edits that could be make that would not significantly compromise the story though cutting it to 75 minutes does seem draconian.

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