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There are few feelings worse than an encounter where you can tell the other person really really doesn't want to be there, and that's considerably more likely with a straight person. I think TJ/Scott Anthony was the only straight guy I really enjoyed my time with. And I'm not entirely sure he wasn't bi....

I don’t pay much attention to what guys state as their “orientation” in their profile. What matters to me is their performance in bed which, as I make abundantly clear when setting up a date, involves among other things very very passionate kissing. If they deliver, I will repeat. If they don’t, they are gone. I couldn’t care less with whom they enjoy sex in their private life. 
I have had many absolutely spectacular meetings with boys who, after kissing me hard, rimming me deep, sucking me hungrily, and getting my load up their willing hole, used to take their girlfriend out to dinner with the money I paid them. C’est la vie. 

Gay. It’s a total turn off if they list straight. I want someone who’s into men. 

During my many years of being a client, all of my providers have been gay excepting one.  The exception was a bi man with whom I had some phenomenal times.   We gave each other what each wanted, and he never failed excepting when he changed his sexual orientation status from Bi to Straight.
 After the pandemic brought us some semblance of normalcy, I engaged his services on four occasions.  Two of those times he had me "climbing the ceiling"--for he certainly knew how to "apply the wood." He would always have me in such a state of euphoria that I had to ask him to stop or to slow down.
 I don't have heart problems, but with the expertise that he rendered, I thought one perhaps would occur.
Shortly after those last two sessions, he changed his sexual orientation on Rent.men to "STRAIGHT."  I managed to see him, but unfortunately for me, those sessions were NOT the ones to which I looked forward.  
On one of those occasions I kindly addressed his status; he became offensive, and I ceased talking to him about this matter.  
I do know that his sexual prowess was definitely NOT satisfying; it was quite, quite underwhelming as contrasted with the times during a five or six year period that we had been seeing each other.
So, in response to the initial question: it's primarily Gay with me unless the Bi guy is interactive and meets my other needs/requirements for satisfaction.
* I've written about this in other posts but thought my response would be appropriate here.

Same. I like men of all gender expressions as long as it feels authentic. All gender is performance but I can tell when someone is overemphasizing their masculinity. Now, if there's a particular scene where over emphasis is desired, that's fine. But a straight guy who comes in with a bunch of preconditions and talks about his girlfriend, it a hard no. 

I go for gay, all the way. Or a bi person who leans more towards gay.
It's true that straight guys are less likely to kiss or be able to pretend they're enjoying themselves.  But attitude is an issue too - I've met enough cocky, "straight acting" guys who acted waaaaay too defensive about their sexuality, insisting they had girlfriends and avoided men. That's either borderline homophobia or closet case babble.
I have a "gay activist" background as well, and always felt that looking for straight and "straight acting" men was a sign of internalized homophobia.  I'm afraid I still.do - it shows a lack of self respect.

I much prefer a gay man. Or at least a bi-guy. 
 
For a while, I dated a personal trainer. He was passionate in bed, bottomed for me and told me how much he enjoyed swallowing my loads. So I was very surprised when he declared he was straight (had a girlfriend and baby).

Yes!  And $ is $.

I strongly prefer gay providers.  In my experience, they have fewer boundaries and are willing to go further ... 
There can be no such thing as 'I am straight so my ass is off-limits'.  That is not what I am paying for.
 
  

Just saw ChrisJ.  I wouldn’t go back.  Pictures are pretty current, but his massage wasn’t great.  Said he was trained, but I highly doubt it.  Nice guy, good conversation, nice body, but kind of went through the motions, and didn’t really work the muscles.  He wore jeans the whole time even though he said he’d be nude.  At the end he took off his pants for some mutual touch and then release.  All in all, not good, wouldn’t recommend.  Feel free to DM me if you want more info.

Harvard looks nice but 7 inches is hardly well endowed.  Atleast not in the midwest, and if hes using escort math its probably not 7 inches. 

His reviews are a mixed bag. I don't care for the age. I prefer my masseurs a bit older, I mean 23 is awfully young. Just my
preference.

I guarantee you that most clients want to be kissed even if they don't ask precisely for the BFE. 

I definitely need Oral... I'm not getting all dolled up for nothing... 

That’ll be a dud of a session for me. I also probably would not have hired him in the first place since I make it clear when initiating contact that I require kissing and oral.
Sidebar: I have hired one guy who had limits: Only kissing and mutual masturbation. He was smoking hot though and I was thinking with my small head so I agreed.
Holy moly he made up for the no-oral, no-anal thing with how good he kissed.
I hired him a second time after a month, and although the makeout session was still great, I knew that we reached the ceiling there.

I, too, most definitely "prefer a more interactive experience."  To date when I'm interested in a particular escort, I peruse his "I Am Into's" in his ad.  If his interests are not similar to mine, I pass and go elsewhere.

During one of my first massages, as things were moving from therapeutic to sensual, my provider whispered in my ear “is it ok if I kiss you?”.  That simple moment of intimacy was the perfect way of broaching the subject without it feeling like a menu item. 

I have to disagree.
Being someone with a wide range of sexual interests and also a person who is NOT looking for anything resembling romance in a hire...I can very confidently report that "kissing" is NOT some sort of goes-with-the-territory component of every sex workers repertoire.
If a pro advertised "BFE"and then told you "I don't kiss"...then yeah. That's false advertising. But a satisfying sexual encounter can most definitely exclude kissing. As a matter of fact I RARELY have EVER desired to KISS a provider.
Totally NOT my thing with a hire.
 
 
 
 

If I contact a regular, I usually ask, "as usual?"
If a regular raises their price and waits until after the session to tell.you, you need to drop him.
EDIT In my experience,  good regulars lock you in at the original price. I only had one regular who (twice) raised his price, and it eventually ended badly.
When it's a new guy, I always repeat the amount of time and amount when asking for the final agreement.  The oral contract is made if he agrees.

I haven't had this come up too much, but I think if you're seeing someone weekly or monthly, it's on them to disclose a rate increase. However, if it's been months or a year, I would confirm. We had a regular who has since exploded in porn, and I've been thinking of seeing him again, and I will definitely confirm the rate. 

I prefer gay followed by bi. I just tend to question why a straight man would be on a gay side. Call me old fashioned. 😉

If sex without a condom doesn't count as sex, then I am practically a virgin.

Sex with a condom doesn't count as sex?  That's a new one for me but maybe I'm getting old. 

Sex with a condom doesn't count as sex?  That's a new one for me but maybe I'm getting old. 

I've had a few RM providers who REFUSE to discuss "business" matters on the RM chat. I suppose they aren't trusting of the degree of privacy they may or may not be getting there.