ThroatCummer

You're not misreading a tall, but the larger message is just lost in translation from being a post here rather than a real-life discussion. I think I wrote all that on a semi-buzzed ramble and the answer is that it's complicated.
The initial reason for that reply was "CEOs and other executives have announced that the first candidates for layoffs will be the people who refuse to come to the office, or don't get there enough or in a timely manner. An entire generation is going to have to grow up quickly and drop their bad habits."
And that's the point of the thread -- be on time or communicate, or you'll get passed over. Sure some guys have enough business to not care, but it's the ones who respect and value time (on both sides) that become the legends in this [or any] industry. 

+3 on 9th Ave. That's usually my go to when I am in NYC -- also because I stay in HK anyway, so. But definitely a very diverse crowd and something in there for everyone.... and that Kiwi bartender someone else mentioned above is definitely very friendly.

During a recent visit to NYC, I dropped into the 9th Ave Saloon mostly because I'd read Matt and Tim of Adonis had recently bought it, fixed it up, and reopened it.....admittedly, it was about 3:30pm on a Monday and there were only three solo patrons (including me), so there's no way I can judge what it's like on a Friday at, say, 6pm or 10pm.....friendly bartender from New Zealand......very narrow and deep space.....I imagine when it's busy that it'd still be an easy, friendly, unpretentious place.......

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

Let me just add my three cents (or $400/hr) here.  
Trev is #1 in my book. That guy made me feel like ten million bucks for almost two weeks after our last encounter when I met him in NYC (x2 times). We immediately formed a connection and he provided the perfect BFE overnight experience. So much so that I am planning to go to Toronto at some point to get some more. He's exactly like his pictures, he can talk about any subject under the sun,  he fucks like a total rockstar, and he and makes you feel (at least he did to me) like I was the absolute entire center of his universe the whole time we were together. 
Nobody else has come close, so far, and the only regret I have is that he set the bar so fucking high for everyone else in my mind. Worth. Every. Cent. 

Tristan Baldwin and Vin Marco are the only guys I’ve been with currently on RM (and Vin no longer advertises consistently) who radiate that same kind of energy. Apollo Phoenix is another, and the one I know best, after a couple years now of twice-monthly meetings — but he no longer advertises.

In 30 years of this hobby I haven't experienced the passion I feel with Trev.  I walk on air for days afterwards.  No one else, including lovers, have made me feel as sexually attractive as Trev.  That's quite something for someone who's 59.
In terms of pure sexual energy and a great time I'd have to suggest Nexxon.https://rent.men/NEXXON
I had an amazing experience with him.
 

Tell them. 
Honest advice? You should assume that every provider that lists on RM will make you feel comfortable. You're hiring them and you're the one paying for their time. But you have to be up front about your stuff and conditions in order for them to accommodate. 
I'm not exactly the most in-shape guy in the world. Huge insecurity on that front. Also very vanilla like you. When I see a stupidly jacked guy that's a millions times out of my league in my city on RM, all I can think about is how could he want to be with someone like me? But it's just that -- a transaction. So you message them and lay all your cards on the table. Copy and paste your post above and send that to them. No joke. What's the worst that can happen? They don't respond?  Okay, move on and find another wicked hot guy you want in your bed.  
Keep doing that and you'll find the ones who are truly passionate and genuine people pleasers. I'll admit they're not the norm, but they're out there and it's fucking amazing with you find one. You might even make a casual friend from it. (<-- although don't hold on to that lol)
Good luck man. 

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

Tell them. 
Honest advice? You should assume that every provider that lists on RM will make you feel comfortable. You're hiring them and you're the one paying for their time. But you have to be up front about your stuff and conditions in order for them to accommodate. 
I'm not exactly the most in-shape guy in the world. Huge insecurity on that front. Also very vanilla like you. When I see a stupidly jacked guy that's a millions times out of my league in my city on RM, all I can think about is how could he want to be with someone like me? But it's just that -- a transaction. So you message them and lay all your cards on the table. Copy and paste your post above and send that to them. No joke. What's the worst that can happen? They don't respond?  Okay, move on and find another wicked hot guy you want in your bed.  
Keep doing that and you'll find the ones who are truly passionate and genuine people pleasers. I'll admit they're not the norm, but they're out there and it's fucking amazing with you find one. You might even make a casual friend from it. (<-- although don't hold on to that lol)
Good luck man. 

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

I like most of the above recs but on the first, sometimes the new guys fresh out of the blocks are great to find. These rarities who go on to become superstars usually have very reasonable rates when they start out but if they succeed, within a year their rates have shot up. 
I don't hire anyone without at least a couple of reviews, but if I see they have only had an ad for a month or so and the rest of the ad appeals, then I might give them a try. It can be very rewarding.

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 
You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 
Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow.  Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face.  Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome.  Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing.  If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves.  Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible.  Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

My company opened up an office in Poland.  Great workers and cost less than a third of US employees.  With all the Russians fleeing to other countries it will get even more competitive.   You need to have a specialized niche, be awesome at what you do or work your butt off.

Labor arbitrage is a brutal fact of life these days.

I've had him on my RM buddy list for months in the event I get back to Europe soon and now look, he's coming to NYC. 
God, I really hope he lives up to those pictures. Watching this space. 👀
Also, he is listed on Hunqz which is wicked popular in Europe. Click the "15 stars" on the lower right of his profile and read his reviews there too. You might need a free account and you'll need to use Google Translate for a few of them.  
https://www.hunqz.com/escort/giobolo
 

Without going into too much detail, I have eliminated an entire department over this.
You live 30 minutes from our office but refuse to come in ever again? .. and you still want that $180k salary? Nah, it don't work that way.
Historically, Asia and India outsourcing was a fucking train wreck because quality was never there. But now there's an epic crap ton of countries and people with the same skills that will do your job for a fraction of the price. I can get someone in South Africa, Brazil, or Romania to replace you in ten seconds. Oh, and there's a hundred million of them lined up applying.
Welcome to globalization.
My highest performer (our Chief Compliance Officer) can do her job from the Lido deck of a cruise ship and never come into the office ever again, and I won't give a fuck. Because she's a master at her work and she gets shit done. 
But now, when we need a new person, our universe of hiring is the entire planet. It's going to be a really hard lesson for the tech skilled workforce in the USA to learn over the next few years. No company is going to pay $180k for a software engineer that wants to sit at home down the street from the actual office in Manhattan. I need you in the office to be creative because there's value in that. If you don't want to do that, then you're going to be replaced by someone in Lebanon or Croatia.   
WOAH. Need to put down the keyboard.
Wait, what were we talking about? Open markets and how they influence escort prices? 'Night