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    buckguy got a reaction from Fidler in Roald Ekberg   
    No dates in his ad. I think he's often hired by a regular poster who is interested in Eastern European guys and keeps up on who is worth the effort.
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    buckguy got a reaction from HoseMaster in Roald Ekberg   
    No dates in his ad. I think he's often hired by a regular poster who is interested in Eastern European guys and keeps up on who is worth the effort.
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    buckguy got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Roald Ekberg   
    No dates in his ad. I think he's often hired by a regular poster who is interested in Eastern European guys and keeps up on who is worth the effort.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Simon Suraci in What are your red flags?   
    A number of years ago, when agencies still existed, I tracked turnover among their providers over the course of a couple years. One thing that stood out was almost half the new guys didn't last a month. Anecdotally, I've noticed that to be a constant over time and I avoid anyone new.  The couple times I did hire new guys, they seemed very disorganized (I may have been their 1st clients in both cases), asking for more time, pics, etc.) which frankly took away some of the desire on my part. So....if someone is truly new, I give them a pass. Let someone else train them up and if they stick around at least a month, I have some faith that they making a go of this. Younger guys (those under about 25) also tend to be less organized as business people--they forget the lube, don't understand how different kinds of cities work, etc. I'm glad I'm not usually drawn to twinks.
    What's also clear is that if someone leaves the business, they often return, but frequently it's not for long. Again, I wait to see if they're committed to their comeback tour.
    My guess is that many guys have an exit strategy--they plan to do this for a fixed length of time or until they build a nest egg or pay off a debt. A very small number truly make it a profession and many fairly long-term guys have something else going on---they may be writers, artists, students, etc. 
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    buckguy got a reaction from Dolman in What are your red flags?   
    A number of years ago, when agencies still existed, I tracked turnover among their providers over the course of a couple years. One thing that stood out was almost half the new guys didn't last a month. Anecdotally, I've noticed that to be a constant over time and I avoid anyone new.  The couple times I did hire new guys, they seemed very disorganized (I may have been their 1st clients in both cases), asking for more time, pics, etc.) which frankly took away some of the desire on my part. So....if someone is truly new, I give them a pass. Let someone else train them up and if they stick around at least a month, I have some faith that they making a go of this. Younger guys (those under about 25) also tend to be less organized as business people--they forget the lube, don't understand how different kinds of cities work, etc. I'm glad I'm not usually drawn to twinks.
    What's also clear is that if someone leaves the business, they often return, but frequently it's not for long. Again, I wait to see if they're committed to their comeback tour.
    My guess is that many guys have an exit strategy--they plan to do this for a fixed length of time or until they build a nest egg or pay off a debt. A very small number truly make it a profession and many fairly long-term guys have something else going on---they may be writers, artists, students, etc. 
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    buckguy got a reaction from + Just Sayin in 411 on BigHands in Minneapolis   
    I believe he's had other names in the past--his main pic has been around forever.
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    buckguy got a reaction from + glutes in Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?   
    You’re buying a fantasy and the providers are concerned that they have to age shave particularly at older ages. If they can carry off the fantasy regardless of their chronological age, it doesn’t concern me. There are far more important things that can be misrepresented.
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    buckguy got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Allen King   
    So can we come back to Allen King and establish if he’s available and what he charges. Cade Maddox has had enough comments on his own threads.
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    buckguy got a reaction from FunGuyUS in Allen King   
    So can we come back to Allen King and establish if he’s available and what he charges. Cade Maddox has had enough comments on his own threads.
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    buckguy got a reaction from djwhfxoxo in 411 on ParkerPitts - Chicago   
    He had an RM escort ad on and off for awhile--the expired indicates that he started in 2017-----he started off as a regular escort and then switched to "cuddling".  He seemed to move his base between Chicago and Nashville. Many if not most of the pics on the masseur ad are several years old. The escort ad pics include some that are probably more recent than the massage ad.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?   
    You’re buying a fantasy and the providers are concerned that they have to age shave particularly at older ages. If they can carry off the fantasy regardless of their chronological age, it doesn’t concern me. There are far more important things that can be misrepresented.
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    buckguy got a reaction from thomas in Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?   
    You’re buying a fantasy and the providers are concerned that they have to age shave particularly at older ages. If they can carry off the fantasy regardless of their chronological age, it doesn’t concern me. There are far more important things that can be misrepresented.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Archangel in Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?   
    You’re buying a fantasy and the providers are concerned that they have to age shave particularly at older ages. If they can carry off the fantasy regardless of their chronological age, it doesn’t concern me. There are far more important things that can be misrepresented.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Wanderoz in 411 on King Scot   
    I joined his OF for a month. He just seemed really haggard in his content and I decided not to go any further.
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    buckguy got a reaction from harlow in GATechJock - Rentman of the day   
    He's been discussed to death already. Unless he changes his business model, I don't see the point of keeping this going.
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    buckguy got a reaction from CarolinaRen in 411 Jackson Howell fm Denver   
    He has a YouTube interview: 
     
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    buckguy got a reaction from SirBillybob in How long between Sessions?   
    Depends. Hagen makes a good point about expectations of different sorts of regulars and there probably also are guys who have unrealistic expectations of intimacy and friendship. Not every “regular” relationship will evolve in the same way. Guys who derive a lot of their income from travel may not see someone “often” but may see them on every visit or every few visits to their city, being a regular can be more elastic for them than for someone who rarely travels.
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    buckguy got a reaction from spidir in Etiquette for initial communication?   
    Many clients, myself included start by showing interest and avoiding specific asks right away (I saw your ad, I’m interested in in/out, x dates/times work for me, I’m traveling/local) and offering to answer any questions.
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    buckguy got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Etiquette for initial communication?   
    Many clients, myself included start by showing interest and avoiding specific asks right away (I saw your ad, I’m interested in in/out, x dates/times work for me, I’m traveling/local) and offering to answer any questions.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Fidler in LatinoMuse in DC 411   
    The tone hasn't exactly "invited" a response. You can look up the poster's history--they've been around and don't appear to be a sock puppet. If you want actual dialogue, you should ask for it. This happens over and over again---someone has a dissenting opinion and it's treated as though its no more or less valid than anything positive. There have been popular guys who turned out to be not so nice to clients, but their critics had to put up with this nonsense before that became apparent.
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    buckguy got a reaction from thomas in Etiquette for initial communication?   
    Many clients, myself included start by showing interest and avoiding specific asks right away (I saw your ad, I’m interested in in/out, x dates/times work for me, I’m traveling/local) and offering to answer any questions.
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    buckguy got a reaction from marylander1940 in How long between Sessions?   
    Depends. Hagen makes a good point about expectations of different sorts of regulars and there probably also are guys who have unrealistic expectations of intimacy and friendship. Not every “regular” relationship will evolve in the same way. Guys who derive a lot of their income from travel may not see someone “often” but may see them on every visit or every few visits to their city, being a regular can be more elastic for them than for someone who rarely travels.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Simon Suraci in How long between Sessions?   
    Depends. Hagen makes a good point about expectations of different sorts of regulars and there probably also are guys who have unrealistic expectations of intimacy and friendship. Not every “regular” relationship will evolve in the same way. Guys who derive a lot of their income from travel may not see someone “often” but may see them on every visit or every few visits to their city, being a regular can be more elastic for them than for someone who rarely travels.
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    buckguy got a reaction from + keroscenefire in Is Onlyfans affecting the escort business?   
    A good summary. The OF model seems to be evolving with more pay per video which, in the long run only works if they produce a regular stream of content. The typical OF claims weekly updates but often don’t even manage to do them monthly. My guess is that we’ll continue on 5he road of a small number of prolific OF a producers who do well and the laggards will come to be easier to spot and less lucrative for their creators.
    Pornstars use OF as an adjunct to their career or a way to extend their ability to monetize it, much as they used to use escorting for this purpose. The non-OF pornstar escorts tend to be from the pre-OF area. Still, if OF becomes less lucrative then I think we may see more new pornstars escorting again.
    I think the pricing volatility has a lot to do with COVID and the absence of an active market for a couple years. Things will settle down, but prices won’t be as low as they used to be.
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    buckguy got a reaction from Chancealot in GATechJock - Rentman of the day   
    He's been discussed to death already. Unless he changes his business model, I don't see the point of keeping this going.
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