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buckguy got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Sean Xavier
Regardless whether this is age shaving or simply running an old ad, as mentioned by Jose, this seems like a distraction from whether or not he delivers. You’re buying a fantasy and most guys over 30 shave a bit anyway. If they can deliver, who cares? There are much more grievous things that people advertise and don’t provide than this.
Ihired Sean the last time he unretired and was impressed with his professionalism. So different from even experienced guys who clearly have trouble remaining in the moment.
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buckguy got a reaction from Walt in SpikeyDeeXXX coming to NYC
You answered your own question, but I have to say that he looks like he's 12 and has a Moe Howard haircut, so I could see him not being everyone's type.
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buckguy got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics.
1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration.
2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly?
3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation?
4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already.
5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed.
6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.
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buckguy got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Ask Me Anything
The interviewers may wonder about your social background (family relationships, abuse, etc.), whether drug use is common, and whether you or your clients experience stings or other legal issues. Many gays assume the most dark aspects of sex work and sex workers and you may get some “well meaning” version questions that seem naive or more likely to come from a straight person.
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buckguy got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics.
1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration.
2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly?
3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation?
4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already.
5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed.
6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.
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buckguy got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Missing here is having clarity on how to handle confirmation and related logistics. I used to think it was me and not having the right wording (so I've tried different ways of asking), but some of the experienced guys seem to know exactly what I'm asking and have a protocol for this---usually they will plan to message the day before or the day of the appointment to confirm and provide location, if they're hosting. If they do that but have to adjust a little at the actual appointment, things go well. Ditto if they suggest my messaging the day or morning before.
I had made an appointment recently with a visitor. The communication had gone OK and he even sent some pics after making the appointment. But then I heard nothing the morning of the multi-hour appointment, so I took the initiative to message him about 4 hours ahead. Nothing until 45 min before the appointment. I've had similar scenarios in the past and have gone along with them, but usually it's been associated with a not-great appointment. This time I said, "sorry, it's gotten too late and I have other plans". He offered new times--maybe a half our or hour later, but I stuck to my guns. I pointed out that I treat this like any other professional interaction and that by the time he responded, I had no idea whether I needed to prepare and I also had no idea where I had to go. I told him I would have been more willing and able to be flexible if he had given me more notice. He came back with saying that I was in his schedule and claimed that 45 minutes was enough (not if I have no idea where I have to go). Interestingly, there was no apology and the excuse for being late (going to the gym) didn't preclude looking at messages earlier. There also was no offer to schedule on another day. My guess is that he had a late night (based on his last RM login) and a long, disorganized trip to the gym. None of that boded well for a good appointment.
So...while most of the questions raised here make sense, a good profile covers most of them, and what may be pivotal is how they want to handle confirmation and ultimately handle the time leading up to the actual appointment. If they can't articulate that, they probably aren't thinking about how best to organize and carry out their work.
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buckguy got a reaction from + Charlie in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Missing here is having clarity on how to handle confirmation and related logistics. I used to think it was me and not having the right wording (so I've tried different ways of asking), but some of the experienced guys seem to know exactly what I'm asking and have a protocol for this---usually they will plan to message the day before or the day of the appointment to confirm and provide location, if they're hosting. If they do that but have to adjust a little at the actual appointment, things go well. Ditto if they suggest my messaging the day or morning before.
I had made an appointment recently with a visitor. The communication had gone OK and he even sent some pics after making the appointment. But then I heard nothing the morning of the multi-hour appointment, so I took the initiative to message him about 4 hours ahead. Nothing until 45 min before the appointment. I've had similar scenarios in the past and have gone along with them, but usually it's been associated with a not-great appointment. This time I said, "sorry, it's gotten too late and I have other plans". He offered new times--maybe a half our or hour later, but I stuck to my guns. I pointed out that I treat this like any other professional interaction and that by the time he responded, I had no idea whether I needed to prepare and I also had no idea where I had to go. I told him I would have been more willing and able to be flexible if he had given me more notice. He came back with saying that I was in his schedule and claimed that 45 minutes was enough (not if I have no idea where I have to go). Interestingly, there was no apology and the excuse for being late (going to the gym) didn't preclude looking at messages earlier. There also was no offer to schedule on another day. My guess is that he had a late night (based on his last RM login) and a long, disorganized trip to the gym. None of that boded well for a good appointment.
So...while most of the questions raised here make sense, a good profile covers most of them, and what may be pivotal is how they want to handle confirmation and ultimately handle the time leading up to the actual appointment. If they can't articulate that, they probably aren't thinking about how best to organize and carry out their work.
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buckguy got a reaction from + Jamie21 in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Missing here is having clarity on how to handle confirmation and related logistics. I used to think it was me and not having the right wording (so I've tried different ways of asking), but some of the experienced guys seem to know exactly what I'm asking and have a protocol for this---usually they will plan to message the day before or the day of the appointment to confirm and provide location, if they're hosting. If they do that but have to adjust a little at the actual appointment, things go well. Ditto if they suggest my messaging the day or morning before.
I had made an appointment recently with a visitor. The communication had gone OK and he even sent some pics after making the appointment. But then I heard nothing the morning of the multi-hour appointment, so I took the initiative to message him about 4 hours ahead. Nothing until 45 min before the appointment. I've had similar scenarios in the past and have gone along with them, but usually it's been associated with a not-great appointment. This time I said, "sorry, it's gotten too late and I have other plans". He offered new times--maybe a half our or hour later, but I stuck to my guns. I pointed out that I treat this like any other professional interaction and that by the time he responded, I had no idea whether I needed to prepare and I also had no idea where I had to go. I told him I would have been more willing and able to be flexible if he had given me more notice. He came back with saying that I was in his schedule and claimed that 45 minutes was enough (not if I have no idea where I have to go). Interestingly, there was no apology and the excuse for being late (going to the gym) didn't preclude looking at messages earlier. There also was no offer to schedule on another day. My guess is that he had a late night (based on his last RM login) and a long, disorganized trip to the gym. None of that boded well for a good appointment.
So...while most of the questions raised here make sense, a good profile covers most of them, and what may be pivotal is how they want to handle confirmation and ultimately handle the time leading up to the actual appointment. If they can't articulate that, they probably aren't thinking about how best to organize and carry out their work.
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buckguy got a reaction from jusmeinbr in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics.
1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration.
2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly?
3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation?
4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already.
5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed.
6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.
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buckguy got a reaction from + Pensant in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics.
1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration.
2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly?
3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation?
4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already.
5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed.
6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.
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buckguy got a reaction from realestateguy75 in What Attributes Do You Seek?
Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics.
1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration.
2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly?
3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation?
4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already.
5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed.
6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.
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buckguy got a reaction from GossipSummary in Otterpatch in SLC
I saw the interview. It doesn't add up and neither does he. He works full time and has 3 other jobs? I noticed that he has a lot of content on OF, but he makes it sound like he doesn't. He seems to be escorting so he can travel to do OF. He talks about depression, yet he works in a field full of judgment about physical stuff and in a business where he's needs to be attentive of others' possibly troubling experiences.---doesn't sound like a good fit.
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buckguy got a reaction from Anthony in 411 Jared Cross - NYC
The thread still has the posts about another provider which the moderators should separate or delete. Some of the complaints refer to that other provider.
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buckguy got a reaction from TJMS in SpikeyDeeXXX coming to NYC
You answered your own question, but I have to say that he looks like he's 12 and has a Moe Howard haircut, so I could see him not being everyone's type.
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buckguy got a reaction from lightdagger in SpikeyDeeXXX coming to NYC
You answered your own question, but I have to say that he looks like he's 12 and has a Moe Howard haircut, so I could see him not being everyone's type.
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buckguy reacted to + purplekow in 411 on Loboa from Milwaukee
Part 2. He was anything but organized. He kept looking for his laptop so he could play gay porn. I told him he did not need it, but he kept looking. Then when that was located, he looked for a music player of some sort, presumably to time our two hour appointment. Finally, he apologized for the communication issues and explained that he has had some distractions and that he has a tendency to get distracted easily.
Physically he was well built but shorter and more cut than bulky. So, at that point I thought that this was just a big mistake and at that point he asked for payment up front. I suggested that after all this commotion did he really think I was going to short change him. I took out the money and placed it on a counter. That is when this clusterfuck took a dramatic turn to a wonder fuck.
We started making out. Great kisser as has been noted before. When his clothes came off, his thighs in particular were shredded from bicycling. His body hair was the perfect placement and amount. His cock and balls were straining agains some sever sexy underwear. After a heavy make out session which was very good, he asked if I would like to play with some toys with him. STarting with a nice butt plug, we moved up to a very large and thick dildo which he did have a bit trouble taking and then a serial ball dildo which brought him great pleasure. Playing with his hot ass and chest and continuing with the kissing was a tremendous amount of fun. We lay down on the bed and took the dildo out of his ass and inserted me in. He tightened up and clenched on and rode me in several different positions.
The rest of the session included mutual oral and several more rides on his roller coaster body. Ultimately he needed to stop several times to replenish fluids. I did not ask if that was related to exertion or prescription drugs. In any case, it was very hot. We fucked for the entire session. Afterwards we went out to a local restaurant next to a gay wear store. We went in the store and he modeled 6 pairs of jock straps, coming out of the changing area into the store proper and giving me and the few other customers a fashion show. I wound up buying him two jock straps, one black with a red stripe around the waist band and running up the middle of the sack. The other a faux leather jock, they did not have actual leather. The leather store next door was closed for dinner. I did enjoy several of the others, but I promised to buy him a gift not break the bank.
We drove back to his hotel and made out in my car and he was off.
So it was a big pain in the ass getting to the good stuff. A lot of the good stuff will likely result in his having pain in the ass for a few days. So if you are going to hire him, and I suggest you do, be aware, it will be a trial by fire to actually get in his bed. Once you do, the bed will definitely be burning afterwards.
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buckguy got a reaction from Poppie in The_LukeMilan is back!
The_LukeMilan - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Columbus, OH | RentMen
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buckguy got a reaction from Harryinny in LexGordy
It looks like the thread this guy started was deleted. Perhaps too much discussion of rates and personal details. Thought I'd make a new thread because he's coming to the US and there may be more conversation closer to his dates.
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buckguy got a reaction from pubic_assistance in LexGordy
It looks like the thread this guy started was deleted. Perhaps too much discussion of rates and personal details. Thought I'd make a new thread because he's coming to the US and there may be more conversation closer to his dates.
LexGordy - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Vienna, Austria | RentMen
RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Vienna, Austria - LexGordy: Gordy Lex
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buckguy got a reaction from BriansBodywork in LatinManuel - Avoid
Is LatinROBERT the partner?
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buckguy got a reaction from Luv2play in Anyone Interested For $1000/Hour?
It is a wasted thread. I mean, no one has any 1st or even second hand knowledge of Michael Boston. With one exception, no one has expressed a willingness to spend $1K and the thread was started by someone who no longer hires. Not even a decent amount of humor.
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buckguy got a reaction from Cliff in Sean Xavier
Regardless whether this is age shaving or simply running an old ad, as mentioned by Jose, this seems like a distraction from whether or not he delivers. You’re buying a fantasy and most guys over 30 shave a bit anyway. If they can deliver, who cares? There are much more grievous things that people advertise and don’t provide than this.
Ihired Sean the last time he unretired and was impressed with his professionalism. So different from even experienced guys who clearly have trouble remaining in the moment.
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buckguy got a reaction from Yukon21 in Sean Xavier
Regardless whether this is age shaving or simply running an old ad, as mentioned by Jose, this seems like a distraction from whether or not he delivers. You’re buying a fantasy and most guys over 30 shave a bit anyway. If they can deliver, who cares? There are much more grievous things that people advertise and don’t provide than this.
Ihired Sean the last time he unretired and was impressed with his professionalism. So different from even experienced guys who clearly have trouble remaining in the moment.
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buckguy got a reaction from + Twinkluvr in JesTwink
What makes this guy so special that this is a pinned thread?