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The usual objective is for the provider to get you off.  If him getting off is essential, then you need to negotiate that ahead of time, although I doubt that anyone can guarantee that outcome.

How do you slow down in the privacy of your own home? Some things like thinking of Mamie Eisenhower will kill the mood with a provider, but start with what works for you. Having a person there to help you do whatever is part of the service that a good provider can accomplish.

How do you slow down in the privacy of your own home? Some things like thinking of Mamie Eisenhower will kill the mood with a provider, but start with what works for you. Having a person there to help you do whatever is part of the service that a good provider can accomplish.

How do you slow down in the privacy of your own home? Some things like thinking of Mamie Eisenhower will kill the mood with a provider, but start with what works for you. Having a person there to help you do whatever is part of the service that a good provider can accomplish.

The usual objective is for the provider to get you off.  If him getting off is essential, then you need to negotiate that ahead of time, although I doubt that anyone can guarantee that outcome.

I consider myself a regular to a provider who visits my city regularly.  He’d contact me before each visit so he can reserve the time slot that works best for me. There were times when he even arranged his trips and schedule to fit mine.

It would be foregivable if his phone went dead but my guess is that’s not what happened. One cancellation without an excuse is a hard pass for me. Two back to back cancellations for any reason is also a hard pass

Evan Bedford has been around for ages and so has that picture.

Interesting thread. The only posters that say they've met him have very few posts to their credit. Yes, you have to start somewhere but when the only posts come from them, and one protests bit much, well....... 
The guy takes the name of pornstar who had enough career to photos and an easily found real name with some semi-recent social media; so you could see he wasn't the guy. The OF sounds like the most scammy type---very brief, poorly shot videos, so whole thing sounds like a grift and hardly worth 3 threads.
There was enough initial interest in this guy that there seemed to be some unicorn hunting behavior---despite plenty of warning, there's always someone who wants guys with negative leading experiences or questionable supporters hoping they'll be lucky. Usually, they're not and it's better to save your money.
My 2 cents on Atlanta: I used to live there and have frequently returned for work.  It may be similar in size to other cities, but it's , eh Atlanta. There usually have been a small number of credible, reasonably long-term guys, but also quite a few who come and go (w/o much credibility) and and many who don't last long or simply not very good or reliable. Atlanta is very transient, esp. among younger people. It's also frankly kind of grifter-ish with lots of would-be entrepreneurs chasing a fast buck and looking for people who are ultimately bigger suckers than they are. It also has a poor reputation among traveling guys---fewer and less lucrative customers than they expect.  
 
 

Interesting thread. The only posters that say they've met him have very few posts to their credit. Yes, you have to start somewhere but when the only posts come from them, and one protests bit much, well....... 
The guy takes the name of pornstar who had enough career to photos and an easily found real name with some semi-recent social media; so you could see he wasn't the guy. The OF sounds like the most scammy type---very brief, poorly shot videos, so whole thing sounds like a grift and hardly worth 3 threads.
There was enough initial interest in this guy that there seemed to be some unicorn hunting behavior---despite plenty of warning, there's always someone who wants guys with negative leading experiences or questionable supporters hoping they'll be lucky. Usually, they're not and it's better to save your money.
My 2 cents on Atlanta: I used to live there and have frequently returned for work.  It may be similar in size to other cities, but it's , eh Atlanta. There usually have been a small number of credible, reasonably long-term guys, but also quite a few who come and go (w/o much credibility) and and many who don't last long or simply not very good or reliable. Atlanta is very transient, esp. among younger people. It's also frankly kind of grifter-ish with lots of would-be entrepreneurs chasing a fast buck and looking for people who are ultimately bigger suckers than they are. It also has a poor reputation among traveling guys---fewer and less lucrative customers than they expect.  
 
 

Repeated changes in appt. time, esp. if it’s more than an hour.

I think it's more typical to be a trainer or go into real estate than to be a lawyer. Some go back to the kinds of jobs they had beforehand--hospitality, bartending, haircutting.  Some comeback after having done physical training and real estate.  What most of these have in common is that they are Plan-B occupations. 

Matt Stevens' recent pics on his ad look like his current OF content and the Twitter posts that support it.  

An incredible flake---ghosting in the middle of a texting exchange and I wasn't the only one.

An incredible flake---ghosting in the middle of a texting exchange and I wasn't the only one.

Saw him ages ago--one of my first hires. He was truly professional in every respect and provided a good experience.  Sounds like he's continued to maintain this.

At least he’s alive. I recall him being a hot mess. The only escort I know of who attended my high high school—not exactly a qualification.

He's been discussed in passing, mostly. I saw him a coupe years ago when he was in NYC. He subsequently moved to Florida and was doing OF rather than RM. He's witty, engaging and versatile--a good BFE in my experience.  His ad seems more fetish-oriented than in the past and i can't comment on that.  He still has OF, as well as Twitter/X, so you can get some idea what he does. He also has an interview with MasculineJason (irritating interviewer but interesting interviewees) and Demystifying Gay Porn 
 
 

He's been discussed in passing, mostly. I saw him a coupe years ago when he was in NYC. He subsequently moved to Florida and was doing OF rather than RM. He's witty, engaging and versatile--a good BFE in my experience.  His ad seems more fetish-oriented than in the past and i can't comment on that.  He still has OF, as well as Twitter/X, so you can get some idea what he does. He also has an interview with MasculineJason (irritating interviewer but interesting interviewees) and Demystifying Gay Porn 
 
 

He's been discussed in passing, mostly. I saw him a coupe years ago when he was in NYC. He subsequently moved to Florida and was doing OF rather than RM. He's witty, engaging and versatile--a good BFE in my experience.  His ad seems more fetish-oriented than in the past and i can't comment on that.  He still has OF, as well as Twitter/X, so you can get some idea what he does. He also has an interview with MasculineJason (irritating interviewer but interesting interviewees) and Demystifying Gay Porn 
 
 

I normally stay away from comments about appearance, but they look like they’re barely in high school.

He began as "Mike Nine Inches" about 25 years ago in Atlanta.

he's very clear about what he wants. The fin-dom thing makes me think he's absorbed something that's very common in Atlanta---being a grifter looking for suckers. The grifters often are suckers themselves, but that shouldn't distract us from the grift. he probably thinks he's being "honest" about wanting to screw with people and come out ahead, but it's just a grift and there's no reason to treat it as anything else.

he's very clear about what he wants. The fin-dom thing makes me think he's absorbed something that's very common in Atlanta---being a grifter looking for suckers. The grifters often are suckers themselves, but that shouldn't distract us from the grift. he probably thinks he's being "honest" about wanting to screw with people and come out ahead, but it's just a grift and there's no reason to treat it as anything else.

He began as "Mike Nine Inches" about 25 years ago in Atlanta.