Does Gay Sex Have To Be Learned ...

[+ Avalon]

Or does it come naturally?

 

When I was young I found males more attractive than females but it wasn't until I was in my teens and first saw gay porn I knew "so that's how it's done!".

 

Many of the Belami models go through a training program to introduce them to male / male sex before they go in front of the camera.

[mike carey]

All sex has to be learned, you don't just 'know'. I am in awe of the gentlemen here who have taught me.

[+ poolboy48220]

I learned how to masturbate from stealing the parents' copy of "Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex (*But Were Afraid to Ask)", I was pre-teen. Well, I *was* masturbating before then, but my technique is too embarrassing to relate, even here.

 

By the time I ventured into my first actual sex with a man, I'd seen plenty of porn to teach me.

[tenderloin]

Interesting question. In my case, it was not as much learning as confirming. For example, for as long as I could remember (early grade school!) I fantasized about guys' butts. I used to think I was alone and pretty sick for wanting to get my tongue up there... Then, one day I saw a gay porn mag and low & behold here's one guy eating the other guy's butt. Aha! I am not alone! There at several other "interests" that I had instinctively that were confirmed the same way. In that way, I guess porn normalized my kinky fantasies.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Gay porn has very little to do with actual gay sex, FYI.

 

As for Bel Ami, they also go through a regime of steroids and veneers. It's a factory process for them, which is why so many of their models look alike.

[MikeBiDude]

Gay porn has very little to do with actual gay sex, FYI.

 

As for Bel Ami, they also go through a regime of steroids and veneers. It's a factory process for them, which is why so many of their models look alike.

It’s like a doll factory, yuck

[+ Charlie]

I was surprisingly innocent when I started. (Gay pornography was available to only a few well-informed purchasers in those days.) I didn't even realize anal sex was a possibility until the first person I was with introduced me to it.

[jjkrkwood]

I think there are natural instincts, which will lead you to "perfect" your performance with practice and frequency. The internet these days is a perfect tool to observe various stuff in action.... Watch, listen and learn.

 

And pay attention to your own body. It will let you know what is working and what isnt.

[FurryDude]

Do baby ducks know how to swim before they hit the water for the first time? Maybe, maybe not, but either way, they sure do pick it up quickly.

 

As a teenager, I fooled around with guys and girls, but I definitely felt I knew what I was doing with the guys a whole lot better than I did with the girls. Probably because I'd been thinking about it non-stop for years by the at point, and had, uh, practiced extensively on myself.

[MartyB]

I think there are natural instincts, which will lead you to "perfect" your performance with practice and frequency. The internet these days is a perfect tool to observe various stuff in action.... Watch, listen and learn.

 

And pay attention to your own body. It will let you know what is working and what isnt.

Before I started having sex with men I never knew how many or what were my erogenous zones like my nips or pits as well as inner thighs and kissing my neck and playing with my butt. I never knew how oral I could be either. Lol. Having sex with guys was so potent for me and very natural. I still had to learn what I liked and didn't like plus it took awhile but I'm not restrictive to a certain type of man but I know when it's right and hot and fun.

[Reluctant Daddy]

Some of us are still learning (I need to find someone to do homework with)

[jjkrkwood]

"The only thing in life I'm convinced is known at birth are girls with their jumping rope anthems." - Smurof

 

FYI - Guys jump rope too !

 

[+ g56whiz]

Absolutely!! Thanks to the emerging porn industry beginning in the late ‘60’s, I was able to limit my sex life to masturbation and fantasy while focusing (I thought) on my career. I was into my forth decade before dealt with my sexuality And became sexually active. Think Anthony Perkins. And given my maturity, partners assumed (wrongly) that I knew what I was doing knew what I wanted. I regret that I was never seduced never sensually initiated into gay sex. Even now while in my dotage I can still experience the thrill of discovery I sometimes also experience the terror of awkwardness. I’m still seeking my inner slut and may go to my grave doing so. Hopefully!!

[+ Pensant]

When in high school, I played around with a neighbor kid my age. I remember we were in his garage and I threw a tennis ball at his crotch and that led to us climbing up into the loft and taking our clothes off. He rubbed his cock back and forth over my stomach until he came, then I lay on top of him and did the same, gliding on his cum. It was amazing and scary. It took a while before discovering oral, anal and kissing, but that came with practice.

[+ friendofsheila]

When in high school, I played around with a neighbor kid my age. I remember we were in his garage and I threw a tennis ball at his crotch and that led to us ....

 

Maybe I should try this at the nearest college tennis court....

[+ Avalon]

When in high school, I played around with a neighbor kid my age. I remember we were in his garage and I threw a tennis ball at his crotch and that led to us climbing up into the loft and taking our clothes off. He rubbed his cock back and forth over my stomach until he came, then I lay on top of him and did the same, gliding on his cum. It was amazing and scary. It took a while before discovering oral, anal and kissing, but that came with practice.

 

Practice makes perfect!

[TruthBTold]

Except for masturbation, which came rather naturally and actually in a semi-awake state in the morning, pretty much every else was learn by doing. My best friend in high school weirdly and gladly enough sort of forced me to give my first blowjob. Then it was pretty much learn by doing and going from one guy to another.

[Bearofdistinction]

Gay porn has very little to do with actual gay sex, FYI.

 

As for Bel Ami, they also go through a regime of steroids and veneers. It's a factory process for them, which is why so many of their models look alike.

 

Do they have a Scratch and Dent Showroom?

[+ Avalon]

Gay porn has very little to do with actual gay sex, FYI.

 

As for Bel Ami, they also go through a regime of steroids and veneers. It's a factory process for them, which is why so many of their models look alike.

 

Some look alike because they are related. Helmut Huxley and Kieran Benning are cousins.

[Bearofdistinction]

Some look alike because they are related. Helmut Huxley and Kieran Benning are cousins.

 

 

They Fist alike They Piss like at Times they even Kiss alike . . .

[gallahadesquire]

[+ Avalon]

 

They Fist alike They Piss like at Times they even Kiss alike . . .

 

"A hot dog makes her lose control". I guess it depends on the size of the "hot dog" ;-)))

 

Belami did have for awhile the Peters Twins.

[rvwnsd]

Some of us are still learning (I need to find someone to do homework with)

 

Practice makes perfect!

As with Catholicism, one practices for one's entire lifetime.