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I personally feel the it was inappropriate to give the name of the escort. You could have asked the same question without revealing the escort. Your post boards on being a review and had it gone through the review process the escort would have been given the opportunity to respond the review before it was published.

 

Yeah..., you missed quite a few posts. It's been clearly established that the OP did not reveal the name of the escort with whom he had a less than stellar experience, and also that the way he structured the post led some, but not all, readers to reach the same erroneous conclusion that you did. There was no violation of this site's rules about posting reviews in the forum. Moving on.

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I would also advise not to hire an escort until you feel very comfortable doing so financially. Otherwise it will be really stressful and place a lot of strain on you before and during the encounter. That is never good. You've done a lot of homework (it sounds like) about the kind of guys available to you. As I have said before, this is like dating in some ways. You remember those situations where you meet someone and invite him/her out. You have the date and either it is so successful that you are willing to ask again or it is not. You don't (in most cases) enter a convent. You move on and ask the next person who strikes you as a potential for a meeting. Or in our cases you first check out the reviews, the profiles or ask fellow guys in the Forum. Once you have identified the second person AND you feel secure money-wise you contact the person and see if he seems amicable to you and to what you want. If yes, then go for it. It will either be a successful meeting or it won't.

That is what happened to me. It wasn't until my third person that I hooked up with that we found that we clicked (or at least I did - and that is what matters). We have seen each other for years now and there are certain get togethers where I am not sure if I want to meet up again. And then the next time we finish and he jumps off the bed and yells, "Now that was great sex," and I wholeheartedly agree. I got lucky I guess.

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@youngboldone this forum is always very informative, but not always kind. You need to be a little thick-skinned but don't give up. Sometimes guys who need to budget are put off by others who seem to have a large amount of expendable income. At other times there is a fair amount of wealth shaming. So take all that with a grain of salt.

 

Yes, it's easier to write off a mediocre experience when the money isn't near and dear, but only you know what the experience is worth to you. I've been banging boys for almost 40 years, so I can only imagine what it would be like to just be exploring this part of your sexuality. I would think a good experience would be almost priceless.

 

Eric is sexy as hell and by all accounts a really good guy. If you can swing it, you will probably have the time of your life. And don't miss Mike if he comes to town again you silly boy. You seem to have a type and they're both great examples of it. ;)

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So I'm kinda late to the party and count me in as one who didn't think he was referring to Eric. Having said that. If the OP is actually considering giving this another try, he needs to run-not walk- but run to see https://rent.men/MattStevens/

Who will be in his neck of the woods shortly. As for Eric, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting him and would absolutely consider hiring him. But for this poster, and right now, Matt Stevens is a perfect fit IMO.

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For what it's worth, I understood the OP perfectly.

 

I understood what he meant.

 

I also understood that the OP was recapping his bad experience with a different escort and asking for information about a different escort, @Eric Hassan.

 

To @youngboldone, count me in as someone who is cautioning you against scrimping enough in the next couple of weeks to pay for an escort session. You are just getting over the less-than-stellar session and acknowledged that you can't afford to do this on a regular basis. You might end up fretting about whether booking the session is a bad idea and, in the process, cause yourself to have a less-than-wonderful time. However, I'd like to offer you a suggestion. Reach out to @Eric Hassan via PM. Explain your situation and see if he is a good fit. He might visit Columbus again in the future and by that time you might have saved up the $$s to pay for a session and have gotten to know whether he is the right escort for you. It could be win-win!

 

Lastly, I can also vouch for @bigvalboy being one of the nicest members of the Forum. To be honest with you, I thought exactly the same thing when I read the original post you made in this thread. Like @bigvalboy I've overspent and regretted it. It would be a bad idea to take this misunderstanding as a cue to leave the Forum.

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I had the pleasure of recently spending time with Eric and on one level I think he would be an excellent fit for you - he's a great communicator, he's very intuitive, he's extremely empathic and an all around nice guy (and insanely good at what he does). He spends a nice amount of time talking and getting to know you and calming any nerves, and getting to know you as a person (and you feel like you get to know him as well). My only concern is that, yes, you seem to be putting a huge amount of pressure on this (or any) encounter to be 'perfect' - and if you have to scrimp and save, that adds to the pressure to the point where it may be doomed to fail. Regardless your decision, I would encourage you to reach out to Eric (who, being a member of this forum, probably has read this thread already). Set up a chat with him (he's easy to talk to via phone or instant message), tell him EXACTLY what you want, what you're concerned about, what your disappointments were in the past...and see how it goes. If you feel like you click...if you feel like you can financially and emotionally handle another hire...

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Then I would say your OP is poorly written. You start out with a link to Mr Hassan's escort page, immediately followed by a description of a lackluster experience. Anyone who reads this will think that the narrative is concerning the escort whose page you just quoted.

 

I hated "room monitors" in grade school and I sure as hell don't like them anymore as an adult. May I suggest @BaronArtz that you go back and reread the OP's post. It appears that everyone else understood that the escort in question was not mentioned.

 

Also, I find this thread to be the epitome of irony. While @BaronArtz has his panties in a wad over escort reviews in the Deli section this thread has turned into the ultimate review for Eric Hassan. :D:D:D

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Perhaps do your saving and then put it away for a while instead of running out right away. Then there is no pressure to get it right immediately. Peruse the reviews, the Forum, Rentmen, other sites. Watch some good porn to see what gets you revved up so you can tell the escort. Once you have made your choice, even suggest to the escort that he view the same clip.

Good luck.

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Are escorts typically open to that? I've got plenty of clips that I would LOVE to duplicate but suggesting "can we re-enact this?" always seemed a bit off to me.

I'd make sure it is something reasonable and not pure fantasy land. I won't go into details (blush blush) but I once asked a certain pornstar to do something I have often seen in scenes. I could tell he was skeptical but he was game. After I choked and nearly suffocated (I guess that kind of gives it away.) He just laughed good-naturedly and said, "Some things definitely look better in porn than real life." :)

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I'd make sure it is something reasonable and not pure fantasy land. I won't go into details (blush blush) but I once asked a certain pornstar to do something I have often seen in scenes. I could tell he was skeptical but he was game. After I choked and nearly suffocated (I guess that kind of gives it away.) He just laughed good-naturedly and said, "Some things definitely look better in porn than real life." :)

 

Forgive me if this derails the thread, but that sounds really freaking hot, @MikeyGMin. Details, please, by private message if you prefer.

 

And I agree with someone else who said this thread has turned into a giant pro- @Eric Hassan thread. I might need to reserve a Manhattan hotel room and contact him again so I can finally stare into those beautiful hard-to-define eyes in person. :-)

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I hated "room monitors" in grade school and I sure as hell don't like them anymore as an adult. May I suggest @BaronArtz that you go back and reread the OP's post. It appears that everyone else understood that the escort in question was not mentioned.

 

Also, I find this thread to be the epitome of irony. While @BaronArtz has his panties in a wad over escort reviews in the Deli section this thread has turned into the ultimate review for Eric Hassan. :D:D:D

 

You ARE a total idiot.

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I hated "room monitors" in grade school and I sure as hell don't like them anymore as an adult. May I suggest @BaronArtz that you go back and reread the OP's post. It appears that everyone else understood that the escort in question was not mentioned.

 

Also, I find this thread to be the epitome of irony. While @BaronArtz has his panties in a wad over escort reviews in the Deli section this thread has turned into the ultimate review for Eric Hassan. :D:D:D

 

When I read the original post, I too thought the OP was referring to Eric when talking about his disappointing experience. But I was busy and did not reply. The OP (or someone) has since edited the post and it's now clear that his experience was not with Eric. But that's NOT the way the post orginally read. So I don't think your criticism is justified.

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When I read the original post, I too thought the OP was referring to Eric when talking about his disappointing experience. But I was busy and did not reply. The OP (or someone) has since edited the post and it's now clear that his experience was not with Eric. But that's NOT the way the post orginally read. So I don't think your criticism is justified.

 

After the edit, the original post is much clearer that Eric is not the escort with whom the OP had a less satisfying encounter. But plenty of us read the original version and understood that right away, and we spoke up to make it clear that we disagreed with Baron's generalized statement that "anyone" who read the first post would reach the same conclusion. That obviously was not true, but Baron stated it as irrefutable fact, in a kind of patronizing, dressing down of the newbie poster. That was unwarranted, and many of us spoke up against the unnecessary putting down of someone just because he didn't craft the most eloquent of posts, particularly when there was no malicious intent to smear an escort. I wouldn't have gone after Baron as hard as Beancounter did, but given Baron's overreaction to the OP, I don't think you can fairly say that Beancounter was not justified to criticize that.

 

The fairest thing to say is that the original post confused some people, while it was fine for others. Can't we all just leave it at that, and move on to helping the OP with his query?

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I'm late to this game but just had the pleasure of spending an afternoon with Eric and he's a sweet, sexy, considerate and generous companion.

 

I've been trying to gravitate toward companion encounters with a deeper emotional connection than in the past and Eric exceeded my expectations.

 

A hearty recommend review is in progress.

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