Escort orgasm - extra? possible?

[uczorro]

Is it reasonable to expect an escort to cum? Or is this something that a client needs to request in advance and possibly pay extra for? This is fairly important to me, but I realize that it's not necessarily usual. Or, is there some sort of language that an escort uses in an ad to let me know it's possible? Please advise. There are a few (esp porn stars) whom I'd love to hire to splash my face and chest.

[Guest]

Depends on the escort. I've hired guys who save it because they have more appointments later in the day. I've hired some who always always cum. It's more the latter than the former in my experience.

 

If the escort is willing to have a candid conversation about your expectations and desires, I would definitely let them know that you want them to do that for you. Shouldn't cost extra but if it does, they should let you know so you're not surprised.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I make it VERY CLEAR that their cumming is part of our session!

[+ purplekow]

I usually do not care if they come or not and most of the time, with a few exceptions, they opt out. I must give them credit as once I get going, stopping before completion is not something I enjoy. Some of them do opt in and come like no one's business and there is one escort who come multiple times, so many in fact that I feel like he should be hiring me. On the occasion that I really want the escort to come, usually I discover this after we have started, some have been able to do so and some not. So, if it really is important to you, state frankly, "I like cream in my coffee but I require come on my chest."

[TruthBTold]

Generally I like them to cum as testament to their enjoyment of our session. I know it really isn't but the delusion remains for me. If they don't by them or me fucking them, then usually I finish them by sucking. So far I have not had to entice them. Of course, my endurance may make it impossible to think other wise.

[MmM]

I enjoy watching them cum. I ask beforehand if this is a possibility. Most I would say prefer not to because of other appointments.

[TruthBTold]

I enjoy watching them cum. I ask beforehand if this is a possibility. Most I would say prefer not to because of other appointments.

 

I know that it is me but it just seems so weird that it is incumbent on the client to insistent on an ejaculation rather than the question being asked by the escort. The escort can then adjust his activity to the answer given by the client. If he does not ask the question then he should assume the client is going to want a cumshot. And if it does not happen then he goes up full rather than empty.

[+ azdr0710]

As always, communicate in a friendly and respectful manner. Guys I've met have ranged from eagerly racing to get themselves off (at my request) to refusing to do it without it being an overnight. And everything in between.

 

Talk it over.

[big-n-tall]

Too ensure there is no ifs, ands, or buts... communicate exactly what you want. If they can't provide what you want, move on. If you want to really see that particular guy (after he tells you he won't/can't cum during a session) talk to him until you can get him to commit.

 

I've only had two working guys ever tell/ask me about not cumming. A pornstar had an overnight planned a few hours after me and told me he would not cum because he was saving it. He wasn't mean about it, but stated it matter of factly. Although, he did promise that next time I saw him, he would. Sadly, he was deported and I never got a chance to see him again. The other pornstar, asked me if he could save it because he committed to another client (for later that night) before I had booked him. Because he is such a good dude and he promised never to ask that of me again. I said ok. He never did asked me again to hold off cumming.

[kewtex]

Sadly, he was deported and I never got a chance to see him again.

 

I may be a terrible person for having laughed out loud, but you just made my day. Thanks!

[big-n-tall]

I may be a terrible person for having laughed out loud, but you just made my day. Thanks!

 

You terrible, evil, wicked man... laughing at my pain. LOL!

[+ oldNbusted]

I'd say if you don't explicitly request it happen, you can't reasonably expect that it will. I don't normally ask for this to happen and most of the time, it hasn't. In fact, it's only happened once when I hadn't requested it.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I never demand it because I understand sometimes it just cannot happen. When I hire a local and it happens, I am very happy. When I hire a traveler and it happens, I bounce against the walls out of joy. I do not keep a documented record, but I would say it happens half of the times.

Sometimes I cannot come. I am hard to nut. The first two times I hired Eli, I remember I did not come even when he did, he was very disappointed. I did come in our third time (when I come is like the Niagara Falls) and I will never forget the expression of happiness in his face.

Orgasms are amazing, but they are overrated.

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[MikeyGMin]

My experience has been that porn performers -- unless they are traveling -- are usually pretty reliable. After all, they are trained sexual athletes.

 

If the guy is traveling, you got to cut him some slack. We all know they need multiple appointments to make a profit, so they can be forgiven for holding some back.

[big-n-tall]

I'd say if you don't explicitly request it happen, you can't reasonably expect that it will. I don't normally ask for this to happen and most of the time, it hasn't. In fact, it's only happened once when I hadn't requested it.

 

I can't exactly agree with your first statement, at least not in my case. I say request it definitely to be sure. Especially with the guys you see for the first time. I can't say it's a necessary request all the time.

 

The vast majority of the encounters I have had with working guys (new and rehires), they came. I never had to request the guy had to cum. The ones that didn't (besides the 2 examples I gave previously) were because the escort just couldn't cum no matter what we did (sometimes I couldn't either). There was one guy who wouldn't cum because of an agreement with his partner or at least that's what he told some people. However, the majority of the time we met, he would cum for me. The guy I've seen the most, if I cum before him, he always wants me to get him off. Almost sometimes begs for it. One encounter we had he just couldn't orgasm... all other times he has.

 

The only other guy I currently see, who doesn't cum every time we meet, has anal orgasms. So whether he ejaculates or not... I still have the pleasure of making him orgasm. ...but that's another story.

[+ purplekow]

I must add, that my major concern is not whether the escort comes, rather it is that I come....not too early, so the fun is limited; not too late, which can be painful for me; but rather just at the right spot that gives the most intense orgasm and the largest splash of come. If I can find the sweet spot for the escort, so much the better. Selfishly, I feel more responsible for my own well timed orgasm and as the escort is providing a service, I hope he feels similarly.

[LADoug1]

I had several experiences with an escort who would fake an orgasm if I asked them to cum. Buzz kill.

[+ nycman]

Thankfully, I honestly don't care if they cum or not.

 

Story time:

Last night I hired and the guy is obviously hired more

as a top than as a bottom. In fact I'd be willing to bet

it had been weeks since he'd been fucked.

 

Once we got going he was literally begging to cum but

he kept saying "once I cum I won't be able to get fucked

like this". I politely said...."you can and you will". Which

of course drove him even more insane.

 

Once I finally let him cum....you could see the relief quickly

followed by trepidation on his face. After a few minutes of

cuddling, caressing, and edging...he eagerly jumped on top

of me, guided my cock into his hole and rode to the finale.

 

I think even he was surprised.

[Rudynate]

I dont usually ask because it's not that important to my enjoyment that he comes. I probably come with an escort only about half the time. It takes me forever to come and I only make the effort with a guy I'm really comfortable with.

[paulw]

I like it a lot when an escort cums. While I know this is a business transaction, when escorts promise a boyfriend experience, I would assume this would be part of the deal. My last two experiences involved escorts who did not; prior to that, I can't recall a time when an escort I hired did not cum. I plan to ask in advance from now on.

[liubit]

I really enjoy it when the escort cums, particularly when he does so in my mouth. I then kiss him hard, and we share his load. Hot.

[Man Crush Morris]

It's more important that I cum,actually. I have fun with lots of guys and they don't always make me ejaculate.

 

My all time best guy always made me cum, though.