Ever bump into an escort in real life?

[creoleblanche]

This is a "what are the chances" tale. I was on vaca in CA & driving from SF to Petaluma on roads less traveled to visit friends. On a two way road, pretty much in the middle of nowhere - farmland on either side of the road, and very little traffic. I came to an area where roadwork was being done. They were stopping traffic, then you had to drive behind a work truck to get through the construction. The same truck, and driver of course, would lead one side through the construction, pull over & let them continue, then the same on the other side, over and over again. It was only for 30-40 yards. I was waiting to go behind the "lead truck" when I noticed the driver had this very long blond rocker hairdo. I chuckled and said to myself that he looks like Eric Dahl/Keith Panther from the back in the latter days of his porn career. Well, you got it. Yes it was. On a road in the middle of nowhere. Definitely, and all buffed out. I could tell with his big arm resting on the truck window. I always had the hots for him, & had missed hiring him years ago when he was performing at the Show Palace in NYC. Then, I just couldn't help myself, thinking it was fate, kismet, meant to be. So I just kept going round & round, one side, then the other trying to decide whether to pull beside him when he stopped - I was in a convertible - and say, "Hey, aren't you...". The fantasy was too incredible. I couldn't get up the nerve, then I became very conspicuous going round & round, & just drove on down the country road, never more frustrated in my life.

Edited October 9, 2017 by creoleblanche

[jonnychgo]

Lately, I've seen Hoytt Walker on the street and in a coffeeshop in Chicago on the North Side. Exchanged glances once, but since I am old, no interest on his part :-(. Another day, another Troll.

[+ Just Sayin]

Lately, I've seen Hoytt Walker on the street and in a coffeeshop in Chicago on the North Side. Exchanged glances once, but since I am old, no interest on his part :-(. Another day, another Troll.

 

I've been admiring his quirkiness for awhile; I think he is based in Atlanta but travels quite a bit

[MmM]

I see Austin all the time in the gym in NYC. I try to respect their privacy; and actually prefer not to say hi unless we've met under different circumstances. I see Colby Kelly all the time at the gym as well. I've fantasized about him, but never actually said hi.

[MaybeMaybeNot]

I saw Jeremy Walker at a mall with a little girl (his daughter?). When I realized who he was, I about died. He was very good looking, but you would never guess how hot he was under his clothes with his clothes on. I can't say he seemed really close to the little girl, but who knows?

 

I was on a job for a couple of days a few months ago and saw a man who used to be a fitness model back in the early 2000s. I recognized him from my days off buying Men's Workout and those magazines. Can't remember where I saw him, porn ads or fitness photos. It's frustrating not to remember. He definitely aged but is still very hot.

[KennF]

I see lots of them locally. Several at the same gym, at least one at the local grocery store, fairly regularly.

 

And a couple of that I found the other way around. Met them and then saw their ads.

 

Bumping into them outside their ad will often affect whether I am more or less interested.

[jonnychgo]

I agree. Was interested in hiring Hoytt, but after seeing his indifference to me not knowing I was the one in communication with him, I wonder how "hot" our encounter would be. I'm definitely rethinking hiring him.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

There's also something to be said for what guys do when they bump into an escort in reality: Do they look but leave him alone, do they quietly approach him or do they make a scene.

 

I've had all three happen before.

[jonnychgo]

BN,

 

Do you mind being quietly approached if alone?

 

Jonny

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

BN,

 

Do you mind being quietly approached if alone?

 

Jonny

 

I think it all depends on the situation and surrounding.

 

I've had guys interrupt me in the middle of eating or a set in the gym to ask me 'if I'm so-and-so.' If they've really made it awkward, I just say 'sorry, no' and move on.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I don’t think this was linked to yet on this thread, but highly relevant:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l52-6JVIGjo

[+ poolboy48220]

I'll make eye contact but let the escort take the lead. If he acknowledges me in some way I'll greet him. I met an escort I'd hired at a mutual friend's party, he was with his boyfriend, and from his reaction, I just acted like this was the first time we'd met. I ran into a Gold Coast dancer in the locker room at the gym, he said hi but was a bit flustered; "My worlds are colliding" is what he said, I think (but with a smile). I saw him later at the gym with his daughter.

[Islesguy]

I'll make eye contact but let the escort take the lead. If he acknowledges me in some way I'll greet him. I met an escort I'd hired at a mutual friend's party, he was with his boyfriend, and from his reaction, I just acted like this was the first time we'd met. I ran into a Gold Coast dancer in the locker room at the gym, he said hi but was a bit flustered; "My worlds are colliding" is what he said, I think (but with a smile). I saw him later at the gym with his daughter.

 

Don't tell George Costanza.

[+ sniper]

Colby Jansen played/coached(and may still, I haven't kept up) for one of the gay rugby teams, I've seen him a couple of times at tournaments.

[JRTravel]

There's also something to be said for what guys do when they bump into an escort in reality: Do they look but leave him alone, do they quietly approach him or do they make a scene.

 

I've had all three happen before.

I saw you once on an airplane, did a double take, then I smiled. You smiled back. I left it at that and remembered why I like you so much.

[gallahadesquire]

Here's a topic....

 

On train, spotted a provider who's services I have used in the past. Things I noticed....

 

- Provider looks in my direction. Can not say he noticed me but i was right across from him

- Provider starts texting

- Provider starts giggling

- Provider's friend is giggling and looks over to me.

 

- Me; Totally humiliated and get off train before my stop.

 

Over reacting?

 

I had this happen to me at a party of twenty-somethings once. We were sitting in a circle in a pretty big room

• The guy next to me looked at me, took off his glasses, giggled, turned to the person next to him, and whispered.
   
  
• She took off her glasses, looked at me, giggled, turned to the person next to her, and whispered.
  
• The next person borrowed someone's glasses, looked at me, giggled, and turned to the person next to them, and whispered ...
  

This went through about 12 iterations before the first fellow told me, "When I take my glasses off, it looks like you're wearing an eyeglass, nose, and mustache desguise."

 

The mustache bit the dust when I got home.

[BasketBaller]

I often have seen Billy Santoro in a DC grocery store. We've gotten so we nod at each other.

It had been a while, and I understand he's had some changes in his life, but I ran into him again yesterday at a different grocery store. He was with a very twinky Latino guy who had a black eye, I wonder what that story is. Once again, we nodded at each other.

[Brian Kevin]

The world is so big— but not that big! I’ve ran into clients, clients with a wife or husband and even kids, I once ran into Boomer Banks and all I could do was sweat and blush.

[+ VictorPowers]

I spotted a client of mine working. He pretended not to know me as I was with someone else. We texted each other dirty things minutes later! It was great.

I have also had people spot me at airports or at my local gym. Those scenarios involved people I hadn't met. It felt really stalkerish.. they didn't approach me, they just mentioned seeing me.

[Rudynate]

The world is so big— but not that big! I’ve ran into clients, clients with a wife or husband and even kids, I once ran into Boomer Banks and all I could do was sweat and blush.

 

I see escorts on the street all the time in San Francisco. My most recent spotting was Kyle Braun at Market and Dolores. I was amazed. He looks good in photos, but in person, whoa!! - Like a runway model in Milan.

[manorbrown]

... I used to see Aspen from Chaosmen quite a bit...think we live in the same ATL suburb....believe it or not I think he's married (to a woman) with kids...I guess there really is such a thing as "gay for pay" (tho' I'm still suspicious about that...:-))

[KennF]

I have also had people spot me at airports or at my local gym. Those scenarios involved people I hadn't met. It felt really stalkerish.. they didn't approach me, they just mentioned seeing me.

 

Would you have preferred if they never mentioned it?

 

Just curious.

[Rudynate]

I spotted a client of mine working. He pretended not to know me as I was with someone else. We texted each other dirty things minutes later! It was great.

I have also had people spot me at airports or at my local gym. Those scenarios involved people I hadn't met. It felt really stalkerish.. they didn't approach me, they just mentioned seeing me.

 

What is stalkerish about it? They saw you, they recognized you, they chose not to speak to you. Nevertheless, seeing you was enough of an event so that they thought it was worth talking about.

[+ poolboy48220]

I'm with Victor on this one. Someone you don't know texts you out of the blue and says "I saw you at the airport yesterday". Unless it's accompanied by "You look much better in person and now I want to hire you, are you available Thursday night?", it's a bit weird.

[Rudynate]

I'm with Victor on this one. Someone you don't know texts you out of the blue and says "I saw you at the airport yesterday". Unless it's accompanied by "You look much better in person and now I want to hire you, are you available Thursday night?", it's a bit weird.

 

I guess I misunderstood. I would never do that for exactly that reason - it seems a little weird, like you need to get a life.