When the appointment is over

[manderville]

Just wondering what other guys experiences are (and I know it will vary) about how the escort behaves when the appt. is over. I know it really is a business transaction, but I've had a couple of well reviewed escorts who amble off to get cleaned up before I am dressed and out the door. One in particular said he had to get going soon (and we were not running over) and began washing up while I was getting dressed. I've read all this reviews about what a great experience. Truly treats you like a king so to speak. He was great for most of the appointment, but that one little act kind of killed the experience for me. Kind of made me feel less than. Has anyone else had that experience? I plan on seeing this guy again and hope that the end is a little more casual so to speak.

 

BTW, Mike Austin is GREAT at the end of the experience. He asks if you want a shower, gets you something to wash up with (perhaps does a quick clean on himself on the sly) comes back and hangs out naked chatting with you.

 

Thanks

[Will Do]

@manderville, below is a thread that may or may not answer your question. It's really kind of all over the place!

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/session-ends-when-the-client-cum.112976/

[+ azdr0710]

yep, all over the place for me, too.....

 

strange, but I'm usually the clockwatcher at meetings!!.....I try to time/choreograph the whole thing so it ends when I want it to.....it sucks when time is actually up, but that's the way it is......but if time is still on your side and you're "finished", ask the dude to just hang out in bed with you and chat about stuff.....if he makes moves toward the shower, politely remind him time isn't up and that you just want to hang out a bit.....he may seem a bit miffed, but he'll know the deal.....

[Guest RexB]

I always say at the beginning that I want all 60 minutes of the hour I booked him for and for him to tell me when the time is coming to a close. I say I want every single minute of his hotness, or beauty, a particular body-part or whatever else might be complimentary to him and I really do mean it. In most cases we do a bit of overtime.

[LADoug1]

It's a buzz kill when the first thing they do is look at their phone. Also had a guy who never even walked me to the door. Just expected me to let myself out. Bummer.

[+ Keith30309]

I've had some really lousy exit experiences but maybe it's best for focus on the positive as a reminder of the importance of the complete experience....

 

I've been invited to share a shower, given a brief post-exertive backrub, offered cold bottled water, wine, etc., tugged back onto a bed for a quick snuggle, cufflinks & tie replaced, held at the door for an impromptu make-out session, and even walked to my car, leaning against it being groped and kissed.

(This last companion is unfortunately not in my home city but I absolutely make it a point to see him anytime possible. I'm a fan and I vote via repeats.)

 

Even if you have a so-so encounter, a wonderful goodbye can leave a positive lasting impression and desire to return.

[jojo]

There is an art to seduction and that is lost among escorts today. The vast majority of escorts look at each encounter as a "transaction". With that mindset, any "art" is lost.

[tsgarp]

On the other hand, I cannot tell you how many times the motto "You pay them to leave" has crossed my mind at the end of a meeting...

[MichiganMan]

jojo said it PERFECTLY....what was once an encounter is now a transaction.....

[+ ArVaGuy]

I met a traveling guy who picked up a book and started reading as I got dressed. This was years ago when I first started hiring. He emailed me several months later about meeting again. I did not reply.

[Rod Hagen]

Intimacy ends with a sexy shared shower; always.

[BaronArtz]

He put his huge arm around me, looked at me and said 'will I see you again'?

 

That was all. I saw him 1OO+ times after that. Until he retired.

[Mo Mason]

There is an art to seduction and that is lost among escorts today. The vast majority of escorts look at each encounter as a "transaction". With that mindset, any "art" is lost.

 

That probably goes both ways. If I want an exceptional encounter then, by God, I'll make it one rather than allow it to be just another transaction.

[big-n-tall]

It depends on a few things imho what may happen. Usually the better escorts don't just kick you out when the party is over, so to speak. Also the better you know the escort, the more likely the escort won't be quick to run you out.

 

In my experience, anything from an exceptionally long chat, to going to the movies or dinner after (off the clock), to the escort seemingly not eager to leave, to long hugs and kisses and lots of goodbyes while trying to leave. Most have asked if I wanted to shower or clean up when play time was over.

 

Don't be disheartened if someone, especially someone you just met seems hurried to get you out the door. I know it sucks and can be a blow to your self esteem, but there are ones who will make you feel like they never want you to leave.

[Mike Monkevicz]

jojo said it PERFECTLY....what was once an encounter is now a transaction.....

So true! Maybe not always but seems more often than NOT!

[Lankypeters]

I met a traveling guy who picked up a book and started reading as I got dressed. This was years ago when I first started hiring. He emailed me several months later about meeting again. I did not reply.

A very well known NYC escort looked over the books on my shelf as I was going down on him. "Anything you want to borrow?" I asked. He apologized.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I've had some really lousy exit experiences but maybe it's best for focus on the positive as a reminder of the importance of the complete experience....

 

I've been invited to share a shower, given a brief post-exertive backrub, offered cold bottled water, wine, etc., tugged back onto a bed for a quick snuggle, cufflinks & tie replaced, held at the door for an impromptu make-out session, and even walked to my car, leaning against it being groped and kissed.

(This last companion is unfortunately not in my home city but I absolutely make it a point to see him anytime possible. I'm a fan and I vote via repeats.)

 

Even if you have a so-so encounter, a wonderful goodbye can leave a positive lasting impression and desire to return.

 

I like your train of thoughts. Each date has a different ending and after all these years of hiring there are very bad and very good ones.

So this is my best ever exit, it is really unique and I wish I had more like this one.

Once I met a visitor escort at his hotel. The chemistry was great, we were both having a really good time, but every 10 minutes he had to stop and go to the bathroom. After the third time, I was puzzled. I asked him what was going on and the guy emphatically apologized explaining he was sick. So we finished our session without me exploring my favorite territory. When I was dressed and really to leave, he was still naked and started hugging me, kissing me, moaning and telling me that he was really horny, that he wanted me to fuck him, and that he wanted to pay me back and see me out of the clock the next day, he was staying only two more days. I was so horny again but I started making excuses because I did not think I would have time to see him. He kept kissing me, and moaning, zipped me down, and gave me head. Until I cum. Another half an hour added to our appointment.

Needless to say I found time two days after, his last day in DC, and we had a great time. But that is another story.

[Lankypeters]

When a working guy grabs for the phone as soon as we're done he's a never-see-again for me. Some of you may recall a NYC-based escort named Lars, a tall, thin sinewy blond with a heavy German accent. The first and last time I saw him he took a phone call mid-session as I was going down on him. "You vant to vatch me jerk off. Ya, that can be." The accent almost made it worth the slight.

[+ poolboy48220]

The very first guy I ever hired jumped up to use the bathroom when we were done. I laid there wondering if that was the norm, but he was in there for barely a minute, came back into the room, and laid down on top of me and we chatted naked for 10 or 15 minutes. Very nice.

 

And not an escort, but a guy I met over one of those phone hookup services back in the early 90s...we had finished and were just laying on the bed, talking, and I kept fondling his cock. He THOUGHT he'd been ready to leave, but apparently his body thought otherwise :-)

[ncc1701d]

Intimacy ends with a sexy shared shower; always.

 

Oh Rod.....please try to impart that wisdom on the newer crop. I've had them check their phone, put on clothes and look at me and the door....

[+ glennnn]

All of this is why Daddy's Forum and the reviews are sooooooooo important. There are literally hundreds of fabulous looking guys to consider and they all sound great. It's our comments here that can make the difference between a WOW, meh, or UGH experience. A big, beautiful cock is wonderful, but respect and consideration are too.

 

As a sidebar, I love the idea of some of our legendary retired escorts starting a finishing school for the youngsters. I picture a chain of such institutions from coast to coast. Now, to select a catchy school name and design the logo. Any ideas?

[ncc1701d]

No school needed, just common sense, honesty, and the golden rule..treat others as you would like to be treated!!!

[tpl]

Just wondering what other guys experiences are (and I know it will vary) about how the escort behaves when the appt. is over. I know it really is a business transaction, but I've had a couple of well reviewed escorts who amble off to get cleaned up before I am dressed and out the door. One in particular said he had to get going soon (and we were not running over) and began washing up while I was getting dressed. I've read all this reviews about what a great experience. Truly treats you like a king so to speak. He was great for most of the appointment, but that one little act kind of killed the experience for me. Kind of made me feel less than. Has anyone else had that experience? I plan on seeing this guy again and hope that the end is a little more casual so to speak.

 

BTW, Mike Austin is GREAT at the end of the experience. He asks if you want a shower, gets you something to wash up with (perhaps does a quick clean on himself on the sly) comes back and hangs out naked chatting with you.

 

Thanks

I've had the same experience too many times. After 45 minutes, it's over and that's it. But a few, can I mention Tristan Baldwin and Mike Waite, enjoy conversation and cuddling, and definitely don't watch the clock.

[gallahadesquire]

I had a three hour with Mike Gaite. Things just naturally came to a natural conclusion, at exactly the three hour point. How he did that, I'll never know. I swear, the man has powers unknown to mortal men.

[ncc1701d]

I had a three hour with Mike Gaite. Things just naturally came to a natural conclusion, at exactly the three hour point. How he did that, I'll never know. I swear, the man has powers unknown to mortal men.

 

that's what separates the men from the boys ;-)