I agree with Tristan Baldwin, whom I see 3 or 4 times a year. He is a great wrestler and great at the erotic.
I also recommend Kyle Braun. I met him in SF, and he is another great wrestler and great into the erotic.
And both Tristan and Kyle are great me and persons. Both are strong, but definitely respect your limits. If you tap out, they "usually" stop immediately.
The extra time is great, if you like to be domianted.