2 hours v 3 hours

[Marlfox]

I usually hire for 3 hours, but unless we go out for a meal first, find that I leave well before the 3 hours are up. I don't want to rush things, but am starting to wonder if I should just hire for 2 hours. So, my question to the escorts here is whether they find 3 hour appointments too long and are they satisfied that the "job" can be properly done in 2 hours?

 

Or, put another way, if they were hiring, would they choose 2 or 3 hours?

[+ purplekow]

Two hours always has seemed enough though I do become sex intoxicated and in my sex drunk stupor, have gone over. I hire for two and plan on possibly paying for three.

[+ glennnn]

Two hours always has seemed enough though I do become sex intoxicated and in my sex drunk stupor, have gone over. I hire for two and plan on possibly paying for three.

 

Absolutely! One hour is not enough if you get into your escort. Two hours gives enough time for conversation, sex and cuddling. However, if you are with a great escort, an extra hour will extend the pleasure and give a sense of luxury and ease. I recommend a minimum of two hours, but, as Kow said, plan on possibly paying for three. It really doesn't pay to rush, because magic moments might be lost if you are watching the clock. I prefer fewer, but longer dates to stay within my budget. Besides, a three hour session pretty much guaranteed multiple orgasms. If you've overcome the getting-acquainted-nerves, why not stay and explore the possibilities at your leisure?

[Marlfox]

Multiple orgasms? It's been my experience that my orgasm is the signal to the escort that they ask if I'd like a shower and have me out the door in 10 minutes.

[+ WmClarke]

Multiple orgasms? It's been my experience that my orgasm is the signal to the escort that they ask if I'd like a shower and have me out the door in 10 minutes.

Then you need to hire better escorts.

[+ Keith30309]

Two or 3 - it all depends on the guy.

I've hired for 2 and wished it was 1 sometimes. Others I've wished it was for 4.

 

With someone I've never met 2 is the default.

[wisconsinguy]

Absolutely! One hour is not enough if you get into your escort. Two hours gives enough time for conversation, sex and cuddling. However, if you are with a great escort, an extra hour will extend the pleasure and give a sense of luxury and ease. I recommend a minimum of two hours, but, as Kow said, plan on possibly paying for three. It really doesn't pay to rush, because magic moments might be lost if you are watching the clock. I prefer fewer, but longer dates to stay within my budget. Besides, a three hour session pretty much guaranteed multiple orgasms. If you've overcome the getting-acquainted-nerves, why not stay and explore the possibilities at your leisure?

Well said, and I agree completely. When I decided to hire, I jumped in with both feet, and hired for an extended weekend. I have done that ever since. We have different sets of needs and wants in life. We also have goals in mind to meet those needs/wants. Other then "play time" there is a lot of great times I had with my escort of choice. And, those times outside the box of sweaty sex, makes the sex even more "explosive." We have different yet the same reasons to hire. The amount of time we spend with an escort will be based on finances, availability, and how "we click" with each other.

[mike carey]

Multiple orgasms? It's been my experience that my orgasm is the signal to the escort that they ask if I'd like a shower and have me out the door in 10 minutes.

I've made it clear that my orgasm is not the end of the meeting. If you've hired for three hours and you orgasm in the first hour that should be a no-brainer. If the hire is an overnight even the slowest escort should realise that it's not the end. I think three hours is a good starting point, but I admit I don't have enough experience to be definitive about that. Somewhere between 2 and 3 hours after dinner is about the extent of play on an overnight, and I have been persuaded to come more than once in that time!

[LADoug1]

I know it may sound silly but sometimes I wish I could hire for an extra 30 minutes i.e. 90 minutes. I've never asked an escort about this and what the rate would be though.

[beachboy]

If its a first time meeting its best to do 1 hour, you can always raise it in the first meeting if you see its going well. Worst case scenario the guy is a douche then an hour wouldn't seem so much. But if you've met someone before and it went well then boost it up to 2/3 hours.

I always hire for 2 hours, but have enough money in my pocket for another hour so if things are going well & I cant get enough of the guy I can extend it to 3 which is what I'll do tomorrow. Honestly? Its gonna be 3 - he's so freekin hot!!

[mike carey]

I know it may sound silly but sometimes I wish I could hire for an extra 30 minutes i.e. 90 minutes.

There's no reason that you can't do this, just ask. There are some escorts who advertise for up to 2 hours as their starting point.

[+ Truereview]

Three hours is my sweet spot. I find many escorts favor it too as rate breaks tend to start at the 3 hour mark. I spend the first 30 minutes catching up with the companion, the next hour warming us up, the next hour going deep, and the last 30 mins kissing goodbye. After years of hiring, I now have a hiring practice that works for me:

• For Regulars: minimum of 3 hours, but typically I hire for a daily (I dislike overnights)
  
• For high potential* new hires: 1 hour w/ extension possibilities if time is available & we have mutual interest
  
• New hires but unsure on potential: 1 hour always. I like testing out unknowns now that I'm experienced
  

*I define high potential as a new escort to me that has positive reviews, good rep, interesting blogs entries, fun Instagram, enticing videos, or intelligent or witty forum postings.

[ncc1701d]

Echoing Truereview's rules....I do a 1-2 hr test drive then longer after that if we click. I like the "flexing" to 2 hr set up idea though and will try that out next time.

[AdamSmith]

I often ask for an "evening," and see how the guy likes to define that.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I like the idea of hiring for 2 hours to start and being prepared to pay for longer in the event you enjoy yourself. I do recommend letting the escort know that you are hiring for 2 hours and ask if they would be willing to stay longer if it's a good match - you don't commit to a longer session, but you at least make sure your man is able to stay longer if you wish.

[MikeBiDude]

I know it may sound silly but sometimes I wish I could hire for an extra 30 minutes i.e. 90 minutes. I've never asked an escort about this and what the rate would be though.

I do 90 minutes all the time. Just ask...you might be pleasantly surprised at the rate quote.

[+ not2rowdy]

I do 90 minutes all the time. Just ask...you might be pleasantly surprised at the rate quote.

 

+1

 

Not an escort but…

 

I’m upfront and indicate I like to do mutual massage. I’m an amateur - but have been known to put my victim into relaxed sleep. So 90 minutes is pretty much a minimum for me. I also often offer to include a meal.

 

The idea is to give the provider several options to consider when they reply to my inquiry.

 

I’ve had some pleasant responses, and sessions, from my inquiry. And some have led to long term relationships. I’ve also found that massage gets better with that provider after the initial session. You get comfortable with the routine and can focus on relaxing.

[Edward]

If you know your escort and they can cum more than once by all means 3 or four hours. But to many escorts think that once you have cum that there job is done and if they are not out the door they are not interactive at all. One hour makes it a rush job at best. 2 hours is probably best unless you know the escort and his game plan.

[Juan Vancouver]

In my personal opinion, my opinion on the subject has absolutely no relevance.

 

Some men like long, relaxed sessions where they never have to think about the time, some prefer to guess the precise minimum of hours in which they can jam-pack all the things they want to do. Some book for one hour and will hide clocks or change the clocks'' time so that they can get a lot of free time from the escort, Some like going for one hour hoping that the escort will be able to extend. Some like hiring for a few hours because they know the escort will not book anything after them, so there's absolutely no rush or pressure for the escort to conserve his energy.

 

What kind of experience do you want to have? How do you want to feel during the experience?

 

It's impossible for us to know the ideal length of a session for you. Only you can decide that.

 

If you are unsure of three hours and are feeling cheated, then book for two and hope you can extend after if the connection is great.

 

The only factor against that is that you will have to keep an eye on the time so that you can decide to keep him or send him home.

 

What do YOU want? That's all that matters.

[Marlfox]

Thanks to everyone who has contributed to this thread. I have arranged to meet a new guy this evening. Following the advice given here, we discussed what would be the appropriate length of time, having regard to what I had in mind. We've agreed on a base of 2 hours, with the possibility of extending if things are still going at the end of that time.

 

I'm a bit nervous as I always am for a first meeting, however having agreed on time flexibility means I know I can relax and enjoy myself.

[+ glennnn]

I know it may sound silly but sometimes I wish I could hire for an extra 30 minutes i.e. 90 minutes. I've never asked an escort about this and what the rate would be though.

 

I think this is a great idea and could be a lucrative marketing strategy for an enterprising escort. I don't want to book an hour (too short), but an hour and a half could be a perfect first session.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I think this is a great idea and could be a lucrative marketing strategy for an enterprising escort. I don't want to book an hour (too short), but an hour and a half could be a perfect first session.

 

I find 90 minutes is a really great length of time. Gives you plenty of time to take it easy and get to know each other but with a lower time/money investment than 2 hours. I've had many guys approach me about 90 minute sessions - I'm happy to offer them, and I'm willing to bet the majority of escorts out there would be similarly welcoming to the idea.

[Moondance]

With someone I've never met 2 [hours] is the default.

Usually true for me too.

I know it may sound silly but sometimes I wish I could hire for an extra 30 minutes, i.e. 90 minutes. I've never asked an escort about this and what the rate would be though.

Not silly at all. The first time I hired it was for 90 minutes. I guess it hadn't occurred to me that I couldn't add-on in half-hour increments. The escort didn't seem to find it unusual. He left his "real world" job to show up (in an immaculately pressed white shirt and tie) for a ... uh ...long lunch hour.

 

I thought an hour might be too rushed, too impersonal. That it would feel over too soon. I know that's not true for everyone, but I enjoy the conversation and the kissing, the foreplay and the afterglow.

 

As it's happened, I've never hired for 90 minutes again. It's almost always for two or three hours, very occasionally for longer.

[ddrjdc]

I generally book for two hours so we are not rushed. I currently see an escort with whom there is a rapport so I book three hours as I always enjoy a long sensual session with him.

[+ SundayZip]

I never book more than an hour with a new escort. I find that personal and sexual chemistry is hard to predict, even if the escort has good reviews and a great reputation. Within 15 minutes of meeting the escort, I decide if I'm going to want more than an hour. If so, I ask if he can extend our date to two hours. There's been times when the escort has said, no... he has another commitment. But more often than not, he's happy to extend the time. If I like an escort enough to hire him again, I start be deciding how I want to spend my time with him and then book enough time cover my desired agenda.