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I've always loved older men... many of us have... here's an article that highlights the value of their experiences:

 

http://instinctmagazine.com/post/check%C2%A0your-ageism-mature-men-make-better-lovers

 

The oldest man I've been with was 84 years young... and I appreciate that experience to this day.

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Anyone else notice that while the escort quoted said most of his clients are older men, he also said they're not unattractive or desperate and see escorts because it's convenient? It bugs me every time I see a post predicated on the thought that older men are unattractive and that's why they hire or that escorts are acting the entire time because their clients who are older are just not attractive.

 

I'm not denying the effects of aging, but damn. Talk about lack of self-esteem. It's not just one poster, it's many, and thinking that looking and being young is the key to sexual success is not conducive to happiness and self-satisfaction as one ages.

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Great thread. I feel like old guys are one of the world's best kept secrets. They're sort of like that exotic tourist destination that only the most sophisticated, in-the-know people know about. I don't want the word to get out about what fabulous partners they can be. I feel really fortunate to be attracted to men my own age.

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I'm not denying the effects of aging, but damn. Talk about lack of self-esteem. It's not just one poster, it's many, and thinking that looking and being young is the key to sexual success is not conducive to happiness and self-satisfaction as one ages

 

I don't really agree. It doesn't need to be a lack of self-esteem that makes you acknowledge that the vast majority of young guys are not interested in older guys. So if your idea of success is scoring with young guys, outside the escorting world, it's just a fact of life that you have to come to terms with. I think what's really key is to not let that be the determining factor in your happiness or self-satisfaction. Those are the guys who make themselves miserable and let it impact their self-esteem.

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How do we define young or old? Isn't that relative or did I miss the policy guidelines?

 

I will date (and most likely bed) a man of any age as long as they are mentally mature, and I find myself physically attracted to them and intrigued by their personality. You'd be surprised how hard it is to find maturity, attractiveness, and personality in the same package - so age becomes irrelevant (in my eyes). I've dated the range from early 20s to 70s. I'm currently dating a 39 y/o who meets all 3 of my criteria and I'm, for the first time ever, dating someone near my age. I'm acknowledging this reality as I write this post, and it feels a bit odd. We'll see how that works out!

 

PS - For those wanting an update, yes, it is Sexyseatmate from the MIA-LAX holiday flight. Thank you, cuspids!

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Yes, you silly boy, you missed my memo. Being behind in you email is not an excuse...

 

Plus or minus 10 years is a "normal" age range. Anything more than 10 years...one of the dudes is old and one of the dudes is young. :)

Fuck! Where have you been all my life? Thank you! Next question: what is the meaning of life? And don't tell me you'd have to kill me if you tell me.

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