LivingnLA Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 thanks for that thorough explainer! Now I am even more worried that some bot thinks this ad would appeal to me. I guess the technology still has a ways to go. Technology is always changing and so is the data gathered and used by it. Without knowing the specific ad and diving into its background, who knows why it can came up? For all we know, it's part of Russian PsyOps propaganda. But, I won't discuss that further as this is not a political thread. Converted a shy twink bottom boy into a bonafide new whore last night thanks to Seeking ! That was one of my favorite hobbies when I exclusively topped! The real fun were the straight married military guys who learned to love bending over for my and their pleasure. Good times! MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kko123 Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 Technology is always changing and so is the data gathered and used by it. Without knowing the specific ad and diving into its background, who knows why it can came up? For all we know, it's part of Russian PsyOps propaganda. But, I won't discuss that further as this is not a political thread. That was one of my favorite hobbies when I exclusively topped! The real fun were the straight married military guys who learned to love bending over for my and their pleasure. Good times! For the new ones I like putting the money in plain sight for them to watch so they learn to directly correlate their sweet tushies and what's happening to them with the money they're earning. It's cute to see them excitedly realizing what profitable commodities their little pink puckers are! MikeBiDude and cany10011 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivingnLA Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 For the new ones I like putting the money in plain sight for them to watch so they learn to directly correlate their sweet tushies and what's happening to them with the money they're earning. It's cute to see them excitedly realizing what profitable commodities their little pink puckers are! You dirty ol' man! I love it. cany10011 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 Can you use SA to just find escorts? There's a lot of local boys who I'd like to hire on a regular basis, but I don't have any desire to get into a relationship or anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivingnLA Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 Can you use SA to just find escorts? There's a lot of local boys who I'd like to hire on a regular basis, but I don't have any desire to get into a relationship or anything. I've had such arrangements. It requires clear communication, which I would not recommend doing on the website as it's almost a sure fire way to get suspended or banned. I try to be upfront on seeking and then take it to another communication channel, sometimes even over a drink or bite to eat. MikeBiDude and + Keith30309 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kko123 Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 Can you use SA to just find escorts? There's a lot of local boys who I'd like to hire on a regular basis, but I don't have any desire to get into a relationship or anything. Every boy is different. But the majority I've met have basically been escorting arrangements as I indicated above. MscleLovr 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 Can you use SA to just find escorts? Essentially, Yes. Young men may be naive or a little unsure about how it will work but IME they have a keen appreciation of the mutual benefits of dating an older man. IMHO it’s incumbent on the older main to be clear and specific about what he is ‘seeking’ and offering in return. And as others have said, it’s best to use another medium such as WhatsApp or an actual meeting over a drink to discuss how the arrangement will work. MikeBiDude and fedssocr1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kko123 Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 Any success stories as of recent gentlemen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 geotagged There is a little bit that can be done to limit this tracking. Limit Ad Tracking and Reset Your Advertising ID on Android or iOS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RealAvalon Posted August 13, 2019 Share Posted August 13, 2019 There is a little bit that can be done to limit this tracking. Limit Ad Tracking and Reset Your Advertising ID on Android or iOS I used that link info. Thanks. + oldNbusted 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted October 26, 2019 Share Posted October 26, 2019 Another question. In your opinion, how much money would you have to make (annual salary) before you should consider getting a guy off SA. As opposed to having an escort relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeepItReal Posted October 26, 2019 Share Posted October 26, 2019 (edited) Another question. In your opinion, how much money would you have to make (annual salary) before you should consider getting a guy off SA. As opposed to having an escort relationship. I would suggest looking at it a different way - how much free cash per month would you need to pay for the expected allowance, meals, gifts etc. In my (limited) experience, if you want an ongoing sugar baby you should expect to shell out $150 a week in allowance, $200 in meals and entertainment a month and another $200 for gifts/rent assistance/"daddy help me" type requests etc a month. So you should have about $1,000 free every month for a sugar baby. This is why it is called a SUGAR baby! So if you live in a smaller city you could probably afford that on $80k a year. If you live in a bigger (more expensive) city, it would need to be something like $100k by my calculations. I made a few assumptions for my calculations, but don't want to get too bogged down into details. You may get lucky and find a sugar baby that needs a lot less sugar, but don't fool yourself - most sugar babies are in it for the sugar. Edited October 26, 2019 by KeepItReal marylander1940, MscleLovr and + FrankR 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aaron James Posted October 26, 2019 Share Posted October 26, 2019 After using SA for the last couple months I can honestly say I’m done. I’ve had a couple of decent meets, but neither will become regulars. I’ve had 4-5 other meets where the guys were either drunk, high, socially inept, and not in any way someone I’d feel comfortable inviting to a hotel room. The quality of guys in other countries and cities might be better than London, but I’m sticking with RM and SleepBoy from here on in. Bearman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted October 26, 2019 Share Posted October 26, 2019 Sorry to learn of your experience @Aaron James. For my part, I like the site for the simple reason that I had great success with SA and found my ideal guy in London. I do feel that any man who’s looking for his counterpart has to be persistent and use the site for longer than a “couple (of) months”. I think I kissed quite a lot of frogs for almost a year before I met my guy. MikeBiDude, marylander1940 and + FrankR 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted October 26, 2019 Share Posted October 26, 2019 Sorry to learn of your experience @Aaron James. For my part, I like the site for the simple reason that I had great success with SA and found my ideal guy in London. I do feel that any man who’s looking for his counterpart has to be persistent and use the site for longer than a “couple (of) months”. I think I kissed quite a lot of frogs for almost a year before I met my guy. I’m approaching 3 years on Seeking. Still one of my favorite daily pleasures checking my inbox (I always check daddy’s messages first!!) I’ve had two arrangements that lasted about six months. Both times the guys just ghosted/disappeared on me - no idea why. I’ve met lots and lots of quality guys who truly appreciate older gentlemen. Many fun dates and intimate time. My “batting average” for a successful date is probably about .700. I’ve mentioned many times that seeking.com is a lot of work, and seeking is not for everyone. You need to really refine your expectations, patience, and don’t be naive. there will be many dead ends, ghostings, etc. I’m very happy with the risk/reward/return on my seeking experience. Many are happier just using RM, I’m using both. + Keith30309, KeepItReal, + FrankR and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 So if you live in a smaller city you could probably afford that on $80k a year. If you live in a bigger (more expensive) city, it would need to be something like $100k by my calculations. I made a few assumptions for my calculations, but don't want to get too bogged down into details. It's probably more than that. I live in Chicago, make 6 digits, and don't consider myself wealthy enough for a sugar baby (or wealthy at all, for that matter). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skip Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 I live in Charlotte which is a smaller city, I guess. KeepitReal. Triple those numbers as a starter. 150 for meals...that's once. Help with rent? One bedrooms here run 1,200-1,500; two bedrooms low 2's. So to get him out of a roommate situation, you have around a thousand. Unfortunately there is no Walmart version of a SB relationship. + bigjoey and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bigjoey Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 It depends on what expenses you are covering. About 15-20 years ago, three of us “gentlemen” were covering the tuition and living expenses of a student at NYU for a few years until he graduated. As I recall, it was several thousand dollars a month. For those of you who have good memories, the young man was “Matthew” at the Gaiety before we enabled him to go to NYU. Movie star handsome, very smart, great in bed and a wonderful personality. marylander1940, John Doe II and MscleLovr 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 In your opinion, how much money would you have to make (annual salary) before you should consider getting a guy off SA If you’re in a big city - I’m thinking of Manhattan or London - in the early stages of dating, you’d be spending at least $2500 a month on entertainment (dinners, drinks, theatre, movies etc). Weekend trips and vacations would obviously cost extra. If the relationship develops, it helps enormously if you can house the guy in an extra bedroom and bathroom in your apartment/house. Otherwise, you'd have to reckon on an extra $2500-3000 a month to help with housing costs and some allowance for clothes etc. Overall, I guess you’d need at least $5000-6000 a month free (from after-tax income or capital) to spend on your Prince Charming (or the equivalent of @bigjoey’s Matthew) I enjoy the company of fit-bodied, goodlooking young men so I never minded spending this sort of money. I viewed it as helping them make their way in the world, and of course it provided me with a great social life and entertainment. marylander1940 and jazboy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skip Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 MscleLovr is much more realistic. marylander1940 and MscleLovr 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 MscleLovr is much more realistic. Realistic about what some of these boys dream of....but $3000 a month does seem to be the magic number that gets anyone ( except the egotistical assholes you don't want anyway) to sit up and listen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 Realistic about what some of these boys dream of....but $3000 a month does seem to be the magic number that gets anyone ( except the egotistical assholes you don't want anyway) to sit up and listen. Some on here have bragged about a 500 weekend in Hawaii in $200 overnights with twinks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 If you’re in a big city - I’m thinking of Manhattan or London - in the early stages of dating, you’d be spending at least $2500 a month on entertainment (dinners, drinks, theatre, movies etc). Weekend trips and vacations would obviously cost extra. If the relationship develops, it helps enormously if you can house the guy in an extra bedroom and bathroom in your apartment/house. Otherwise, you'd have to reckon on an extra $2500-3000 a month to help with housing costs and some allowance for clothes etc. Overall, I guess you’d need at least $5000-6000 a month free (from after-tax income or capital) to spend on your Prince Charming (or the equivalent of @bigjoey’s Matthew) I enjoy the company of fit-bodied, goodlooking young men so I never minded spending this sort of money. I viewed it as helping them make their way in the world, and of course it provided me with a great social life and entertainment. Is not dating if money is involved. You’re hiring/paying Bearman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 Some on here have bragged about a 500 weekend in Hawaii in $200 overnights with twinks “Bragged”? Or just relayed various experiences? ??♂️ marylander1940 and + Keith30309 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted October 27, 2019 Share Posted October 27, 2019 “Bragged”? Or just relayed various experiences? ??♂️ that's in the eyes of the beholder... (or should I say poster). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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