MikeBiDude Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 He'll run into a wall called reality... or find someone stupid to support him for nothing. I joined S.A. today! Let’s see! How goes your SA experience? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Have you scored with any hottie lately? Yes. I have 3-4 in the rotation right now. Are you offering a free room at your crib, a recommendation letter to a university, LOL No, never have. tennisjock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gallahadesquire Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 There was a hot bench program (a spin off of judge Judy) Of her young lady who was charging a gentleman for her time to be with him. They all but called her a prostitute, and she saw nothing wrong with that. + goosh69 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 guys asking for an expensive dinner to meet first This hasn’t happened to me. Starbucks/Peet’s only for first meet, no allowance or compensation. If we get along, chemistry good, feels safe...some mutual benefit might occur. and hiring too... Not sure what you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 “ Seeking Rent Assistance Travel with You Tuition & School Support Vacations Looking for a humble yet confident [platonic at first] companion to live with and travel the world....” All this and PLATONIC. I don’t know how valid my thinking is here...but I’ve talked to.....quite a few males who got onto SA..... ......So when a male/guy says “platonic” or “no sex” it’s almost always because he has a female friend or acquaintance that has told him that’s how they do it. Just an observation...I’m happy to discuss. P.S. this is separate from the term “no sex” which to the guys sometimes mean “no intercourse/penetration” but NOT platonic, some mutually intimate physical fun can be had but “no sex” I feel some posters are simply over-analysing what people write. A handsome young man may set out his ideal of what an older man can offer and describe what he can provide in return. Similarly, a well-off older man (like me) may describe the ideal young man in physical terms (handsome face/ripped muscled body) and activities (eager bottom/skilled oralist) while being general about what may be offered in return. In my view, both parties recognise that they are describing their Perfect Companion and they know they will have to compromise in reality. And in my direct experience, young men are often very ready to get naked and perform on a first date. That's happened after we've spent an hour talking privately over drinks and I've made them laugh, and I've listened to them and made them feel comfortable with me. And Yes, I've had first dates where a fit and handsome young man has done everything in bed to please me, including swallow my load. Meeting via SA is really not that different from any first date. If there's no chemistry or spark, there's no second date; if interest is ignited, then a relationship can start. All that SA does is establish from the outset that both men have specific needs and wish to have them met. MikeBiDude and + José Soplanucas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 And in my direct experience, young men are often very ready to get naked and perform on a first date. That's happened after we've spent an hour talking privately over drinks and I've made them laugh, and I've listened to them and made them feel comfortable with me. And Yes, I've had first dates where a fit and handsome young man has done everything in bed to please me Agreed! A little conversation and respect and laughs go a long way towards mutual chemistry and fun + glutes and + José Soplanucas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Meeting via SA is really not that different from any first date. If there's no chemistry or spark, there's no second date; if interest is ignited, then a relationship can start. All that SA does is establish from the outset that both men have specific needs and wish to have them met. So now were at dating and chemistry? Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 So now were at dating and chemistry? Lol Since when you do not know that empathy, chemistry, even just politeness make a difference in any human interaction. Even if it is a paid one. You are just being a bitch. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted August 6, 2018 Share Posted August 6, 2018 Since when you do not know that empathy, chemistry, even just politeness make a difference in any human interaction. Even if it is a paid one. You are just being a bitch. Sure when it comes to sex but dating and relationships? You're right though. I forgot what post I was on. My apologies. Carry on.. MikeBiDude and + José Soplanucas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 even with an escort chemistry is helpful. As I noted above the guy I met on whatsyourprice claimed to have a female friend using the site. Now, maybe she was hiding some of the truth from him or maybe the men she met really didn't want anything sexual. Or maybe he just told me that because he didn't want to have sex with me. I keep wavering on whether to splash out the $90 to read my messages on SA. I presume it's easy enough to cancel before it renews, no? + Tarte Gogo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Platonic would be a deal breaker on rentmen or Match.com too. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 even with an escort chemistry is helpful.....I keep wavering on whether to splash out the $90 to read my messages on SA. I presume it's easy enough to cancel before it renews, no? Platonic would be a deal breaker Look, I'm not suggesting that SA is great for everyone. It depends largely on what you, the older man, are seeking. It clearly requires you to commit considerable time and some money. I can only speak for myself. Over the years, I had my fill of handsome muscle-boys and escorts: some were great in bed, some were only so-so. I wanted a regular boyfriend. The dating apps didn't work for me and as I don't go to bars, I felt I had to advertise online. Now I admit I'm very particular; I wanted a good-looking younger guy who's caring, intelligent and very presentable. I didn't mind going on a number of dates: some guys were simply dull, some were uninteresting and I certainly met some no-hopers. I even had one first-date that was so horrendous I can relate the details to general hilarity even years later. But I met the guy I wanted. And it turns out that he'd been looking for someone like me. He's certainly not high-maintenance. Of course, I spend money on him but no more than I'd spend in any relationship. I like us to do things together (travel, theatre, wine and dine etc) and he's brought great joy into my life. We've been together for several years now. + Seaninsf, + WestGuy, MikeBiDude and 7 others 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 But is it PLATONIC? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 But is it PLATONIC? I’m not sure which post you’re shouting “PLATONIC” to? But personally I don’t meet the SA guys who want platonic. I’d usually say something like “looks like we’re not a match! Take care, you will find someone here who is more what you’re looking for...” and move on to the other interests I’ve flagged/favorited or been contacted by. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 But is it PLATONIC? If the question is directed at me @goosh69 Certainly Not! We have had a full physical and throughly enjoyable relationship starting with our first date. I’m not sure which post you’re shouting “PLATONIC” to? But personally I don’t meet the SA guys who want platonic. I’d usually say something like “looks like we’re not a match! Take care, you will find someone here who is more what you’re looking for...” and move on to the other interests I’ve flagged/favorited or been contacted by. I'm with @MikeBiDude on this. To guys I wasn't attracted to, I tended to say "I don't feel we're really compatible. I'm sure you will find someone who's better for you than me, so Good Luck in the future". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted August 8, 2018 Share Posted August 8, 2018 Got it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bigjoey Posted August 20, 2018 Share Posted August 20, 2018 Interesting lawsuit: https://www.law360.com/retail/articles/1074310/scammers-are-extorting-sugar-daddies-dating-site-claims?nl_pk=867465aa-f11e-406e-859c-05a4365fca2c&utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=retail&read_more=1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted August 20, 2018 Share Posted August 20, 2018 Interesting SA exchange for the day... not a bad looking guy...in his profile he describes himself thusly: Sub boy - 19 - little boy here for your pleasure About Me looking for mommy’s or daddy’s to serve. i listen very well and am well behaved Seeking Friends with benefits No strings attached Rent Assistance looking for dominate daddy’s or mommy’s, or both!!! He initiated the following: HIM: hey i got a hotel room in <town> near airport if you wanna come by HIM: the thing is tonight’s my last night and i am short on cash ME: Let me know whenever you head back to <town> HIM: i’m staying in <town> HIM: jumping from crack shack to hotel to hotel but I ran out of money so I’m kind of fucked HIM: could you help me pay for the room until the weekdays and then you can come over like whenever you want on the weekdays? ME: I can’t realky help you HIM: well i’m shit outta luck cause i have no mon y left HIM: my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx Then this morning: HIM: can you come rn or sometime before 11? I cross reference his number using a couple of tools... one name that comes up is “Abdel Kadir Shaikh”. Abdul Kadir Shaikh was a Pakistani politician who was the 13th governor of Sindh from 6 July 1977 to 17 September 1978. He was born in 1926 and died on 27 March 2008 (Wikipedia) Do you: 1) Ask him for a 3-fingered selfie? 2) Run by the drugstore for condoms and lube and go meet him? 3) Run by your meth dealer for a gift and ask him to a nice dinner to get to know one another? 4) Call Homeland Security and ask for references? 5) Block his account, sell your house, move to Mexico and have plastic surgery to alter your appearance? + José Soplanucas, + PapaTony, + Seaninsf and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Travelguy368 Posted August 20, 2018 Share Posted August 20, 2018 Do you: 1) Ask him for a 3-fingered selfie? 2) Run by the drugstore for condoms and lube and go meet him? 3) Run by your meth dealer for a gift and ask him to a nice dinner to get to know one another? 4) Call Homeland Security and ask for references? 5) Block his account, sell your house, move to Mexico and have plastic surgery to alter your appearance? Go with #5 and hope you don't end up looking like Jocelyn Wildenstein when you come back from Mexico... + oldNbusted, + WestGuy and + Keith30309 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 21, 2018 Share Posted August 21, 2018 First time poster here-- I've been on SA for a bit looking for a sugar daddy but haven't had any luck. I'm in my mid to late 20s and work out 5-6 times a week so stay pretty fit. I only have a torso pic on my profile and was wondering if that's a dealbreaker for any of you? I don't have a face pic on the site because I'd just prefer to be discreet about being on it as I do have a career myself. Any tips for a new sugar baby? No face pic in the online SA profile is not a dealbreaker for me. However - if after messaging for a bit and getting comfortable with each other - a face picture via text/email is expected. When the sugar baby has avoided sending the face pic after extended conversation, I smell a rat + muscleboyinsd, SROSFanboy and + Keith30309 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 I think it could lead to being overlooked. Personally face is very important to me. If I just see a torso that is less likely to make me stop. Location probably is a more important factor. Do you live in a major metro area? I also like a profile that is more than just a couple of words and that has a bright, positive outlook. If it is about being broke and needing a lot of help I typically move on by. Not interested in a lot of drama. MikeBiDude and + freecahill1965 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fedssocr1 Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 suddenly there's a bunch of new guys...maybe it's the start of the new school year. I've been conversing with 3 or 4 guys who sound quite promising. This could get expensive :-) kko123, + muscleboyinsd and MikeBiDude 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ freecahill1965 Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 suddenly there's a bunch of new guys...maybe it's the start of the new school year. I've been conversing with 3 or 4 guys who sound quite promising. This could get expensive Is it cheaper than hiring through RM? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 Is it cheaper than hiring through RM? You really need to read all 50pages of the thread yes and no.... tennisjock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ freecahill1965 Posted August 24, 2018 Share Posted August 24, 2018 You really need to read all 50pages of the thread yes and no.... Well, I was just was curious to his opinion. I like additional data points. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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