Quick advice needed: first class problem

[sincitymix]

Oh pish-posh! You just think you have no game -- clearly you've been doing something right since Christmas Eve if Mr SexySeatMate is still in the frame

 

Be careful SSM doesn't think your buddy bringing up your Spanish Colonial means he will be joining you both. I say you bring it up - I'd wager this is what SSM has been waiting for. BTW - what is he wearing?

 

Go on! Do it! Daddy has faith in your swagger and game from NYC!

 

This calls for another drink methinks...

 

I agree don't let your friend become the third wheel or a cock blocker by accident.

[mattr]

What I want to know is will you ever show SSM this thread....

[+ Truereview]

Oh pish-posh! You just think you have no game -- clearly you've been doing something right since Christmas Eve if Mr SexySeatMate is still in the frame

 

Be careful SSM doesn't think your buddy bringing up your Spanish Colonial means he will be joining you both. I say you bring it up - I'd wager this is what SSM has been waiting for. BTW - what is he wearing?

 

Go on! Do it! Daddy has faith in your swagger and game from NYC!

 

This calls for another drink methinks...

Wearing blue cashmere v-neck sweater, dark grey jeans, funky sneakers. He smells amazing...

Good idea... I need to own the moment. Logging off...gonna focus on getting this right...

[BtmBearDad]

Wearing blue cashmere v-neck sweater, dark grey jeans, funky sneakers. He smells amazing...

Good idea... I need to own the moment. Logging off...gonna focus on getting this right...

 

You sure do paint a pretty picture of SSM, matey!

 

Go, log off, get this sorted and come back and fill me in después

 

¡Estoy orgulloso de ti, TR!

[BtmBearDad]

What I want to know is will you ever show SSM this thread....

 

@mattr - some things are verboten!

 

Much like a dirty week-end in Vegas - what happens in the forum, stays in the forum!

[+ FreshFluff]

Breaking news - December 26, 2015, Los Angeles, CA. 6:45pm PST. Stunned Latino's jaw (Truereview's) hit the floor as he and friends watched Sexyseatmate make good on his promise to show up today at charity shopping spree event @ Beverly Center. Sexyseatmate walked in to PF Chang's accompanied by his sister - she "had to return a gift" and she could give him a lift to the mall. Equally stunned gaggle of gay friends gave knowing nods to TR. One particularly smart friend gently pushed his two leftover lettuce wraps and exclaimed: " I know you won't want to eat the spicy chicken...it could be ...(pregnant pause)...disagreeable." We've walked the mall for hours, shopped , laughed. Sister is long gone. My friends already have us getting married and adopting children. No objective opinions from that gang! TR is sitting here in a fitting room as we speak and wondering, what the hell do I do next? Do I ask him back to my place? Too soon? Maybe another date? I could drive him to Santa Monica instead?

 

@BtmBearDad - where the hell are you when I need you?

 

Excellent news, TR! I'll let others advise on how fast to go, but you've got SSM wrapped around your finger.

 

Fluffy is cheering you on from up north.

[+ FreshFluff]

Fluffy, where is your live feed? I don't see it.

 

It's closed circuit for now.

[+ Truereview]

Gentlemen and auntie fluffy, I have been out-maneuvered by a faster, smarter, hunky gay. While I mustered the nerve to propose a house tour, a "tag-along" weho type (no insult meant, I'm just pissed) who came with one of my friends, offered Sexyseatmate a ride to Santa Monica. This muscular Latino sporting a trimmed beard and sun-kissed skin just blurted out " your family's house is just a skip and jump from my place. You are new in town, so let me give you a ride." Sexyseatmate readily accepted. I'm left speechless! Fuming in my car!

[+ Truereview]

What I want to know is will you ever show SSM this thread....

I think this won't be an issue I will have to worry about....But I will have this thread to remind me to swim faster next time.

[BtmBearDad]

I have been out-maneuvered

 

Damn! Damn!! Damn!!! (smashes crystal bowl on the floor)

 

Oh, @Truereview that's hard cheese, mate. Damn gays can be such bitches! Bloody WeHo queen! Well, if nothing else, know this - it is SSM's loss! *snap!*

 

 

Hugs,

BBD

[seaboy4hire]

[+ WmClarke]

It's not over. Jut a minor setback. You can still contact him, thank him for a good time, and casually offer to show him your place some time.

[JohnGerman]

TR, guess we are a little late to your game today. Damnit! Stretch out your claws and put your fucking game face on! Do something! Go tell SSM, in front of the Latin WeHoe, that he left something in the hotel from yesterday and you can take him to your place to pick it up today. He can visit the Latin Hoe's place tomorrow. Or, go whisper in SSM's ear that the Hoe has genital herpes!

[seaboy4hire]

Gentlemen and auntie fluffy, I have been out-maneuvered by a faster, smarter, hunky gay. While I mustered the nerve to propose a house tour, a "tag-along" weho type (no insult meant, I'm just pissed) who came with one of my friends, offered Sexyseatmate a ride to Santa Monica. This muscular Latino sporting a trimmed beard and sun-kissed skin just blurted out " your family's house is just a skip and jump from my place. You are new in town, so let me give you a ride." Sexyseatmate readily accepted. I'm left speechless! Fuming in my car!

 

Oh no! Wish I saw this before my love boat post There will be another I promise.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ purplekow]

If you are still there and he is still there, go up to SSM and say that you are leaving and would love to continue the great conversation you had last night on the drive back to Santa Monica, if he likes. If he goes with the WeHo Ho, lesson learned and a heartbreak avoided. If he seems genuinely torn, turn to the Weho Ho and say, of course since you do not really know each other, I know you will allow me to drive my new friend to his sister's, after all, your friends want your company and he and I have unfinished business. Check and probably mate with that bitch. If he picks you to drive him home, start picking out silver patterns...or at least his and his towels.

[+ FreshFluff]

Forgives my hetero mores, but based on your experience, SSM apparently likes a man who holds out a little on day 1. And you're a better catch than that desperate hoochie. IMO, he'll be back.

 

If he needs some help, text him a flattering selfie.

[TruHart1]

Oh my, this real life blogging is much better than any telenovela on Univision!!! We all just hope there's a happy ending for you, TR, and your SSM!

 

TruHart1

[+ Keith30309]

Think.... How would Hitchcock deal with the WeHo trollop? "Brake failure" on narrow Malibu roads? A loose step leading down to the street and the convertible sportster? An olive stuffed with cyanide in a graciously-served martini?

 

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

[mattr]

Don't be so quick to write SSM off. Remember he came to see you at the charity event. He may have felt that he would be imposing on you to expect that you give him the proverbial ride home (ride homo?) Perhaps he wasn't aware of your level of interest. I would reach out again, mention that your sorry you weren't able to spend more time with him yesterday, tell him you hope he got home safe and suggest meeting for lunch/dinner/slutty evening showing him your bedroom!

[geminibear]

And this is why I fly Southwest and never have to worry about first class cabins and sexyseatmates.

[jackjackjack]

Think.... How would Hitchcock deal with the WeHo trollop? "Brake failure" on narrow Malibu roads? A loose step leading down to the street and the convertible sportster? An olive stuffed with cyanide in a graciously-served martini?

 

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

 

I like how you think Keith. Maybe we can introduce the trollop to a relative of Norman Bates.

[seaboy4hire]

And this is why I fly Southwest and never have to worry about first class cabins and sexyseatmates.

 

Hey now, I pretty much only fly swa.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[geminibear]

[+ Truereview]

Sunday update:

 

• As you all can probably guess, I'm a bit of a dope with courting. your posts are incredibly helpful. Special thanks to @BtmBearDad, who is not only funny but very wise. Where you been hiding all my life, mister?
  
• @JohnGerman ...you get the award for best line: Latin We-Hoe. I laughed heartily and also texted my friend that if he brings that man-stealer around ever he can consider himself out of the inner sanctum. Friend texted back saying he had appropriately warned his "buddy" immediately that he had crossed the pink line and he would be in the Red zone if he touched SSM.
  
• @jackjackjack & @Keith30309 - can I just count on you guys to help me bury the body? I'm hunting down that no-good, man-stealing, pouty-lipped, tanned, buttilicious, muscled, lumbersexual , 20- something we-hoe and...well, as I describe this love criminal, I'm sorta getting why SSM readily accepted a lift!
  
• @geminibear - I get it that you are up in the ranch doing family things and being your macho self, but where were you when this pocket Latino needed you for a much needed laugh? Only good excuse would be something along the lines of a Gaiter rendezvous or a Tony lift-off!
  
• I think, as usual, auntie @FreshFluff nailed it. holding out a bit pays off. That applies to both the homo and hetero world, methinks. Why? See below...
  
• I ended up doing a combo of the sage advice above (and kept my head cool based on @purplekow's real life perspective!). I texted SSMfrom my car last night and told him how much I had appreciated his coming over to the charity event. He shelled out about $500 bucks in gifts for the LGBT center, so I know he puts his money where his mouth is - now if he would just put my .... I digress! ANYWAY, he texted back immediately and said he had appreciated our time together and that, if I was available, he wanted to check out my place next Sunday night when I get back from Miami...again, let me invoke the wisdom of @FreshFluff ! Hold on to your goodies if the guy is a promising catch (just not for too long or you cross into the dreaded...friend zone!)
  
• And where the hell is @bigvalboy 's live feed from Boardwalk ? You know @jawjateck is waiting to blog about it!
  

 

This is my last post on this saga. This thread needs to officially close. PIZZA TIME!

 

I leave you with the following message after this long post (even @stevenkesslar and @Juan Vancouver would poke fun at my logorrhea!)

 

It is time to realign this situation to my own reality and put this matter under my control. You all have been a holiday gift I will never forget...the laughs, the tenderness, the advice, and most importantly, as our very observant @N13 pointed out, the lack of snarkyness and the cornucopia of support for this humble Latino, who despite having a lot going on for him, he is still a geeky, bullied, fearful gay kid at heart. May 2016 bring this forum the kind of genuine bond and posting joy you ALL have displayed.

 

Best, TR

[sincitymix]

Gentlemen and auntie fluffy, I have been out-maneuvered by a faster, smarter, hunky gay. While I mustered the nerve to propose a house tour, a "tag-along" weho type (no insult meant, I'm just pissed) who came with one of my friends, offered Sexyseatmate a ride to Santa Monica. This muscular Latino sporting a trimmed beard and sun-kissed skin just blurted out " your family's house is just a skip and jump from my place. You are new in town, so let me give you a ride." Sexyseatmate readily accepted. I'm left speechless! Fuming in my car!

 

oh no a cock blocker! quick lead pipe his kneecaps!!!! or better yet tell your friend to put his friend in check!