Have you brought an Escort to your personal residence?

[geminibear]

When hiring in my home city I usually have escorts come to my home. I've never had a problem. In fact, one escort did my grocery shopping for me when I was sick. He texted me to see if I wanted to get together, I declined due to bronchitis, he asked if I needed anything, and when I told him I didn't need anything aside from making a quick trip to the supermarket he insisted on going for me. He proceeded to take a bus to the store, buy the groceries, walk them to my house, put them away for me, and heat up some chicken soup.

 

That's pretty awesome. You must be a pretty good guy.

[BabyBoomer]

I have a basement that can serve as a dungeon if I hire a hard-core type for some low-down and dirty acting up

 

I'm shocked.

 

~ Boomer ~

[Guest RexB]

I'm shocked.

 

~ Boomer ~

You are not. You know I'm not the kissy, lovey-dovey, BFE kind, Boomer.

[Juan Vancouver]

(and ANY scort who ballks at the idea of being met outside or at some nearby locale, is pretty much a sign he would have been in that 10%

 

I'd have to disagree.

 

Your safety is not the only one that is to be taken in consideration. Escorts are people too, and they also have to be careful and take the necessary steps to protect their wellness and safety. I will never -under any circumstance- meet a new client outside, be it a cafe, a street corner, restaurant. I will never get on a new client's car to be driven somewhere. Sadly all the scary stories about escorts being kidnapped, killed, robbed or mugged or at best escorts who were left waiting for an non-existing client started by agreeing to meet him at some sketchy place.

 

I will only meet a new client at his address, knocking on his door, or in his hotel room, after I called the hotel and verified this room is in fact being used by such person. Anything else is unnecessarily risky.

 

I realize that meeting an unverified escort might be risky, so my question would be why do it? There's so many men who have a sustained reputation for reliability and safety. If you feel vulnerable, it might be best if you stick to seeing people that have already been vetted by others.

[Tonyko]

I'd have to disagree.

 

Your safety is not the only one that is to be taken in consideration. Escorts are people too, and they also have to be careful and take the necessary steps to protect their wellness and safety. I will never -under any circumstance- meet a new client outside, be it a cafe, a street corner, restaurant. I will never get on a new client's car to be driven somewhere. Sadly all the scary stories about escorts being kidnapped, killed, robbed or mugged or at best escorts who were left waiting for an non-existing client started by agreeing to meet him at some sketchy place.

 

I will only meet a new client at his address, knocking on his door, or in his hotel room, after I called the hotel and verified this room is in fact being used by such person. Anything else is unnecessarily risky.

 

I TOTS understand not getting in a car or a meeting at a sketchy place etc, of course, you never should. But I fail to see the danger in a Starbucks (other than the prices) or a hotel bar or crowded (ie here NYC) street. Yes I understand someone can have bad ppl waiting for you but seems the odds are GREATER that could happen behind a home or apt or (even verified) hotel - door. Sorry, if a scort won't meet me in front of my doorman bldng or at a crowded coffee bar, that's a flag to meo_O.

[Rudynate]

I agree that boundaries are:D essential.

 

Boundaries are one of the best benefits of the client/escort relationship. I always say that it's self-limiting nature is one of it's greatest advantages. Why anyone would want to design that advantage out of the relationship is beyond me.

[big-n-tall]

Nope. Not that I don't want to, but my house is a revolving door of family. There is almost no privacy.

 

I do trust a few that if they ever came over for whatever reason, it wouldn't be a problem. There is one guy (who likes to make a lot of noise) who wants to come over very badly. He wants to let loose and make as much noise as he wants. He usually has to cover his mouth/bite a pillow at a hotel. I still have neighbors though. I told him one day I'll have to rent a cabin in the woods so he can do just that.

[geminibear]

Nope. Not that I don't want to, but my house is a revolving door of family. There is almost no privacy.

 

I do trust a few that if they ever came over for whatever reason, it wouldn't be a problem. There is one guy (who likes to make a lot of noise) who wants to come over very badly. He wants to let loose and make as much noise as he wants. He usually has to cover his mouth/bite a pillow at a hotel. I still have neighbors though. I told him one day I'll have to rent a cabin in the woods so he can do just that.

 

Your in luck B-n-T I just happen to have a cabin in the woods.

 

I would like to bring someone there but I worry it might be too rustic and isolated for most city escorts.

[big-n-tall]

Your in luck B-n-T I just happen to have a cabin in the woods.

 

I would like to bring someone there but I worry it might be too rustic and isolated for most city escorts.

 

Thanks for the offer.

[geminibear]

Thanks for the offer.

 

My pleasure.

 

It really is a nice cabin in the mountains. Hot & cold running water(well), flushable toilets, heat(both fire & propane) electricity, no phone.

 

You and your companions can be as loud as you want. Only neighbors to complain are the chipmunks, rabbits, bears, deer & elk.

 

Amazing mountain views.

[+ WmClarke]

Yes, with a guy I know well. And I'll have him over again if the opportunity presents itself.

[Zman]

Many moons ago, when an escort with whom I had a long and trusted relationship with, left one Monday morning, a rather fine Baume Mercier came up missing.

 

I had to google what this was; then I saw the picture someone posted LOL.

 

I usually do host. Many escorts can't due to their living situations. It's actually a treat when I get to go to the escorts place. I'm always curious to see another person's home. Hotels are neutral ground of course and it's actually where I prefer to meet but it's pricey.

[+ DickyF]

I almost always host. I like to create the ambiance. I've done this 10 times over the last 2 years with 6 guys.

I live downtown so it's pretty convenient for the guys. I always meet them out front on the sidewalk in front of my large condo bldg. no one has objected in the least.

I know there is some risk. I also am aware that some of my neighbors might suspect when they see me go into my place with very attractive young men!

[thickornotatall]

while in school I lived on 10th St..very close to The 9th Circle...I had no idea it was a hustler bar and was very surprised to find $20 pushed into my pocket when I went home with a very handsome older (35?) man...I still remember him living in a beautiful apartment on Riverside Dr...a big fat cock and a thunderstorm come to mind...

[Jon Royce]

Over the past 25 years, I've had at least 100 porn stars and escorts come over and in some cases stay with me for limited or extended periods of time. All but 3 have good experiences.

1. I always go with my gut feeling.

2. Before hand I tuck away valuables.

3. Don't let any use my main computers (I have many).

4. For the most part, don't let them out of my sight while in my place.

 

About 18 months ago, Ricky Decker moved to the D.C. area and he stayed with me on and off for about a year. Other than minor inconveniences, it was a great experience. He's a lot of fun and I consider him a friend now. Never fucked him. Would constantly tease him about being "straight" and sucking cock. blah blah.

 

Was feeling horny one 2013 night. Cruise RB, called a guy visiting from Las Vegas. He came by. Was full of crap. I asked him to leave. After he did I noticed a cheap razor missing out of my bathroom. Long story short I harassed him about the razor and he brought it back.

 

2014 was craving black cock one night - cruised Backpage (here comes the bad judgment story) - guy calls, I give him my address, but not my unit number (I'm in a big building with over 400 apartments). Met him outside the lobby. He nowhere near matched his photos. I asked him to leave. He wanted money. I said no. He wanted to kick my ass, but there were plenty of people around. He ended up leaving when an Arlington, VA police officer stopped by (the cop lives in the building and is friendly with me).

 

Tons of other stories. Today, in fact, I am home and have a 6 p.m. appointment with a black guy that I've been e-mailing with for over a year. I'll report back and maybe have a few photos.

[+ purplekow]

I have had a number of escorts to my home. All were polite and excellent house guests. I have had a large number of dogs for quite some time, as many as 7 and as few as 3. I have had one escort who was allergic to dogs. I have a dog free room and that worked out well. By the way, he was told about the dogs before he came over. I had one escort refuse to come back because he felt that there was a distinct odor of wet dog about the place, though he was courteous while at my home. He never mentioned it while he was there but did so when I called for another appointment. He may have been been correct and some adjustments have been made to limit that particular offense, but that particular escort has not been invited back, more for the manner in which the information was delivered rather than the information itself.

[jawjateck]

To my city condo.....yes......many times.

To my house down on the farm........no........heck no

[unsure]

Yes, I have brought them to my home. Only if I had spoken to them for a while and met them in public first or if it was an agency guy. At least with an agency guy, you have some prescreening done by the agency.

[+ dutchmuch]

To my house down on the farm........no........heck no

Good. Keep your Farm as untouched refuge.

[OneFinger]

I never has escorts at my personal residence. I'd rather pay for a hotel room than have someone in my personal home.

 

And, this doesn't just apply to escorts. The number of people that I invite to my personal residence can be counted on the fingers of one hand. Unless we share the same last name, you're not coming to my home.

[+ dutchmuch]

I never has escorts at my personal residence. I'd rather pay for a hotel room than have someone in my personal home.

 

And, this doesn't just apply to escorts. The number of people that I invite to my personal residence can be counted on the fingers of one hand.

 

Maybe we should call you OneHand?

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I have had escorts and masseurs to my home a handful of times. Two escorts I've seen more than once and have had overnight appointments with them in my home with no issue. For the hourly appointments, the only time I was not in the same room with the escorts was when they asked to use the bathroom.

[mmk123]

I have seen a few traveling escorts at hotel rooms here in Pittsburgh but for the most part, most of the traveling escorts that come to Pgh aren't ones that I would want to see.

 

I would rather have an escort in my home. I am more comfortable here in my home and am more relaxed and I have never had an escort object to coming to my residence.

[mmk123]

I have had a number of escorts to my home. All were polite and excellent house guests. I have had a large number of dogs for quite some time, as many as 7 and as few as 3. I have had one escort who was allergic to dogs. I have a dog free room and that worked out well. By the way, he was told about the dogs before he came over. I had one escort refuse to come back because he felt that there was a distinct odor of wet dog about the place, though he was courteous while at my home. He never mentioned it while he was there but did so when I called for another appointment. He may have been been correct and some adjustments have been made to limit that particular offense, but that particular escort has not been invited back, more for the manner in which the information was delivered rather than the information itself.

 

Wet dog?!?!?! Though not a pleasant odor, I cannot imagine it could be that bad. I do not blame for not having him back. For some reason, I am sure that he(the escort) has dealt with a lot worse than the odor of a wet dog.

[jcmiami1]

I never and never will...my security and my pets security are #1 because in the end - you never know anyone 100%