Have you brought an Escort to your personal residence?

[geminibear]

What are you thoughts about having an escort come to your personal residence?

 

Tell us about your good and bad experiences.

 

I have only hired once in my home city and even then I went to his hotel.

 

~Gem~

[Rudynate]

I haven't because I am in a relationship of long standing and not bringing partners home is one of the ways I compartmentalize my recreational activities.

[AdamSmith]

Dozens and dozens of times.

 

The only misadventure was some sticky fingers making off with a digital camera and a Garmin -- but that was a 'civilian' bar pickup, not a working guy!

[geminibear]

I haven't because I am in a relationship of long standing and not bringing partners home is one of the ways I compartmentalize my recreational activities.

 

Sounds like your making good choices Rudynate.

[AdamSmith]

...the trick in bringing anybody home -- I realized this in picking up some guys (not escorts!) in NYC who were quite literally criminals -- is to arrange things so that you're worth more to them alive than dead.

[mike carey]

I have never brought an escort to my home, but that is not because I don't want to do it, it's just never happened.

[+ WilliamM]

Dozens and dozens of times.

 

The only misadventure was some sticky fingers making off with a digital camera and a Garmin -- but that was a 'civilian' bar pickup, not a working guy!

 

Concerning the 'civilian' bar pickup --

 

I invited bar pickups from Rounds (a once well-known hustler bar in NYC) down to Philadelphia, and never had a problem. To be fair, I was able to get to know them a little during phone calls back and forth before they made the trip. And back then I was interested in college students.

 

There was some protection at Rounds, because the guys did not want to be thrown our of the bar.

[rvwnsd]

What are you thoughts about having an escort come to your personal residence?

 

Tell us about your good and bad experiences.

 

I have only hired once in my home city and even then I went to his hotel.

 

~Gem~

When hiring in my home city I usually have escorts come to my home. I've never had a problem. In fact, one escort did my grocery shopping for me when I was sick. He texted me to see if I wanted to get together, I declined due to bronchitis, he asked if I needed anything, and when I told him I didn't need anything aside from making a quick trip to the supermarket he insisted on going for me. He proceeded to take a bus to the store, buy the groceries, walk them to my house, put them away for me, and heat up some chicken soup.

[mike carey]

That's wonderful, rvwnsd!

[bigvalboy]

The casa in LA was a revolving door. Over the years I guess you could say that I dodged a bullet, figuratively speaking, not literally. The drama of securing valuables, and trying to get the escort to leave after deciding my home would make a nice place to lay their head for awhile just became, well too much drama, so the new casa in FTL is strictly verboten.

[Tonyko]

This has been discussed in other threads (apologies for not linking no time to search lol) where many including myself have told their stories. The results ranged from no problems to nightmares. MY 2cents? When it's a scort new to you, unless it's a vetted celeb (ala Tristan B and many others) it's better to err on the side of CAUTION Especially if you live in a priv detached home or non-security (doorman-less) building. IF an outcall (INcall for you) is the ONLY option and you desp want him, then meet him outside on the St. first, or at a nearby coffee shop etc. ONCE you open your door and he is in, he is IN, and if the guy who's quickly breezed past you bears NO resemblence to the one you hired OR is under some influence or makes you in any way uncomfortable OR demands his $ up front etc and is obviously going to bolt, those now become MOOT points because he is IN and you must now get him OUT. . 90% of the time you will realize thankfully this was all unneccessary because the guy will be great, but WHY take a chance you'll fall into that other 10%? Not worth it . (and ANY scort who ballks at the idea of being met outside or at some nearby locale, is pretty much a sign he would have been in that 10% ALL of this btw is not even addressing that even if your guy was HOT GREAT SWEET WONDERFUL LOVES HIS GRANDMA etc that when he's gone your IPad will be too . So MY 2cents - until you really know the guy, better safe than sorry

[AdamSmith]

and trying to get the escort to leave after deciding my home would make a nice place to lay their head for awhile

 

Clients who have yet to experience this little bagatelle have no idea.

[BaronArtz]

I haven't because I am in a relationship of long standing and not bringing partners home is one of the ways I compartmentalize my recreational activities.

 

My situation exactly. I would be concerned about property loss but my main worry would be an escort becoming 'clingy' and showing up at the most inappropriate times. So my answer is: NEVER.

[Guest RexB]

I've had many escorts come to my house. I've never had even a slightly disagreeable thing to happen in doing that. There are some escorts who can't host so rather than pass them up I have them come over, if they will agree to travel a very short distance from Manhattan to where I live in Brooklyn. For that reason alone I'm glad Brooklyn is now considered cool. Up until not that many years ago if I had asked almost anyone in Manhattan to come to my place in Brooklyn they would have refused, saying, "I don't go to Brooklyn", as if their entire identity was founded on their having a Manhattan address and staying within the boundaries of that borough. It's like their self-esteem would plummet if they left the island. Manhattanites can be the MOST provincial people in the world.

 

So, now that's different and I've maybe once had an escort refuse to come here, even though he had no place to host. We never met but I don't think the hosting element even had anything to do with it. Anyway, my place is very suited to playing around. The furniture is all the right height and stuff for various activities. Plus, I have a basement that can serve as a dungeon if I hire a hard-core type for some low-down and dirty acting up.

 

Also, I like the atmosphere to be just so. I've gone to escort's places, usually hotel rooms, where they say we have to be quiet. Well, I'm very verbal and I like verbal partners, so having to be quiet is a drag. Or sometimes they've had on the TV thinking that'll mask the noise. There's nothing as depressing to me as the sound of a TV if I'm not sitting still in front of it paying attention to watching it. Same goes for a radio, especially one with commercials---total turn-off. But in most instances I've also enjoyed going to the escort's place, his own or his hotel room. Going to hotels is fun. It makes me feel like a tourist in my own town.

 

I like to be able to set up the ambience and I can only do that at my own house.

OK, so I'm a control freak. Slay me.

[whipped guy]

Several times, but with only one guy in whom I know I can trust implicitly. Plus, I have been to his place as well.

 

Of course, he accused me of stealing something from him the first time he was at my place. However, that was simply all in good fun! Plus, to add to the tomfoolery I jokingly replaced the "stolen" item!

[+ WhamIAm]

Never on first meeting. Often with guys I've met and I trust.

[bigvalboy]

Several times, but with only one guy in whom I know I can trust implicitly. Plus, I have been to his place as well.

 

Of course, he accused me of stealing something from him the first time he was at my place. However, that was simply all in good fun! Plus, to add to the tomfoolery I jokingly replaced the "stolen" item!

 

Many moons ago, when an escort with whom I had a long and trusted relationship with, left one Monday morning, a rather fine Baume Mercier came up missing. I was furious and accused him of all sorts of nefarious things and permanently banned him from the kingdom. He passionately pleaded his innocence, and was devastated at my accusations. Two years later, during a move, it fell out from under a cushion on the couch. I promptly called him, and told him what I had found. He was much relieved, And yes...I did make it up to him.

[sincitymix]

No

[whipped guy]

Many moons ago, when an escort with whom I had a long and trusted relationship with, left one Monday morning, a rather fine Baume Mercier came up missing. I was furious and accused him of all sorts of nefarious things and permanently banned him from the kingdom. He pleaded his innocence and was devastated at my accusations. Two years later, during a move, it fell out from under a cushion. I promptly called him, and told him what I had found. He was much relieved, And yes...I did make it up to him.

Well I always suspected it to be the case, but it's now confirmed. BVB is high maintenance!

 

http://www.watchalyzer.com/wp-content/gallery/baume-mercier-capeland-chronograph-44-mm-watches/baume-et-mercier-capeland-chronograph-44mm-watch-10063-side-view.jpg

[rvwnsd]

The casa in LA was a revolving door. Over the years I guess you could say that I dodged a bullet, figuratively speaking, not literally. The drama of securing valuables, and trying to get the escort to leave after deciding my home would make a nice place to lay their head for awhile just became, well too much drama, so the new casa in FTL is strictly verboten.

 

I think hosting escorts requires the host to be adept at setting boundaries and at projecting that image to guys they hire. The escort who did my grocery shopping when I was ill had two very bad roommate situations. At no time did he ask if he could stay with me. The closest we came to crossing that boundary was when I ran into him at Target. He bought several bagfulls of merchandise and, knowing he did not have a car, I offered to drive him home, as I had done after several sessions. He declined, explaining that he did not wish to appear as though he was taking advantage of me.

[+ Gar1eth]

Six times (but only 5 guys) in 12 years of hiring. Two of the guys I had brought into the city.

 

 

 

Many moons ago, when an escort with whom I had a long and trusted relationship with, left one Monday morning, a rather fine Baume Mercier came up missing. I was furious and accused him of all sorts of nefarious things and permanently banned him from the kingdom. He pleaded his innocence and was devastated at my accusations. Two years later, during a move, it fell out from under a cushion. I promptly called him, and told him what I had found. He was much relieved, And yes...I did make it up to him.

 

I have no idea what a Baume Mercier is. I'm going to have to google it. I plum wish you city folk would talk more reg'lar.

 

Gman

[AdamSmith]

Well I always suspected it to be the case, but it's now confirmed. BVB is high maintenance!

 

I think if he buys his own Baume Merciers we can give him a pass?!

[AdamSmith]

I plum wish you city folk would talk more reg'lar.

 

And be understood?

 

Heavens, Lovey!

 

[bigvalboy]

I agree that boundaries are essential. My home at the time was far removed by twenty miles or so and a narrow windy mountain road, from the mean streets of Hollywood Blvd, and was safely tucked within the confines of Suburbia. To most of these escorts, it was like a refuge from the drama that Hollywood would often serve up. So when discussions arose regarding a possible sleep over, check out times was clearly discussed and agreed upon, since returning them to their home turf was more involved than simply opening the front door and showing them the way out. Of course all rules are meant to be broken, so depending on a number of factors....either a cab was called, or they were granted an extended stay....

I think hosting escorts requires the host to be adept at setting boundaries and at projecting that image to guys they hire. The escort who did my grocery shopping when I was ill had two very bad roommate situations. At no time did he ask if he could stay with me. The closest we came to crossing that boundary was when I ran into him at Target. He bought several bagfulls of merchandise and, knowing he did not have a car, I offered to drive him home, as I had done after several sessions. He declined, explaining that he did not wish to appear as though he was taking advantage of me.

[+ Gar1eth]

I agree that boundaries are essential. My home at the time was far removed, and safely tucked within the confines of suburbia. To most of these escorts, it was like a refuge from the drama that Hollywood would often serve up. So when discussions arose regarding a possible sleep over, check out times was clearly discussed and agreed upon, since returning them to their home turf was more involved than simply opening the front door and showing them the way out. Of course all rules are meant to be broken, so depending on a number of factors....either a cab was called, or they were granted an extended stay....

 

 

You could have always laid back, closed your eyes, and thought of Uber (or Lyft)

 

Gman