First Crush

[Kevinatl15]

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[geminibear]

My first experience was great. He went by the name Nikko. Circa 2002. He was hot, sexy, friendly, very accommodating and late. He really opened my eyes to a world of being happy.

 

Then the next 3 times I tried hiring were night mares and actually put me off hiring again until 2013. When I discovered this site. (Actually discovered the site around 2010 but didn't actually hire until much later).

 

Since then I have hired 5 times and all have been very successful events leaving me generally happy. I have even hired a duo twice!

 

I hope I don't jinx myself.

[+ Cash4Trash]

My first was a straight guy working at Rounds, referred by a friend, who's girlfriend had just broken up with him.

After some perfunctory oral we spent the rest of the time writing a love letter to his ex trying to get her back. He was

nice looking with a great bod and I did see him again, the girlfriend didn't. He kept asking why doesn't she love me?

I didn't point out that maybe it was because he was in bed with me.

[whipped guy]

I've posted the long version about my first experience in the past. Let's just say that it was with a very well reviewed guy when this was the Hoboy site and occurred many years before I officially joined this forum. It was my first professional BDSM experience and let's just say that when I left I felt as though I would be able to conquer the world.

 

Just prior to seeing the guy we spoke on the phone and he probably could sense a bit of uncertainty in my voice as he said, "Don't worry you're in good hands!" That combined with his sincere manner put me totally at ease. The rest is history.

 

I sincerely thank what is now Daddy's Reviews as the reason for my successful first experience. In fact, I am not really concerned about the demise of RentBoy as virtually all subsequent hires were the result of either extensive research on this site or the recommendations of friends who helped with my research. Time and effort went into all my hookups including that initial experience. That has proven to be the key to success. As such I have had quite a bit of fun along the way and very few disappointments!

[mike carey]

Sounds great WG, I would be happy to have the sort if intimate encounter you had! But I trust the guys I've read about here to deliver the sort of meeting I dream of! No names, no pack drill!

[+ Charlie]

This questions has been asked several times here over the years. If you search the archives, you will find some interesting long threads of responses.

[whipped guy]

This questions has been asked several times here over the years. If you search the archives, you will find some interesting long threads of responses.

Yes exactly! I've posted the long and somewhat convoluted version of my first hire several times. Hence, my short version above. It definitely is worth seeking out those old threads because there were many quite interesting scenarios posted!

[Reluctant Daddy]

being my first time, my nerves got the best of me. Anxiety's a bitch. I feel like I made an ass of myself. I was just so damn awkward.

 

My first time too. After he left, I kicked myself for being such an idiot.

[Racketjock]

I'm getting either too old to remember the other thread or if I responded. However, I remember the special, amazing man: MichealSt. Louis who then moved and went by Michael/ Ft. Meyers. He was a tan, muscular, sweat man with an amazing body, personality, and just adorable ass. Spent many encounters and overnights with him, the first being in him home town while there for a convention. He was also a massage therapist which transitioned to other exciting fun. Just an incredibly sweet man who I will always fondly remember and wish him all the best in his current life.

[Rod Hagen]

My first time too. After he left, I kicked myself for being such an idiot.

O my gosh. Please don't worry about that. I'm sure you were just fine! And if you weren't there's no reason to sweat it, if you hooked up with one of the good guys your "awkwardness", which I'm sure was a lot less noticeable than you think, rolled off him like water off a duck's ass Just have fun, PLEASE don't worry about being awkward.

[+ WmClarke]

My first experience was an overnight. I was nervous as hell, but he relaxed me right away and we had a great time--really got to know each other well. I've seen him several times and will be having another sleepover soon. We've gone shopping together and gone to the gym together--he's fun to hang around with.

[Rudynate]

My first experience was around 1997 - two or three years before there were internet escort sites. I imagine, before that, escorts might have advertised on bulletin boards on Compuserve and Delphi and that sort of thing. For a few years, I had been watching the personals ads in the Bay Area Reporter. Every week there were 2 or 3 columns of ads for escorts/models. Some had photographs, some didn't. Every once in a while I would call one, but would lose my nerve. A couple times, I made dates, but then didn't like the guys when I got there, so I would give them $50.00 and leave.

 

I called an ad, with no pic, because I liked the description. I called the guy and liked him on the phone. I met him at 18th and Castro, and he was a great-looking young blond guy, probably around 26, completely true to his description. He gave me a kiss, put his arm around my shoulder and we walked back to his place and had a great time. He had an enormous dick and I really had a nice time deep-throating him. I had booked him for an hour and the hour seemed to go by in 15 minutes. I often thought about him after that and thought I would like two hours with him but never got around to calling him back.

[liubit]

My first hire was in 1992-93 in New York. That is a VERY long time ago (oooops). I just remember that it took me ages to get the courage to pick up the phone and call one of those guys who advertised in the gay rags. I also recall my legs faltering as I opened my door. Who was the guy? No idea. How was the experience? Well, in a way not memorable since I can't remember the details but, on the other hand, it must have been pretty damn good, since it launched my "client career" and I am still hiring to this day!! :)

[whipped guy]

Addendum to my above post. I started hiring only after getting my first computer and somehow stumbled on the original HoBoy site. At that time only about half of the escorts had photos and/or websites. Lots were still doing some print advertising. To simplify my research I narrowed things down only to guys who had pics that could be accessed. Of course I never thought that pics could be fake and fortunately none were... being old and out of date was another story! Still, I was lucky to not get burned as I was able to figure out those that were not recent! Of course the fact that I used this site as a spring board more than likely prevented me from hooking up with a scam artist.

 

One other thing! I was naive in that I had not yet discovered the concept of "escort years". That came later, but not THAT much later!

[down_to_business]

Not good. He looked nothing like his ad photo. Was à la carte pricing (add ons for everything), the guy basically closed his eyes and laid back on the bed like a dead fish, and when he spoke it was to tell how much people usually tipped.

[mike carey]

My first time to hire was wonderful but at the same time not so good. I really wanted to meet someone wonderful. He fucked me nicely and I enjoyed it. To start with. I was in a chat room and he said he was someone great I could meet. And he was. Massage, fucking, lovely guy. Problem was, it became routine, that was as much my fault as his, he just wanted me to suck him and for him to fuck me, there was little connection, just the act. I wonder if I should meet him again and lay down some ground rules.

[Epigonos]

I'm sure I posted this on another similar thread so here is the VERY short version. I flew to San Francisco in the fall of 2002 and met with Steven Kesslar. It must have been damn good because I'm still seeing him thirteen years later.

[Vato Loco]

I came back from the bathroom, and found said escort going through my wallet. I am a lot more cautious now.

[+ purplekow]

Briefly, 2004, we were to meet in a NYC hotel, he called several times to push back the time (I later learned he was dancing at the Gaiety) he finally arrived at 2 AM for a 10 PM appointment. He asked if he could shower. We talked through the open door. He invited me to sit on the side of the tub while he showered. He was ripped, wet, hard and asking me if I saw anything I liked. I mumbled a reply as it is hard to talk with your mouth full. I hired him two nights later and spoke with him 2 nights ago.

[TruHart1]

Just like WG posted above, I have written a very long post on the forum previously on my very first escort experience, Ares in NYC, (AresEscortNYC, a member here) and I have never stopped since he opened my eyes that very first time to how amazing this hobby can be. I was such a clueless, nervous newbie, but he made me feel important, desirable and so much more. I still continue to hire this great escort whenever I get to New York. Every time I continue to find my experiences with him just get better and better!

 

My review of him in March of this year expresses it pretty well: http://daddysreviews.com/cruise/2011-02-16/ares_nyc

 

TruHart1

[whipped guy]

Just like WG posted above, I have written a very long post on the forum previously on my very first escort experience, Ares in NYC, (AresEscortNYC, a member here) and I have never stopped since he opened my eyes that very first time to how amazing this hobby can be. I was such a clueless, nervous newbie, but he made me feel important, desirable and so much more. I still continue to hire this great escort whenever I get to New York. Every time I continue to find my experiences with him just get better and better!

 

My review of him in March of this year expresses it pretty well: http://daddysreviews.com/cruise/2011-02-16/ares_nyc

 

TruHart1

Well, after reading the bits and pieces that I posted in this thread I feel like I'm Charles Dickens and I'm writing A Tale of Two Cities and submitting it in serial form. However, I need to add one more comment regarding my first hire.

 

Initially I scheduled with the escort about ten days in advance. Then a few days before the event I got cold feet and canceled. I then got this feeling of emptiness deep in my gut and regretted what I had just done. At the time I was heading into NYC for a convention and the day before we were supposed to meet I decided that I had to go through with it. It was something that I had to do. Fortunately my original time was still available.

 

I have never since experienced that "feeling of emptiness deep in my gut"!

 

Nevermore!

[AdamSmith]

2002, Atlantic City, some godforsaken business conference, after 8 years together with the bf, hankering after some pussy, I hired from an Asian-girl agency in the Yellow Pages (lol it just struck me http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/laugh.png ). Sweet submissive young woman, not that I required submissiveness but she acted out the external conception of native Asian (she was Korean I think) politeness and kindness of gently wrapping me up etc.

 

Then the next day from a TS agency I hired an 18yo (I think!) Filipina (boy just 3 weeks into hormone therapy to transition. 'Boy' with no breasts yet but the sexiest black leather bustier).

 

Life has not quite been the same since.

[Zman]

My first hire went surprisingly well considering I didn't know about this site and just found the guy on craigslist. I was on vacation in Queens NY at the time (around 2005) and I think I found a few interesting ads that day. This was back when craigslist still had it's adult services section or whatever they called it. I think I ended up hiring the one guy who was willing to come to Queens. It worked out. He was attractive, accommodating, and we had a hot time. But it gave me a false impression of Craigslist and my next few hires were regrettable.....

[bigvalboy]

2002, Atlantic City, some godforsaken business conference, after 8 years together with the bf, hankering after some pussy, I hired from an Asian-girl agency in the Yellow Pages (lol it just struck me http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/laugh.png ). Sweet submissive young woman, not that I required submissiveness but she acted out the external conception of native Asian (she was Korean I think) politeness and kindness of gently wrapping me up etc.

 

Then the next day from a TS agency I hired an 18yo (I think!) Filipina (boy just 3 weeks into hormone therapy to transition. 'Boy' with no breasts yet but the sexiest black leather bustier).

 

Life has not quite been the same since.

 

 

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[rocky]

April 2000; I was a scared person but saw this ad and said OK let's do it; found

out he was a very nice person and our first time together was something special. Wow it ended up

together now 15 years later.