Fisting Experience

[doitb4ugo]

Just hoping for some comments/suggestion for exploring this fetish....is this something some escorts can provide? Any experience or thoughts would be welcome. What role does PnP or drugs play in this scene?

[leigh.bess.toad]

Just hoping for some comments/suggestion for exploring this fetish....is this something some escorts can provide? Any experience or thoughts would be welcome. What role does PnP or drugs play in this scene?

 

Rich. I am assuming that you mean the escort would be doing the fisting? Yes there are escorts who can and do this. I know of several off the top of my head. And yes, I have been fisted by one of them. Trust me, there was no PnP or any drugs of any sort whatsoever. I wouldn't recommend that, but I also have a huge aversion to PnP in general. I do know of one escort who has been the fisting bottom in porn but don't know if he does this with clients.

 

If you have more questions or want to talk more, send me a PM.

[BaronArtz]

Jackson Lawless is an escort in NY who specializes in fisting (on the receiving end). If you care to google the name, he has performed the role in quite a few porn movies - rather convincingly I might add.

 

http://www.adam4adam.com/?p=JacksonLawless

 

Any questions, please PM me. I can't write a 'review' here

[leigh.bess.toad]

Maybe this is what you need?

 

[whipped guy]

Recently I was searching an Italian dictionary and stumbled across the following:

 

Fisting: atto sessuale in cui uno dei due partner inserisce un pugno chiuso nell'organo genitale dell'altro. (Well no need to really translate...)

 

It seems that the Italians don't have a word for "fisting" and use the English word. I guess they also like to use the English word partner as well.

 

I wonder if the Germans refer to fisting as being "fausting" since "faust" is the German word for fist. Makes me wonder if Goethe or perhaps Gounod had a thing for it as well!

[+ Charlie]

The story of Dr. Faustus is a medieval legend that long precedes both Goethe and Gounod. However, the late escort Adam Faust certainly chose his escorting name for that reason.

[+ Funguy]

Just a thought….read somewhere that caffeine tightens the rectal muscles. Don't think I want to have my morning cup and go fisting.

[whipped guy]

The story of Dr. Faustus is a medieval legend that long precedes both Goethe and Gounod. However, the late escort Adam Faust certainly chose his escorting name for that reason.

Charlie... I almost was going to mention the late Adam Faust. He was a particular favorite of mine when he was in NYC. His real first name was Adam and he chose Faust for obvious reasons as that was one of his specialties and something that he practiced in his private life. However, we never even remotely got involved with fisting as his other specialty was BDSM. Again it was something that he practiced in his private sex life. He was a really great guy... so kind and caring. I am not sure what happened after he left NYC and moved to LA in order to further his film career, but he is sadly missed.

[doitb4ugo]

Just a thought….read somewhere that caffeine tightens the rectal muscles. Don't think I want to have my morning cup and go fisting.

 

I mentioned PnP and drugs in my query because certain recreational drugs are very much tied to the small groups of fisters that I am recently acquainted with here in Boston. Particularly, T, X and G. 420 also seems prevalent. Their use being an aid to relaxation etc. Also seems to contribute to much longer sessions and variations in play among the group.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I mentioned PnP and drugs in my query because certain recreational drugs are very much tied to the small groups of fisters that I am recently acquainted with here in Boston. Particularly, T, X and G. 420 also seems prevalent. Their use being an aid to relaxation etc. Also seems to contribute to much longer sessions and variations in play among the group.

 

And I"m concerned about the correlation of the use of those drugs in other settings with unsafe sex and an increase in HIV transmission.

[doitb4ugo]

And I"m concerned about the correlation of the use of those drugs in other settings with unsafe sex and an increase in HIV transmission.

 

If you hadn't started your response with an "And"...somehow linking your response in some way to my comment...suggesting what?

 

My comment was in no way an endorsement just a query about what others (if any) are seeing or experiencing in a non-judgemental way. We are all quite well versed in the dangers of any sexual activity, I am merely trying to understand a sub-culture which I find fascinating.

[nate_sf]

I mentioned PnP and drugs in my query because certain recreational drugs are very much tied to the small groups of fisters that I am recently acquainted with here in Boston. Particularly, T, X and G. 420 also seems prevalent. Their use being an aid to relaxation etc. Also seems to contribute to much longer sessions and variations in play among the group.

 

I have a couple of regular clients who like to be fisted, and the only thing they use to relax are over-the-counter poppers... plus lots of lube and time. There does seem to be a correlation between fisting and PnP but it's not a requirement by any means. I'd steer clear of the PnP scenes, it's not necessary.

[Guest ChrisW]

About half of the escort work I do is fisting. I have been fisting for about a decade now, I do understand the correlation between it and partying. Crystal makes guys insatiably horny and a fist provides intense stimulation that a dick just can't do. That being said fisting is not a form of domination for most people (which is the appeal for many people), it is however a deeply bonding and spiritual experience for many and partying muddles that connection. Guys can go further than there normal limits while they are partying but it comes at a cost, they are so wrapped up in the physical sensation of what they are doing that they don't feel pain which when you are doing any kind of extreme kink you need to be aware of your body. At that point it falls on the fisting top to be VERY VERY aware of the bottoms limits by reading there muscles and most tops are not competent enough to do that.

 

For anyone that is fist curious by all means please explore it but find a good top, someone that knows the anatomy of a rectum and how to provide intense pleasure to the bottom as they open them up. I can only speak for myself and what I have observed but fisting is the most intimate form of sex I have ever experienced, its incredibly loving and bonding.

[proust]

Anyone recommend good fisting top and/or bottom escorts in London?

[Michael Paul]

I offer fisting as part of my list of things I will allow. I am a versatile Fister. Prefer to bottom and strongly believe that there should be No PNP of any type taking place while fisting is the main course of action.. For me personally I do not like for form of PNP with play time.. Fisting is a bonding experience between the top and the bottom. My top must have a clear mind in order to read the signal that I will be giving him as we play. Hand gestures and eye contact are a must. Usually I will allow the top to be in control, in hopes that he might be able to push me just a little bit further with my fisting pleasures. At the same time he needs to acknowledge my direction as well. Which will bring a heighten sense of sexual awareness for each of us. Hope that makes sense. There is so much involved when fisting is brought to bed. Guys it's not about greasing up your fist and sticking in a guys butt. It is one of the most pleasurable experiences sexual in my eye that I can receive, it is amazing.

[Cyd_StVincent]

I'm always so excited when I get guys into fisting - both ways - it's one of my favorite forms of sex. I've had some really amazing moments with clients during these sessions. I'll just say, once you feel someones heartbeat at the tips of your fingers you don't soon forget that time with them.

[escortrod]

Anyone recommend good fisting top and/or bottom escorts in London?

*waves* I happen to be a good fisting top in London.

[nategrimes]

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.

 

That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:

 

-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale

 

-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!

 

-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).

 

-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often

 

-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot

 

-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.

 

-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.

 

-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.

 

-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.

 

-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.

 

Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

[Michael Paul]

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.

 

That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:

 

-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale

 

-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!

 

-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).

 

-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often

 

-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot

 

-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.

 

-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.

 

-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.

 

-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.

 

-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.

 

Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

 

All excellent advice.... well stated.

[+ PapaTony]

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.

 

That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:

 

-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale

 

-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!

 

-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).

 

-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often

 

-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot

 

-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.

 

-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.

 

-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.

 

-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.

 

-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.

 

Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

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I've never had an interest in fisting but if ever I were so inclined.... ^ that's my man

 

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[handiacefailure]

Jackson Lawless is an escort in NY who specializes in fisting (on the receiving end). If you care to google the name, he has performed the role in quite a few porn movies - rather convincingly I might add.

 

http://www.adam4adam.com/?p=JacksonLawless

 

Any questions, please PM me. I can't write a 'review' here

 

It's too bad Jackson retired. No fisting experience or interest but I hired him for other services in LA about five years ago. Nice defined build and handsome in a masculine way and very friendly. Would love to hire him again

[LADoug1]

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.

 

That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:

 

-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale

 

-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!

 

-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).

 

-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often

 

-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot

 

-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.

 

-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.

 

-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.

 

-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.

 

-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.

 

Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

"Blood Happens "? Scary and unhealthful.

[escortrod]

"Blood Happens "? Scary and unhealthful.

It's true of anal fisting, though.

[MartyB]

I've learned over the years that things I thought I would never do sexually I do now with great enthusiasm. Fisting is not one of them. Not going there. For those guys who do have fun. Having a dick up my ass and tongue is good enough for me. Lol

[liubit]

I've learned over the years that things I thought I would never do sexually I do now with great enthusiasm. Fisting is not one of them. Not going there. For those guys who do have fun. Having a dick up my ass and tongue is good enough for me. Lol

Ditto.