Escorts that could be described as 'Troubled'

[briancalihc]

I had a young man over last night that was extremely good looking and sexy, but there was something so off about him. He would have this blank dead-pan stare he would always give me every time I asked a question. He was afraid to lay down close to me. He had random physical jerk reactions with his arms and would periodically start humming songs. He was completely not 'all there' and I don't think it was drugs.

 

Am I the only one to have this happen too?

[Decatur Guy]

I had a young man over last night that was extremely good looking and sexy, but there was something so off about him. He would have this blank dead-pan stare he would always give me every time I asked a question. He was afraid to lay down close to me. He had random physical jerk reactions with his arms and would periodically start humming songs. He was completely not 'all there' and I don't think it was drugs.

 

Am I the only one to have this happen too?

 

I didn't have anything that noticeable, but I did connect last fall with an escort who must have left the bedroom six or seven times in the span of an hour he was so distracted. I don't think he went 10 whole minutes without stopping, leaving, resuming.

[biguy]

A little ADHD

[Jaker27]

Usually I'm the one who's running off to the bathroom every 20 minutes. I blame my 50-year-old prostate.

 

But yes, I did once spend 90 minutes with an exceptionally handsome professional model (except that evening) who ran off to the bathroom more often than I did. He was the closest I've met to a sex machine: in constant motion, came twice but still erect when he walked out the door, robotic, dead eyes. I heard later that such behavior can be caused by meth use.

I do that regularly due to having a few beers before. I always wonder if they think it's because i'm doing or done something shady:eek:

[maninsoma]

I once left an appointment because I feared it was going to turn out very badly if I stayed:

 

I got to the escort's apartment and he wasn't there. I was just getting ready to leave when he approached the building and we went inside. Apart from being late returning home, I liked what I saw so I thought I'd continue with the appointment at that point. We went inside and his place was quite depressing: Apart from being messy (which I'm sometimes guilty of), he hardly had any furniture. His mattress was on the floor. I thought to myself: "Okay. When I was young and new to the city, I also slept on a futon on the floor, partly due to budget but also partly because I liked it at that age." So I still thought I would continue with the appointment. It's at this point that things took a really strange turn. The guy said he had to go retrieve laundry from a laundromat and would be right back. Before I had a chance to say anything, he was out the door. I felt very strange sitting alone in someone's apartment whom I had just met. He was gone for a few minutes, during which time I was already heavily leaning towards aborting the appointment, and then returned and proceeded to put his laundry away. Well, not only was this whole thing odd in the sense that I was there for an appointment, not to watch him do his chores, but he seemed just this side of crazy as he was working, muttering to himself and moving in slightly odd ways. I told him that I didn't think things were going to work out and I left.

[LouieD]

If something like you describe happened to me I would get out of there as soon as possible. He could take a sudden erratic turn and become dangerous.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I once left an appointment because I feared it was going to turn out very badly if I stayed:

 

I got to the escort's apartment and he wasn't there. I was just getting ready to leave when he approached the building and we went inside. Apart from being late returning home, I liked what I saw so I thought I'd continue with the appointment at that point. We went inside and his place was quite depressing: Apart from being messy (which I'm sometimes guilty of), he hardly had any furniture. His mattress was on the floor. I thought to myself: "Okay. When I was young and new to the city, I also slept on a futon on the floor, partly due to budget but also partly because I liked it at that age." So I still thought I would continue with the appointment. It's at this point that things took a really strange turn. The guy said he had to go retrieve laundry from a laundromat and would be right back. Before I had a chance to say anything, he was out the door. I felt very strange sitting alone in someone's apartment whom I had just met. He was gone for a few minutes, during which time I was already heavily leaning towards aborting the appointment, and then returned and proceeded to put his laundry away. Well, not only was this whole thing odd in the sense that I was there for an appointment, not to watch him do his chores, but he seemed just this side of crazy as he was working, muttering to himself and moving in slightly odd ways. I told him that I didn't think things were going to work out and I left.

 

Sounds to me like an escort with OCD.

[dfw2sfo]

I was looking for a masseur recently and called a few of interest to me. They are abundant in NYC and I wanted to set something up ASAP so I left no messages. After trying about 3 guys I found one. Later that evening I get a text from one of the guys I called initially but for whom I left no message asking about my call. I said sorry but I was looking for right then and ended up booking with someone else. Well, that angered him terribly. He sent four messages saying F you, don't ever call me again ,etc. Good thing my partner didn't see the texts. Unstable.

[Will Do]

I hired a guy for an overnight and after not-so-great-sex he slept with one pillow under his head and one over his face.

 

I ain't THAT ugly! And he did contact me several times to see if we could get together again. Nope.

[Griffin Donavon]

I hired a guy for an overnight and after not-so-great-sex he slept with one pillow under his head and one over his face.

 

I ain't THAT ugly! And he did contact me several times to see if we could get together again. Nope.

 

Will, I don't think you should have took the way he slept too offense. I know I sleep that way and many of my friends do to keep sun light out of are eyes.. Unless what you wrote was sarcasm haha.

[actor61]

I once had an appointment with a masseur/escort who was so weird that I became entirely fascinated. When he opened the door, he stood behind it and muttered very darkly, "Take off your shoes." No nice to meet you, no hi, How are you - just, "take off your shoes." He had white carpeting, so I didn't think it was that strange of a request, and I complied. He made we walk ahead to his massage room while he skulked behind. The massage wasn't bad but he stopped about every 2 minutes to either drink water or check himself in the bathroom mirror. He left the bathroom door open and I could clearly see him checking his skin, pulling out stray nose hairs and then turning around and checking his butt. Then he would come back in, restart the massage, then stop to drink more water. I think he drank 2 huge bottles of water in the hour I was there. When the erotic part of the massage began I discovered that he had the most enormous penis I'd ever seen but he did nothing with it - just stood by the side of the massage table with this gigantic erection and drank more water!! I asked him what he wanted me to do and he said, "What do you think?" and at that point, I got fed up with him. I touched his dick because it was so big and I wanted to be able to say that I'd felt it but after that, I gave him his fee and went home. When I got to the front door, he yelled from the bedroom doorway, "Don't put your shoes on until you're outside." I've since seen his ads on various sites and they always say, "Extra hung, extra friendly." Extra hung part is the only part of the advertising that's accurate.

 

When things don't go right with an escort and thank heavens, that hasn't been often, I always think it's my fault but I've come to realize that just like in every other profession, there are conscientious, friendly people and there are creeps. I've worked in plenty of offices too where people were so damn strange you wondered how they got the job. I've only had one experience where the escort was obviously very high and I left immediately. I'm sure others have been on something but I couldn't detect it in their performance so I felt safe. Seeing an escort is just going on a blind date with benefits - sometimes it's great, sometimes it's awful.

[tyro]

Blind date with benefits...I like that, Actor61!

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[+ purplekow]

That masseur sounds like he was either on X tasy with all the water drinking. i suppose any drug that dries out the mouth may have been responsible but the description fits with someone taking X.

[+ beethoven]

I've read all the posts here - fascinating (and a bit creepy)! In just two pages, we've had diagnoses of ADHD, OCD, Xtasy and meth use. We certainly have an informed (and experienced?) readership! Probably says something about our contemporary society, but I'm not sure what that might be.

[Steven_Draker]

Probably says something about our contemporary society ...

 

http://www.you-can-be-funny.com/images/drphotoshopfix.jpg

[Phil_musc]

Good one, Steven!

[instudiocity]

Every now and then I experience an encounter where there just doesn't seem to be any there there in that there gentleman. Sometime guys get themselves into something they don't want to be in and they freeze - they don't know what to do so they endure and suffer through it. I've pretty much dropped a quarter of the fee and beaten them out the door when that happens.

[McLeanspider]

Ryan Rose is troubled...

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?94295-Ryan-Rose-Rentboy-Ft-Meyer-Fl-AVOID&highlight=Ryan+Rose

[bobchitown]

Nothing quite as wacky as described above, but I did have one guy who wanted to show me on his computer how he'd solved the mysteries of the universe. Not.

[anotherjohnindupont]

Nothing quite as wacky as described above, but I did have one guy who wanted to show me on his computer how he'd solved the mysteries of the universe. Not.

 

Good all conspiracy theories!

 

I think Ryan Rose and other crack wh...res are top of the list when it comes to not showing up or show up to disappoint.

[sfguy]

I had a young man over last night that was extremely good looking and sexy, but there was something so off about him. He would have this blank dead-pan stare he would always give me every time I asked a question. He was afraid to lay down close to me. He had random physical jerk reactions with his arms and would periodically start humming songs. He was completely not 'all there' and I don't think it was drugs.

 

Am I the only one to have this happen too?

This sounds like he was on meth. Twitching and involuntary muscle movements like that is common with long-term crystal meth abuse. Same with the sort of blank staring.

 

Many guys that have been described in this thread (though certainly not all) sound like they were displaying symptoms of crystal meth use. I know sometimes it's easy to believe a guy when he says he doesn't use, but some guys lie about it. There is one escort that I've seen on cam4 partying and fucking raw, despite his ads stating that he does not PNP and always plays safe...

 

Trust your instincts, guys. If something seems off, then something is probably very off.

[Steven_Draker]

I had a young man over last night that was extremely good looking and sexy, but there was something so off about him. He would have this blank dead-pan stare he would always give me every time I asked a question. He was afraid to lay down close to me. He had random physical jerk reactions with his arms and would periodically start humming songs.

 

This sounds like he was on meth. Twitching and involuntary muscle movements like that is common with long-term crystal meth abuse. Same with the sort of blank staring.

 

Many guys that have been described in this thread (though certainly not all) sound like they were displaying symptoms of crystal meth use. I know sometimes it's easy to believe a guy when he says he doesn't use, but some guys lie about it. There is one escort that I've seen on cam4 partying and fucking raw, despite his ads stating that he does not PNP and always plays safe...

 

Trust your instincts, guys. If something seems off, then something is probably very off.

 

There are several organizations that help people recover from crystal meth addiction.

 

Seek help.

http://hswquietbutdeadly.wikispaces.com/file/view/meth.gif/103804359/meth.gif

[+ Keith30309]

I'm in the process of ending a 6 month relationship with an escort who has a serious drinking problem. I screwed up and allowed myself to get to close emotionally (to the point of seeing him 3 times/week) and I found myself making excuses for his behavior: blacking-out & amnesia, violent outbursts, threats of suicide, urgent pleas for money for rent, and, the straw that broke the camel's back - a trashed hotel room during an out of town trip I took him on.

I've helped him find AA meetings and offered encouragement but refused to meet him because of his drinking. The last message I got from him was to pay his rent:

"You know I can destroy your life if you don't give me the money...Gimme the fucking money or you will regret it you bastard....Not asking too much for all the love I gave to you. "

 

I allowed it to go on too long and am ending it but I suspect I'll continue to hear from him when he wants something.

[Rudynate]

I had a young man over last night that was extremely good looking and sexy, but there was something so off about him. He would have this blank dead-pan stare he would always give me every time I asked a question. He was afraid to lay down close to me. He had random physical jerk reactions with his arms and would periodically start humming songs. He was completely not 'all there' and I don't think it was drugs.

 

Am I the only one to have this happen too?

 

I had one who had had a really troubled past - Iraq vet, serious injuries sustained during a mortar attack, alcoholism, homelessness, a stabbing in which he was moments away from death, abysmally low self-esteem, serious family dysfunction, a magnet for misfortune. He was angelically handsome - a delight to look at, extremely bright, pleasant to be with, OK sex. But people who's lives are so ridden with problems disturb me.

[+ dutchmuch]

Look at the outings of David Geithner and Richard Hatch.

You don't think those escorts are troubled?