Does anyone hire an escort with an "average" build?

[operalover21]

I've noticed more and more ads of guys who list their builds as "average." Does anyone hire someone with an "average" build? I'm curious what the reason would be.

[Nvr2Thick]

If he were masculine and handsome with a good attitude and a big fat dick I'd take it all into account.

[seeker630]

I've noticed more and more ads of guys who list their builds as "average." Does anyone hire someone with an "average" build? I'm curious what the reason would be.

 

An 'average' 21-year old? probably.

 

An average 40-year old - probably not.

[josephga]

what's average? lol seriously I would think average would be height and weight proportioned. But I've known people that call themselves average and themselves 30lbs over weight.

[seattlebottom]

I've noticed more and more ads of guys who list their builds as "average." Does anyone hire someone with an "average" build? I'm curious what the reason would be.

 

Yes, I do. The reason is that I'm turned on by normal guys more than I'm turned on by gym rats who spend more time looking pretty than a woman does.

[jgoo]

If he were masculine and handsome with a good attitude and a big fat dick I'd take it all into account.

 

Agreed. There is more to consider than the one dimension of body type and everyone weighs different attributes in their hiring decision differently. I've hired guys who describe themselves as average and while I may not agree with their self assessment, I did have an amazing time with them because of other skills and abilities to make our time together very pleasant.

[adannyboy]

I've hired guys who describe themselves as average and while I may not agree with their self assessment, I did have an amazing time with them because of other skills and abilities to make our time together very pleasant.

 

Yeah, I describe myself based on my self assessment. Though it may be "off" according to others in the body/cock size dept. I think of myself as average.

[raife]

Yes, I do. The reason is that I'm turned on by normal guys more than I'm turned on by gym rats who spend more time looking pretty than a woman does.

 

Ding-Ding-Ding! I have a passion for the "guys next door", they usually (for me, anyway) make up in enthusiasm, accommodation and playfulness what they lack in head turning star power. Besides, a massive ego combined with the roid thing don't do much for one's sexual performance. And the clincher, my regular fellas give great rates on multi-hour social+dinner+playtime sessions, and haven't yet taken their client for granted. You rich dudes can keep the eyepopper supermodel gym bunnies all for yourselves, I'm quite content with my (slightly sexier than) average Joes.

[trilingual]

A lot of guys who describe themselves as "average" are actually trim, fit, toned and defined. They're just not bulked up from gym work and steroids. It's a more natural look and I actually prefer it a lot of times to the artificial looking muscle guys.

[bigvalboy]

A lot of guys who describe themselves as "average" are actually trim, fit, toned and defined. They're just not bulked up from gym work and steroids.

 

A lot of guys who describe themselves as "muscular" are actually built, fit, toned and defined. Not all are bulked up from the gym work because they are on steroids. I like a man who knows his way around a fitness center, and knows that when he is 50, he will most likely look pretty damn good...thank you very much!!!

[Decatur Guy]

A lot of guys who describe themselves as "average" are actually trim, fit, toned and defined. They're just not bulked up from gym work and steroids. It's a more natural look and I actually prefer it a lot of times to the artificial looking muscle guys.

 

You took the words right out of my mouth.

[Francois]

Well I consider myself average. Skinny but average

[jjkrkwood]

Looking at Daddys reviews on ANY given day, IMHO most of the guys showcased are pretty much average, and some even falling below average. Only a small group appear to be exceptional in any way. So To answer the question, YES guys hire "average"..... As for myself, NO....average I can get for Free on my own. I spend MY money on exceptional.

[adriano46]

Inasmuch as I am NOT into steroidal muscle guys, and find many escorts who really are not so sure how to describe their "body type" while my taste runs from "swimmer's" to "jock" - average for me is the "guy next door" type, and yet I have also found some of my hottest encounterrs are with guys who are considered "slim" (note... NOT twinks, as these slim guys are all well over 21!).

 

Back in the day when I first started experimenting and hiring, I thought I wanted muscle gods - but almost every one of them was a dud in bed. They were almost all entirely concerned with themselves and definitely not in me as a client or guy who picked them up (as not all were hires), and so I learned that, in fact, some of the hottest guys around were guys who would be described as "average" -- not muscular but also not fat or not too skinny. Some had naturally hairy bodies (chest, arms, legs) others were shaven, others smooth. The most hot encounters occurred in the labyrinths of the steam rooms in Dutch men's saunas, where often the steam and the very low lights made the encounter even sexier - you had no idea what was in front of you groping you. It heightened your sense of the entire male's sexuality, and not just biceps, or pecs, or ass or even cock. I even had an encounter once with a tall, lanky somewhat hairy guy in his 40's who seemed to have (a much as I couldfeel around) only one ball, but his tongue made up for that minor flaw is so many other ways. Then there was another - a sailor of a steam ship in Hamburg, a Yugoslav, rugby build, short, big round butt, smooth all over, and a sexual glutton who did it all and in positions I never knew possible. Then there was the night I was extremely horny, alone in Frankfurt, on a cold winter evening - picked up a scrawny but handome looking Croat who was cruising the main train station - brought him to a tiny hotel room across the street, and once he got a hot shower, his lithe body was one of the hottest I had ever encountered. And of course, there was the time I saw this somewhat bulky guy in a gay bar, also in Frankfurt, squat, thick neck but tapering at the waist -- picked him up with his younger brother (who I discovered was only 18); had sex with them both in an anonymous pay-by-the-hour joint, but then he convinced me to take HIM home to my hotel without his brother (which was fine) and spent 8 hours on the floor (room only had a single bed) in sweaty sex with this "beefy" guy who perhaps ore than any other, introduced me to the joys of gay sex in that encounter -- and he was my first Hungarian -- which may explain my prediliction for them.

 

The majority of these guys would be considered "average" by many -- but damn in the sheets they were superior.

[Bosguy]

The guys I enjoy the most consider themselves "average" (I don't agree physically). The fact that they are REAL in every sense of the word is what appeals to me. Not into "pretty boys". Give me a REAL AVERAGE guy any day (or night)

 

Boston Bill

[wayout]

If there is one thing anyone who posts here for any length of time should know is that client's have all kinds of tastes/desires/preferences and likely there are more than a few escorts that match with those. I'll will never fully understand why someone would hire certain guys and frankly I don't spend much time thinking about that.

[jjkrkwood]

As I have gotten older my taste in Body type has certainly eviolved and become more versatile, while my taste for big cock remains constant. As long as there is a big juicy piece of meat dangling between those legs, they can be slim to muscular as long as they are appealing to MY eye somehow. As others have said, some of my hottest encounters were with guys that would be considered average, although their assets in some areas were apparent and caugt my eye and drew my attention.... (but muscle guys still remain FUN, afterall, all those peaks and valleys to explore orally)

[Phil_musc]

adriano - my gosh you write well about your exploits all over Europe - it was like reading Jean Genet. Thanks!

 

My problem with the average description is that in the USA most people are overweight - so is that the new average? I think I know what is meant in the ad, but still I kinda wonder. . .

[maxwellissmart]

Inasmuch as I am NOT into steroidal muscle guys, and find many escorts who really are not so sure how to describe their "body type" while my taste runs from "swimmer's" to "jock" - average for me is the "guy next door" type, and yet I have also found some of my hottest encounterrs are with guys who are considered "slim" (note... NOT twinks, as these slim guys are all well over 21!).

 

Back in the day when I first started experimenting and hiring, I thought I wanted muscle gods - but almost every one of them was a dud in bed. They were almost all entirely concerned with themselves and definitely not in me as a client or guy who picked them up (as not all were hires), and so I learned that, in fact, some of the hottest guys around were guys who would be described as "average" -- not muscular but also not fat or not too skinny. Some had naturally hairy bodies (chest, arms, legs) others were shaven, others smooth. The most hot encounters occurred in the labyrinths of the steam rooms in Dutch men's saunas, where often the steam and the very low lights made the encounter even sexier - you had no idea what was in front of you groping you. It heightened your sense of the entire male's sexuality, and not just biceps, or pecs, or ass or even cock. I even had an encounter once with a tall, lanky somewhat hairy guy in his 40's who seemed to have (a much as I couldfeel around) only one ball, but his tongue made up for that minor flaw is so many other ways. Then there was another - a sailor of a steam ship in Hamburg, a Yugoslav, rugby build, short, big round butt, smooth all over, and a sexual glutton who did it all and in positions I never knew possible. Then there was the night I was extremely horny, alone in Frankfurt, on a cold winter evening - picked up a scrawny but handome looking Croat who was cruising the main train station - brought him to a tiny hotel room across the street, and once he got a hot shower, his lithe body was one of the hottest I had ever encountered. And of course, there was the time I saw this somewhat bulky guy in a gay bar, also in Frankfurt, squat, thick neck but tapering at the waist -- picked him up with his younger brother (who I discovered was only 18); had sex with them both in an anonymous pay-by-the-hour joint, but then he convinced me to take HIM home to my hotel without his brother (which was fine) and spent 8 hours on the floor (room only had a single bed) in sweaty sex with this "beefy" guy who perhaps ore than any other, introduced me to the joys of gay sex in that encounter -- and he was my first Hungarian -- which may explain my prediliction for them.

 

The majority of these guys would be considered "average" by many -- but damn in the sheets they were superior.

 

What an excellent post—and it's spot on for me as well.

[operalover21]

Very interesting posts which is why I started the thread. I was just curious.

For me, I've always equated "average build" -- in an escort -- to "something I can get for free so why pay for it" but, clearly, others have a different perspective. For me, hiring an escort has always been about a fantasy and I've never had a fantasy about a guy with an "average build."

[jjkrkwood]

Very interesting posts which is why I started the thread. I was just curious.

For me, I've always equated "average build" -- in an escort -- to "something I can get for free so why pay for it" but, clearly, others have a different perspective. For me, hiring an escort has always been about a fantasy and I've never had a fantasy about a guy with an "average build."

 

OL21, you and I should definitely have Lunch... It strikes me we think very much alike. I parrot everything you have said.

[jimboivyo]

I don't want average and I don't want bodybuilder. I want a guy who looks fit and healthy. one who takes pride in taking care of himself, but doesn't spent his life at the gym

[Phil_musc]

Once again, jj, I agree with you. Maybe we really were separated at birth.

[jjkrkwood]

Once again, jj, I agree with you. Maybe we really were separated at birth.

 

Yeah, and I bet you got MY few extra inches, bitch !

[instudiocity]

I don't want average and I don't want bodybuilder. I want a guy who looks fit and healthy. one who takes pride in taking care of himself, but doesn't spent his life at the gym

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