Long Term Escort/Client Relationships

[foxy]

I once saw a particular escort for over 6 years. There was a nice comfort level to it that I sometimes miss. I was wondering how many others out there have seen the same escort for several years and do you prefer it to seeing a new guy each time?

[axebahia]

How did you keep from getting bored? How often were you meeting each of those years?

[+ Lucky]

I saw someone for four years, then the next guy for six years. We never got bored. I don't like looking for new guys, I prefer the known quantity. Not very adventurous, huh?

[Traveller]

>I prefer the known quantity.

 

My sentiments EXACTLY. It's known that I prefer quantity. We think so much alike.

 

Later.

[+ bigjoey]

i prefer having a long term relationship. currently, i've been seeing jon ramsey for 9 or 10 years. we do weekends together 6 to 8 times a year. there is a comfort level that is like seeing an old friend. jon keeps it interesting and exciting. as he is intelligent and fun to be with and i always have a great time; sometimes, we don't even have sex. i've seen others for up to 6 years. after they retire, we continue as friends and stay in contact showing that there was a true friendship part to our relationship and not just "business".

 

the long term escorts i've been with have always been great people. i treated them with respect and decency and they treated me the same way. over time the common memories and experiences become a bond in themselves. there are wonderful men who are more than just sex objects and i've ben lucky to meet some.

[ted]

I have also been on the long term client list of several escorts. Once I find someone I genuinely like, I tend to keep going back for more. I've never really stopped seeing anyone, typically they've retired and we sort of naturally drift apart-an email here and there etc. My longest is 6 1/2 and still going.

[+ glutes]

I've seen one for the last 7 years (twice a month??), but do sample new local talent somethimes - and always while overseas...

[Guest jeffOH]

I've hired the same escort 200-ish times over a 5 1/2 year period. I've NEVER gotten "bored" with him.

 

There are several clients of mine who have been hiring me for years. They've hired other guys occasionally, but keep coming back to me. I see my 2 most regular clients weekly.

 

JEFF [email protected]

[Rick Munroe]

>My longest is 6 1/2

 

Nice to see everyone isn't a size queen.

[Chuck50]

Jeff it is sure nice to see you go both ways. LOL HUGS Chuck50:9

[+ glutes]

I guess jeffOH gets it "cumming and a' going".

[axebahia]

Yes, but how often in any given year? That probably has a big influence on whether or not, or why or not, one would get bored from buyer-side exclusivity with an escort. If one would get bored having the same partner for an extended period of time in a non-commercial setting, I would imagine the same holds true in the commercial context. I also think that one must once again separate sex and companionship. I may have a better "overall" emotional, social or intellectual experience with a regular escort, but often the best sex is with someone new or different. I think whether one hires for sex or intimacy probably goes aong way to explaining whether one is likely to get bored or not by an extended relationship with an escort.

[Guest jeffOH]

I've never hired an escort for intimacy. It's always been for the SEX.

Also, I always hire an escort I consider to be "out-of-my-league". Having had ALOT of great sex over the years, I know excellent sex when I find it and don't need to waste my time anymore thinking there's something out there that's going to be better somehow. I don't like the uncertainty of casual pickups in bars or online. I've wasted enough time on mediocre sex, so when it's sex for me, I like knowing for sure that it's going to be fucking HOT!}(

 

JEFF [email protected]

[axebahia]

>I've wasted

>enough time on mediocre sex, so when it's sex for me, I like

>knowing for sure that it's going to be fucking HOT!}(

 

Yes, but do you agree that is likely o be found in the same escort (or any other partner for that matter) over a 6 year period? That's pretty hard for me to imagine.

[Guest jeffOH]

>Yes, but do you agree that is likely to be found in the same

>escort (or any other partner for that matter) over a 6 year

>period? That's pretty hard for me to imagine.

 

Well, I believe a good imagination can come in handy in keeping things fresh.

 

With my very regular clients, I "change it up" often, not only for them, but also for myself so I don't get bored. There are so many different things you can try sexually with an escort with whom you're comfortable. You can try 3-ways(or more), role-playing, toys, etc.,

there's really no end to the creative things you can do to keep it interesting.

 

The escort I hire and I have gotten into a variety of things over the years. I've tried things I probably wouldn't have otherwise because I felt so at ease with him. That has allowed me to explore and enjoy sex scenes in which I had previously thought I had no interest.

 

JEFF [email protected]

[Guest Bitchboy]

>>My longest is 6 1/2

>

>Nice to see everyone isn't a size queen.

 

 

Sheesh, I never thought of 6 1/2 as particularly short!

[+ Charlie]

It depends on what you mean by "see the same escort for several years." If you are implying a monogamous relationship, or one in which the escort is the equivalent of a mistress, then I can't imagine it (I could only have that sort of relationship with someone whom I loved, and I would be very uncomfortable about paying for it). If you mean continuing to hire the same person over a long period of time, along with other escorts, than I agree with you about comfort, up to a point.

 

I saw one escort several times over a period of seven years, because he was the only person I could find who provided me with a particular sexual satisfaction--that's one kind of comfort. I also saw another several times over seven years, because he kept changing his name and location, so I kept rehiring him by accident--that was a combination of relief and disappointment each time. I saw another one regularly for a few months, because it was convenient. Yet another one three times over ten years, largely out of curiosity to see how he developed. I have seen a particular escort four times in the past two years, because I think he is incredibly hot and I really like him as a person, but if I did it more often I fear I might become too emotionally involved.

 

People hire escorts for different reasons; I hire basically for sex, not companionship or emotional satisfaction. Since I pretty much know what the sex is going to be like after a couple of sessions, I tend to get bored unless the escort is very imaginative or offers some special fetish of mine that is hard to satisfy.

[Guest ohioguy13]

this is a good thread... I strive to find someone I can relate to and go back to again and again. First time meetings can be nerve racking. I have seen one escort for over six years... another for five... Its like I have one in every port where I travel. It just saves time searching... when you get the best...why waste time searching for what could turn out to be a disaster... believe me...I have had my share of those....I just pray they don't retire anytime to soon. They all give me what I want...they all have become friends... and that just makes it all the better... from Columbus...to LA... to San Diego... to Orlando... to Detroit....Cleveland....DC... and New York.... I have the best of both worlds...