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I have a really, really bad habit of letting my mind wander during sex -- "What colour should I paint the ceiling?"

 

-- "Just how many Starfighters are there?"

"Including you?"

"Yeah!"

"One."

 

Anyway, some thought will come into my head, and I'll giggle a little, or, yeah verily, even "titter". If I ever try to be "dominant" or tell someone else what to do, I'll fall apart in gales of laughter.

 

No, I don't think this is just nerves, and my current companion has the same sense of humour, so I can just tell him what the joke is. We have a quick laugh and then go back to whatever it was we were doing.

 

Is this strange? Do you think of penguins during sex? Maybe I should be taking Ritalin instead of Levitra.:o

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To be really honest, I seldom think of anything that is going to make me giggle or snicker during sex. It is not because I do not think it should not happen. Actually, it is because I am more of a top so want to make sure the other guy is pleased. That tends to mean that I am doing most of the sex work (which I like a lot), so I am more thinking, "what can I do next that will make him moan or beg me to fuck him." After we have had sex, then I like the giggling, and snickering, and laughing. And if your current companion has the same sense of humor and sexual exploration, go for it. It sounds really enjoyable.

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To be really honest, I seldom think of anything that is going to make me giggle or snicker during sex. It is not because I do not think it should not happen. Actually, it is because I am more of a top so want to make sure the other guy is pleased. That tends to mean that I am doing most of the sex work (which I like a lot), so I am more thinking, "what can I do next that will make him moan or beg me to fuck him." After we have had sex, then I like the giggling, and snickering, and laughing. And if your current companion has the same sense of humor and sexual exploration, go for it. It sounds really enjoyable.

 

Thanks, TBT. When can we have lunch?

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I never have a problem laughing during sex. My partners on the other hand don't usually laugh during sex but many have laughed out loud when I first walked into the room and continued to do so as I undressed. When they finished laughing, several started crying. Emotional lot I guess.

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One of the reasons why I have pretty much stopped hiring is because I find it hard to stay focused on the sex for more than about 15 minutes. I start thinking about how silly the whole sex act is, and how foolish I am to pay someone to do it. I begin to wonder what time is it, where should I go for dinner, what do I want to do tomorrow? etc. Then I start to feel embarrassed because I have to pretend still to be enthusiastic while the escort is working so hard (to appear enthusiastic, too). So I start trying to make him feel like he has been successful, which I realize is a rather silly reaction on my part, and I begin to laugh. The escort gives me a puzzled look, and I have to lie and say that it is because I am enjoying what he is doing so much. I don't like to dissemble that way, but it seems too insulting to tell him the truth. At that point, I resolve that this is the last time, and sometimes I actually keep that resolution for a very long time, until I forget what usually happens, and I make the same mistake again.

 

I never laugh when I am masturbating.

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I actually fell a sleep once lol I was dating this guy in 98. He lived 90 minutes away. we normally took turns visiting each other each week. This time around it was the middle of the week and like i sometimes do decided too have a surprise visit, We were in a closed mongomous relationship so neither had a issue with surprise visits. Well this time around someone was killed in a car wreck and traffic was backed up and this normally 90 minute drive took 3 1/2 hrs. When I got there we got in bed started making out and a little chatting and I fell a sleep. I also can't handle the tv on. once during sex mad tv was on and it was a miss swan segment and I started busting out laughing..

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I don't think I laugh during the actual act itself - I'm pretty intense and focused on the activities. But I have laughed or chuckled after it was finished when I was more relaxed and comfortable. I've had guys ask me about that - it really is because I'm happy for the moment and I've enjoyed the company and some fleeting thought passed through my mind that made me smile. As I've said before, there is humor in almost everything (and almost anything can get me to smile if my mind is in the right place) but not everything is a joke.

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I don't think I laugh during the actual act itself - I'm pretty intense and focused on the activities. But I have laughed or chuckled after it was finished when I was more relaxed and comfortable. I've had guys ask me about that - it really is because I'm happy for the moment and I've enjoyed the company and some fleeting thought passed through my mind that made me smile. As I've said before, there is humor in almost everything (and almost anything can get me to smile if my mind is in the right place) but not everything is a joke.

 

I sometimes find myself chuckling AFTER I climax - partly because I'm feeling great and partly because it sometiems occurs to me how funny I must look in one of those eyes-closed, total-body-convulsing moments (and the 'after-shocks)!

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I have a really, really bad habit of letting my mind wander during sex -- "What colour should I paint the ceiling?"

 

-- "Just how many Starfighters are there?"

"Including you?"

"Yeah!"

"One."

 

Anyway, some thought will come into my head, and I'll giggle a little, or, yeah verily, even "titter". If I ever try to be "dominant" or tell someone else what to do, I'll fall apart in gales of laughter.

 

No, I don't think this is just nerves, and my current companion has the same sense of humour, so I can just tell him what the joke is. We have a quick laugh and then go back to whatever it was we were doing.

 

Is this strange? Do you think of penguins during sex? Maybe I should be taking Ritalin instead of Levitra.:o

 

My last client this week and I both burst into laughter as we we came. Don't know why—it just all seemed very funny at the time. Hot and funny and drenched in cum is always a good thing in my book.

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I can't recall laughing during sex, though I'm sure it's happened at some point. I tend to be pretty focused, especially during fucking. Sometimes, during a break, the sex talk may drift into other discussions, but not for long.

 

I do recall this one time last spring when humor helped an awkward moment. I had hired two escorts together and I had my head off the bed and one of them was face fucking me pretty deep and hard. A little too much. I had to run to the bathroom and threw up ... just a little. But it was pretty clear he gagged me enough to make me barf. I came back and he was all apologetic.

 

I just punched him in the chest and said something like: "Fuck, I hope you make me do it again." We all three laughed for a minute and got back to business.

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I think a certain amount of giggling, joke telling, or even mind wandering means you are comfortable and human. If sex is short and intense enough then one probably will stay focused.

 

But to some degree it is pacing and if one is going to fuck somebody for a few hours straight then one will probably need to at the very least change up the rhythm, position, even focus on breathing for a moment. Several of my favorite sex partners and I occasionally laugh at something or other during a lull or transition.

 

If you are really into the person you are with then you are likely to have all sorts of memories, emotions and sensations trigger in your mind, it is part of enjoying a person and an indicator of some complexity and substance.

 

Just as drinking a fine wine is going to cause you to think of certain fruits or chocolate or whatever flavors and smells are there.

 

Raul

http://daddysreviews.com/review/raul_g_chicago

 

I have a really, really bad habit of letting my mind wander during sex -- "What colour should I paint the ceiling?"

 

-- "Just how many Starfighters are there?"

"Including you?"

"Yeah!"

"One."

 

Anyway, some thought will come into my head, and I'll giggle a little, or, yeah verily, even "titter". If I ever try to be "dominant" or tell someone else what to do, I'll fall apart in gales of laughter.

 

No, I don't think this is just nerves, and my current companion has the same sense of humour, so I can just tell him what the joke is. We have a quick laugh and then go back to whatever it was we were doing.

 

Is this strange? Do you think of penguins during sex? Maybe I should be taking Ritalin instead of Levitra.:o

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I think a certain amount of giggling, joke telling, or even mind wandering means you are comfortable and human. If sex is short and intense enough then one probably will stay focused.

 

But to some degree it is pacing and if one is going to fuck somebody for a few hours straight then one will probably need to at the very least change up the rhythm, position, even focus on breathing for a moment. Several of my favorite sex partners and I occasionally laugh at something or other during a lull or transition.

 

If you are really into the person you are with then you are likely to have all sorts of memories, emotions and sensations trigger in your mind, it is part of enjoying a person and an indicator of some complexity and substance.

 

Just as drinking a fine wine is going to cause you to think of certain fruits or chocolate or whatever flavors and smells are there.

 

Raul

http://daddysreviews.com/review/raul_g_chicago

 

Raul is 100% right. To me a GREAT ENCOUNTER should bring all your emotions and physical feelings to heights each of you never thought you could achieve. During soft interludes taken after wild, intense sexual activities, laughter is a form of relaxing so that both parties can continue to enjoy each other fully--sexually and emotionally.

 

P.S. Raul is a MASTER at this.

 

Boston Bill

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I have a really, really bad habit of letting my mind wander during sex -- "What colour should I paint the ceiling?"

 

-- "Just how many Starfighters are there?"

"Including you?"

"Yeah!"

"One."

 

I think laughing and giggling during sex in a playful manner is fine and natural...but letting your mind wandering off too much can interfere with things a bit. I wrote about it in my blog, but I absolutely DON'T like TV on during sex, particularly with someone I'm having sex with for the 1st time. What better way to make your mind wander?

 

I had to tone it down a bit. When I first started having sex, I used to giggle too much and it turned a couple guys off. Eventually I realized there's something sexy about being a bit serious during sex. Too much laughter indicates nervousness...Sex needn't be knee-slapping funny.

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One of the reasons why I have pretty much stopped hiring is because I find it hard to stay focused on the sex for more than about 15 minutes. I start thinking about how silly the whole sex act is, and how foolish I am to pay someone to do it. I begin to wonder what time is it, where should I go for dinner, what do I want to do tomorrow? etc. Then I start to feel embarrassed because I have to pretend still to be enthusiastic while the escort is working so hard (to appear enthusiastic, too). So I start trying to make him feel like he has been successful, which I realize is a rather silly reaction on my part, and I begin to laugh. The escort gives me a puzzled look, and I have to lie and say that it is because I am enjoying what he is doing so much. I don't like to dissemble that way, but it seems too insulting to tell him the truth. At that point, I resolve that this is the last time, and sometimes I actually keep that resolution for a very long time, until I forget what usually happens, and I make the same mistake again.

 

I never laugh when I am masturbating.

 

Of COURSE you don't laugh when masturbating! THAT's serious business, Mister!

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No, I actually do laugh sometimes after masturbating, for much the same reason as I might laugh after cumming with an escort or a trick. I'm just relaxed and happy - sometimes it's the realization of the fantasy element that got me off - like "I can't believe I went there in my mind (and that I enjoyed it SO much). Nothing negative about it at all.

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I think that laughing, anytime, anywhere is good for the soul. It's the best when a spontaneous event causes you to smile, giggle and laugh.. in the bedroom or out! :D

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No, I actually do laugh sometimes after masturbating, for much the same reason as I might laugh after cumming with an escort or a trick. I'm just relaxed and happy - sometimes it's the realization of the fantasy element that got me off - like "I can't believe I went there in my mind (and that I enjoyed it SO much). Nothing negative about it at all.

 

So, Phil, when I finally get to meet you next summer in New England, if you're laughing when we meet, will that mean you just came?

 

Boston Bill

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