Masseur vs. Escort

[Mark_fl]

Greetings, experts. I have a question. If you are looking for a massage with an oral happy ending, do you think that's a masseur, or an escort? 

Seems like splitting the baby. Escorts seems to charge less if you don't want penetration or kissing, but don't always specialize in massage.  Masseurs, from my somewhat limited experience seem ok with mutual touch or you sucking them, but they usually aren't too into giving.

So do you think it's better to ask a masseur if that's part of his service for a fee, or an escort what they would charge for massage and oral, and see if it's less than full service? 

[dutchal]

1. Not even all escorts give oral, and some insist on using a condom, so that should be discussed ahead of time.

2.  Few escorts who aren't also listed on MF or RMasseur give a decent massage, and many of those on RMasseur have limited or no massage skills.

3. There are (in my experience a few) able masseurs who include giving oral (sometimes with a condom) as part of their usual procedure, but these guys are also among the priciest.  You can find out who they are by doing a request for DMs back to you with their identity.

4.  There are other able masseurs who will add giving oral for an upcharge (a present or past listing on RMen is a clue).  Again, (a) a condom might be a condition, and (b) this should be settled ahead of time.

5. And there is always the YMMV factor.  Even if your masseur doesn't usually give oral, if he's horny enough, you turn him on enough, and he enjoys giving, it might just happen anyway.

[Nue2thegame]

If I am looking for anything more than a pure massage, I seek an escort, sometimes with advertised massage skills. If I am seeing a masseur for a massage, sometimes I’m pleasantly surprised if more is offered but I really don’t like upsells. I might return for more in the future. 

[jeezifonly]

General rule: Massage goes from manual touch to manual release - provider nudity and mutual touch vary, but a massage - and the rate applied, limits the engagement to hands only. Some will provide more, some will provide more for an upsold rate. Will he/won't he?seems a popular game. It's a game I only play with a trained, skilled, experienced and well-reviewed masseur. I know I will get my money's worth in bodywork, even if I skip the release. 

If you know you want more (mouth on anything, anything put inside you, or your hands given free access to his entire body) while on his table, hire an escort who massages, at the escort rate. 

[+ Jamie21]

If that’s what you want, ask him whether he’s a masseur or escort. No guy will be upset at being asked that question. 

[DMonDude]

Masseurs and escorts have a lot of overlap. Though in my experiences, masseurs are more likely to dabble in escort services than escorts are in masseur services (actual, skilled, massage). It's best to just ask the individual provider what they're ok with.

Edited 4 hours ago by DMonDude

[ACluelessGent]

4 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Masseurs and escorts have a lot of overlap. Though in my experiences, masseurs are more likely to dabble in escort services than escorts are in masseur services (actual, skilled, massage). It's best to just ask the individual provider what they're ok with.

No there is no overlap. Escorts and masseurs are two different animals. Masseurs are for massage only. Anything sexual is escort territory.