The 4-hand massage chain

[viewing ownly]

It's kind of cool to read in an ad of someone appealing that he offers a 4-hand with guy "X". You go to guy X's  page, discover he's rather attractive as well, and see in his ad that he does 4-hand with guy "Y", who is a completely different guy. You go to that guy Y's page, thankful that you otherwise would've never known about him, and find him the most attractive of the 3.....but his ad is expired. 

Something I've learned is that while you cannot reach the new guy you now want to see due to his ad being down, the guy who does 4-hand with him can. It just may take doing that 4-hand to then get the other guy's contact direct. 

I had my first 4-hand this year, and it will be a memory to cherish. I recommend doing them with guys who advertise as a duo to begin with, as their experience will provide a likely better time. 

[lifeofbrian88]

I always wondered the appeal since it can be quite a bit more. Is the actual massage with 4 hands better? Or is the "extras" better with a duo? What was your experience if you don't mind sharing. 

[jeezifonly]

On paper, four hands sounds more promising than two. When you're booking what's attached to four, remember that you may be putting twice the amount of your own time and effort in, just getting all hands to show up in the same room. I learned early that it's not for me. If you're able to discern the differences in touch, technique and knowledge between two masseurs hired weeks apart, you'll be amazed at how much that discernment will be calling all the plays, in your head, through the entire session! 

 

[viewing ownly]

I'm looking for extras, preferably with guys who have lots of massage experience, and know how to turn up the heat. My 4-hand experience was what I was looking for, with the massage turning into sex, and as the person who made the arrangement, I got to come last. 

I once did a nude massage with a bisexual couple at the man's suggestion, and it was terrible. I still wish I saw him one additional time for the amount that was wasted on his not-at-all-enjoyable partner with him. However, the only plus I was able to take away from that experience was that she made him rock hard, which he never was in any of my appointments. Erect beer can-sized cocks are a joy. 

[Mark_fl]

I have enough stress finding one guy I'm comfortable with. Even if there were two guys I both liked, I'm more into a one on one connection. But I do think it would be wise to let the guy you know you like find a third he knows. Then neither of you would have to worry about them as much.

[theplayerking]

I would only do four hands with a duo that actively markets that as a specialized service. Even then it’s usually disappointing. I don’t bother with four hands anymore. 

[+ JamesB]

To be fair, I've only had one four-hand massage, and I really didn't feel the need to repeat the experience. For one, they typically cost 1.5 to 2 times as much as a regular massage but the added benefit isn't necessarily proportional. You're not getting twice the satisfaction, just a different sensory experience. It also requires good coordination between the two masseurs. When they're not perfectly synchronized, the experience can feel disjointed or even distracting rather than relaxing. And if you're sensitive to touch, having two people working on you simultaneously can sometimes feel like sensory overload.

Personally, I'd much rather have two separate massages than one four-hand session.

[Nightowl]

A masseur I used to frequent once told me that four hands is appealing but is ultimately distracting as four hands roam over your body.  All four can’t be in an erogenous zone—no room—so you end up with split sensations, one set of hands exploring between your legs and another working on your calves.  I’ve never had the experience (though I would like to) but this was one of the reasons he stopped offering it

[DMonDude]

I've had great 4 and 6 hands experiences personally. But to most everyone's point here, it was good because the guys were consistently working together and effectively had a routine/choreography as well as silent communication during the session. So the massage was synchronized and utilized each pair of hands on different body regions in a thought out manner. This translated to the extras as well, where someone was responsible for all key "extras related" regions of the body.

If it was just random providers who don't know each other and haven't worked together before i wouldn't expect the massage to be very good. Probably not much impact on extras though and probably would go more in an escort session direction. Which i've also done and is fine too since i knew that's what it was going to be going in.

[Petris Sage]

I've given a few four-handed massages, and I can tell you that coordination and planning are important to providing a good service.  

The first time I received a four handed massage was in Houston at a place called Tocar.  Their website is still accessible, but I don't know if they're still providing massages.  I went there about 25-30 years ago.  

Jeff and Estevan at Toxar gave me the best tandem massage I've received.  I like how they paralleled each other's strokes as they worked on me bilaterally.  

When it came to touching my central parts, they each took turns.  It was thrilling and comforting at the same time.  Their website is very detailed in terms of how they provide their bodywork services, so I recommend googling Tocar Houston massage and reading about it. 

When I've provided 4-handed massages, I've had mixed results depending on the experience level of the other masseur. 

My first time giving was after I viting two guys to my house. None of us knew each other.  When I was receiving, I could tell who was experienced and who wasn't.  I would say I was in the middle in terms of skill and experience.  So when I was on the take I felt an unbalanced sensation. One guy really worked my muscles and stretched me and touched me erotically.  The other guy just groped me and rubbed his penis on me.  Well...both penises touched me but one as more insistent and the other was more promising of things to come. 

I decided to switch and after a short break, we gave the novice masseur a chance to receive.  I followed the more experienced guys lead.  It was nicer giving the massage than receiving.  

I enjoyed the visual as well. Being naked and seeing two other naked men in such intimate and nurturing situation was exciting.  Our penises went up and down at different times.  Sometimes mine touched the guy on the table by accident. Sometimes on purpose.  

We eventually ave the inexperienced guy an orgasm.  Taking turns stroking his penis and perineum was wonderful. I remember smiling at the other masseur as we made our partner moan and shudder in pleasure.  I held his scrotum in my palm while holding my hand on his heart as my partner stimulated our friends penis shaft and gjans.  When he began pumping his penis to make him ejaculate, I could feel his testicles mive inside his scrotum closer to his body while his heart beat hard.  Then I felt a rope of the hot semen land on the back of my hand and wrist as our friend squirted and went through a very intense orgasm.  

When he finished we hugged him on the table from each side while I got a hit towel to wipe him clean.  When I got back, I saw my friend had licked up the semen.  He and I hugged while our friend recovered.  Our penises grew harder asthey touched. 

 

We took a break and relaxed in the living room.  It was so nice to have new friends hanging out naked in the house. Naturally enjoying our maleness and discussing everything.  

The guy who had cum eventually decided to leave, so we said good bye and went back to the massage room.  I changed the sheets and lay again on the table.  We took turns massaging each other therapeutically and erotically.  I couldn't tell you how many times I ejaculated. But we spent the entire weekend touchin, cumming, resting, talking and touching again. 

I'd love to have another weekend like that again.