Hiring frequency

[muscmtl]

I read a lot of posts on the deli and seems like always the same few who answers, which blows my mind considering how expensive it is, and at the same time make sense since only very few can report on hiring all these escorts

Me, not for a decade, way too expensive, and I am not poor by any sense of the term, but at least 300$ for an hour where there's a solid chance I'll end up disappointed, and now reading more like 500$ a hour. So no, just the fantasy of reading the lives of those who can afford it 

Hope many answers 

Thanks

[+ purplekow]

It is expensive, but at this point in my lift it is clear that I am going to die with money left in the bank.  I would rather some of that money go to escorts who will screw me well rather than my heirs who probably have screwed me in some way or another but not in a good way.  

[maninsoma]

When I was actively hiring, I hired my regular generally once per month, another regular a few times per year when he was in my area, and then would sample other guys at a rate of one or two per month.  I almost never hire anymore for a variety of reasons, though I was ready to make my first hire in a couple of years recently until the guy changed his plans and didn't visit my area.  

[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, muscmtl said:

I read a lot of posts on the deli and seems like always the same few who answers, which blows my mind considering how expensive it is, and at the same time make sense since only very few can report on hiring all these escorts

Me, not for a decade, way too expensive, and I am not poor by any sense of the term, but at least 300$ for an hour where there's a solid chance I'll end up disappointed, and now reading more like 500$ a hour. So no, just the fantasy of reading the lives of those who can afford it 

Hope many answers 

Thanks

solid chance you'll end up disappointed? Why? High expectations?

[nomad]

It is a function of time, money and opportunity.  Things have to line up properly for lift off.

[Whoisyourdaddy]

This year, I've never seen so many flaky providers before. I've run into about a dozen flaky providers so far. How hard is it for them to only get a blowjob?

I feel like it's a combination of living in a struggling city and changing provider habits. Also, twinks/twunks are just naturally flakier than most.

[nomad]

17 minutes ago, Whoisyourdaddy said:

Also, twinks/twunks are just naturally flakier than most.

Inhaling all those fumes to stay forever blonde. LOL

[muscmtl]

21 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

solid chance you'll end up disappointed? Why? High expectations?

Wow. So if I pay 500$ an hour, I should still keep my expectations low. Ok..., and so will never be ok not receiving a phone I already paid for. So yes, high expectations.

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[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, muscmtl said:

Wow. So if I pay 500$ an hour, I should still keep my expectations low. Ok... and so will never be ok not receiving a phone I already paid for. So yes, high expectations.

High expectations as in?

Elaborate 

 

[liubit]

In 2026 I have hired 25 providers so far, and we are only halfway through the year. 😇 Of course, I pay Hong Kong rates (USD 200-250), which are lower than in the US. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Being new to exploring men, it represented a bridge while I built direct personal connections socially.

But, my social connections don’t have the flexibility to drop everything and go with me on my frequent travels, so I always see a need for some of the outstanding men that have made it to the “sober, mature, intelligent” short list and I suspect I’ll represent steady income to them for the foreseeable future and beyond.  

[muscmtl]

4 hours ago, liubit said:

In 2026 I have hired 25 providers so far, and we are only halfway through the year. 😇 Of course, I pay Hong Kong rates (USD 200-250), which are lower than in the US. 

Still. Money

[Whippoorwill]

It's only money. I used to have two regulars who I rotated every two weeks. Today I figure I can afford once a month, plus an occasional repeat from the past, plus a couple of times a week when I travel. Like purplecow, I am going to die with a lot in the bank..but I have no heirs, so some of the organizations I like and support today will get nice little gifts to continue my support. 

[nomad]

3 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

so some of the organizations I like and support today will get nice little gifts to continue my support. 

A healthy attitude.  Bravo 👏 

[Wings246]

4 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

some of the organizations I like and support today will get nice little gifts to continue my support.

That's very admirable.  I, on the other hand, aim to be penniless the moment I enter my casket.   😁

[Rayphactor]

Ugh. Matter of $$ for me. Took me later in life to learn how to manage money responsibly ... and to stop giving my hard-earned money to everyone who asked for a loan but could never find it in themselves to pay it back. It took me way too long to recognize that I had been giving away about 1/3 of my income to family & friends who were "in need" because they never learned how to do adult things.

Until this year, I only hired five providers in ten years ... and only when I could afford it and only when I felt I had done enough good in the world to earn the reward for myself.

Now that I've found a regular provider I click with & thoroughly enjoy spending time with, I've adjusted my budget so he basically gets the quarterly bonus my job pays me. Once I finish paying off all my debt, I hope to hire him monthly 😇

[+ Just Chuck]

Here in the central US, the prices are a bit lower than they are on the coasts.  I made a spreadsheet and at $400/session, I broke it down to cost per week for different numbers of sessions per year.

Times per year	Weeks between	Days between	$/week
2	26.1	183	$15
3	17.4	122	$23
4	13.0	91	$31
5	10.4	73	$38
6	8.7	61	$46
7	7.5	52	$54
8	6.5	46	$61
9	5.8	41	$69
10	5.2	37	$77

[+ purplekow]

9 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

Here in the central US, the prices are a bit lower than they are on the coasts.  I made a spreadsheet and at $400/session, I broke it down to cost per week for different numbers of sessions per year.

Times per year	Weeks between	Days between	$/week
2	26.1	183	$15
3	17.4	122	$23
4	13.0	91	$31
5	10.4	73	$38
6	8.7	61	$46
7	7.5	52	$54
8	6.5	46	$61
9	5.8	41	$69
10	5.2	37	$77

At 10 times a year, the cost is $77 per week.  That is less money than many east coast people pay in tolls or commuting fees.  $11 dollars a day is the price of a smoothie at the gym to which I go.  So if given the choice, I would rather a smooth man rather than a smooth drink so sign me up for the 10 visit plan.