Include nipples in the massage time?

[JMatt]

Should this be an expectation, or is it OK to ask?  Not all masseurs may be aware of a client wanting this.  

[Mark_fl]

5 minutes ago, JMatt said:

Should this be an expectation, or is it OK to ask?  Not all masseurs may be aware of a client wanting this.  

Should absolutely ask for what you want. Mine are very ticklish and I don't want them touched until I'm ready to finish,  and then it will bring me over the edge. Even them I don't want them touched until I want to finish.

[+ poolboy48220]

Most masseurs I've seen don't include them, different from escorts - some have been very into giving and receiving nipple play. If a masseur did spend any time on them, I'd take it as a good sign that the massage is going to include extras. 

[PileDriver]

definitely a frustration of mine...along with lack of attention to my feet...for massage therapists and escorts...of course ears too...and on and on...

[Rod Hagen]

I think a lot of masseurs don't get massages in spas (cuz they are fucking expensive)  and so are unaware of the growing list of areas skipped routinely in Spa Massages.  A friend took me to Burke Williams regularly when I was young, so when I would do private massages before the escort session, or, grudgingly, stand-alone massages, I was sure to focus on feet, stomach and uncovered butt (maybe ears too), those areas the spas deem too intimate.  Particularly the stomach.

To your question, ask.  It's super frustrating to spend a massage thinking repeatedly, "is he going to do the _____?"

Edited yesterday at 02:35 PM by Rod Hagen

[+ JamesB]

2 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

I think a lot of masseurs don't get massages in spas (cuz they are fucking expensive)  and so are unaware of the growing list of areas skipped routinely in Spa Massages.  A friend took me to Burke Williams regularly when I was young, so when I would do private massages before the escort session, or, grudgingly, stand-alone massages, I was sure to focus on feet, stomach and uncovered butt (maybe ears too), those areas the spas deem too intimate.  Particularly the stomach.

To your question, ask.  It's super frustrating to spend a massage thinking repeatedly, "is he going to do the _____?"

Now that you mention the stomach, I’ve always found it a bit strange that at a Spa I visit regularly, they avoid touching it during a massage, yet when I get a body scrub, they will scrub the hell out of it. Go figure.