Attention on meeting

[Braziliancutee]

Hey guys i would like to share here that over the last few weeks, talking with some clients, I’ve heard the same story from more than seven guys:

i hired this guy and when I went to the bathroom i saw he was taking pics from my credit cards or even going through my wallet  and taking more money.

if is the first time u are going to meet the guy don’t go with wallet. And be careful especially with the “cheap” guys bc a lot of them are really desperate for money.

[BeamerBikes]

Yeah, I’ll usually bare down my wallet to just some essentials, but even an ID and single credit card can be an ID theft’s great start.  

Credit freeze/lock and keeping strong unique passwords on MFA and your emails will go a long way.  Very least, always keep an eye on your card transactions!  Lot easier to clean up while it’s small. 

[Braziliancutee]

10 minutes ago, BeamerBikes said:

Yeah, I’ll usually bare down my wallet to just some essentials, but even an ID and single credit card can be an ID theft’s great start.  

Credit freeze/lock and keeping strong unique passwords on MFA and your emails will go a long way.  Very least, always keep an eye on your card transactions!  Lot easier to clean up while it’s small. 

Yeah!! Or just use Apple Pay. I always say to my clients only use Apple Pay is the same thing and more safe. 

[jmichaeliii]

With anyone new, I pay for the hotel room then put the wallet back in my car.  

[Braziliancutee]

11 minutes ago, jmichaeliii said:

With anyone new, I pay for the hotel room then put the wallet back in my car.  

That’s awesome! I had a client who hired me a few days ago and after he left the room for me and let me order room service. Very very cute 

Edited December 17 by Braziliancutee

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Thanks for the heads up @Braziliancutee

We generally host and if it's someone new, I put our wallets in a lockbox. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 minute ago, Braziliancutee said:

That’s awesome! I had a client who hired a few days me and after left the room for me and let me order room service after. Very very cute 

I love to bake and when we have guys over, I offer them homemade cookies and ice cream. 

[Braziliancutee]

2 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I love to bake and when we have guys over, I offer them homemade cookies and ice cream. 

That’s so cute! Sometimes we stay all day without eat.

[+ Just Chuck]

I own several Pelican Cases of various sizes.  The Harbor Freight knockoff Apache cases would work too.

If I host, I like to throw my valuables and sensitive data into a Pelican case then run a steel cable around something that would require tools to move (like the piping under the sink.) and connect the case to the cable with a sturdy padlock.

If I visit rather than hosting, I do nearly the same, but I lock the cable to the child safety seat anchors in the hatchback of my SUV.  

Someone with a set of boltcutters or other special tools could steal my stuff, but someone won’t be able to grab-and-go without tools.

[+ Act25]

When I'm meeting someone for the first time I carry the absolute minimum. Cash for fee & tip, car key, phone only if I need to communicate with them, maybe glasses (sun & reading - both cheap).  

If I'm hosting somebody new everything important is hidden.  

[+ PhileasFogg]

Since I usually host, it's more likely that I'd have valuables locked up in the safe on a first time visit - fortunately, I didn't feel the need to do that a couple weeks ago with @Braziliancutee in New Orleans. 😇    But, there's no telling what happened with his wallet when HE was in the shower 😄

[Anthony]

4 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

I own several Pelican Cases of various sizes.  The Harbor Freight knockoff Apache cases would work too.

If I host, I like to throw my valuables and sensitive data into a Pelican case then run a steel cable around something that would require tools to move (like the piping under the sink.) and connect the case to the cable with a sturdy padlock.

If I visit rather than hosting, I do nearly the same, but I lock the cable to the child safety seat anchors in the hatchback of my SUV.  

Someone with a set of boltcutters or other special tools could steal my stuff, but someone won’t be able to grab-and-go without tools.

Holy smokes that's insane. At the point, I rather not even meet the person. 

[Anthony]

7 hours ago, Braziliancutee said:

Hey guys i would like to share here that over the last few weeks, talking with some clients, I’ve heard the same story from more than seven guys:

i hired this guy and when I went to the bathroom i saw he was taking pics from my credit cards or even going through my wallet  and taking more money.

if is the first time u are going to meet the guy don’t go with wallet. And be careful especially with the “cheap” guys bc a lot of them are really desperate for money.

I always feared this happening to me. I bring my bag and everything with me to the bathroom or always make sure its in sight. 

[+ Pensant]

Always in the hotel safe if hosting in a hotel. I’m moderately paranoid in any case! At home, always well-hidden; however, I’ve never had any issues in over 20 years of hobbying.

[simongayx]

Interesting thread, though I have never had any suspicions of the masseurs I have hired.    I only do outcalls, but  after reading these experiences I will only bring cash and my phone in future.  And I turn my phone off as soon as I arrive at his place.   

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 12/18/2025 at 6:28 AM, Pensant said:

Always in the hotel safe if hosting in a hotel. I’m moderately paranoid in any case! At home, always well-hidden; however, I’ve never had any issues in over 20 years of hobbying.

Ditto for the hotel.

If it's an incall, anything takeable (wallet, keys, computer, etc.) is locked away in a side room.

(if they want to steal my TV, they can have at it - it's almost 20 years old and not very smart)

[+ Pensant]

12 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

if they want to steal my TV, they can have at it - it's almost 20 years old and not very smart

Fortunately, I don’t own a TV.