Am I Weird Because I Don't Like To Rim?

[Manhattan]

I'm happy to be weird.
The holiday season is a great time of year to celebrate weirdness, embrace disagreement, tolerate judgement, and practice not taking things too seriously. 
Thank you CompanyofMen for providing space for all that! 

[Papacu]

I'd rather have it done to me than do it to somebody

[+ Charlie]

All assholes look pretty much the same to me, so I have never seen the attraction of rimming.

[BSR]

27 minutes ago, Charlie said:

All assholes look pretty much the same to me, so I have never seen the attraction of rimming.

One of the Manila guys who has become a regular, a straight 21yo, was a bit freaked out the first time I rimmed him.  First time anyone had rimmed him, he didn’t know such a thing as rimming even existed.  Although he’s since gotten used to it, he remains a bit baffled.  Last meet when he asked why I love it so much, I responded, “I don’t know.  Why am I gay?”

[+ Jamie21]

I love it!!! Sit on my face. 🤪

[BSR]

11 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I love it!!! Sit on my face. 🤪

LOL, reminds me of what Boy George said, “I want to be reincarnated as Matt Dillon’s bicycle seat.”

[Daniel84]

Two years ago, I rimmed a guy and contracted shigella. The infection was severe, and I became severely dehydrated. I passed out in the shower and almost stopped breathing. Paramedics arrived and administered two bags of IV fluids to me. During my shigella infection, I couldn’t even take a sip of water. It took me three hospital visits and three and a half weeks of recovery. As a result, I’ve stopped rimming altogether. 

[D21howie]

On 12/6/2025 at 1:31 PM, Gar1eth said:

I'm not saying I'm not weird for other reasons. But a guy I've played around with once loves being rimmed. He's used to being rimmed long and hard. He said he had never come across someone like me as regards rimming. 
 

As for me-I've never wanted to at all-not in the slightest. And while I don't watch porn a lot, when I did, if there was a long rimming scene, I'd fast forward thru it.
 

I do have to admit that I don't mind being rimmed. In fact sometimes it's felt really nice. But I don't ask for it because I figure it's not fair if I'm not willing to reciprocate. Also to be honest the thought of kissing someone who's just been rimming me is not that appealing either. And I'd much rather kiss than be rimmed. 
 

(By the by, I'm not really fond of seeing cum leaking out of a hole either.) 

Good morning.  No you are not weird.  Most of the escorts I been with don’t like to rim.  I have one that rim my ass and he did it good.

[marylander1940]

2 hours ago, Daniel84 said:

Two years ago, I rimmed a guy and contracted shigella. The infection was severe, and I became severely dehydrated. I passed out in the shower and almost stopped breathing. Paramedics arrived and administered two bags of IV fluids to me. During my shigella infection, I couldn’t even take a sip of water. It took me three hospital visits and three and a half weeks of recovery. As a result, I’ve stopped rimming altogether. 

Taking this slightly of subject, thank you for the information.

I know escorts who occasionally do it on a case-by-case scenario (age, body type, looks, chemistry, and SPECIALLY cleanness of the client) but indiscriminately not to ALL clients.

I sent them a screenshot of your post and I'm already recommending them to get Azithromycin and have it just in case they need it and take if they had symptoms. One of them on January 1st he ran out of health insurance like so many Americans.... 😔 😢 

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[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, D21howie said:

Good morning.  No you are not weird.  Most of the escorts I been with don’t like to rim.  I have one that rim my ass and he did it good.

Is not that they don't like to rim... they don't like to rim most clients because they're not attracted to them and is waaay too risky to do it on a daily basis in a bidetless country.

@Gar1eth is not a provider, he is frequent client. 

[+ claym]

2 hours ago, Daniel84 said:

Two years ago, I rimmed a guy and contracted shigella. The infection was severe, and I became severely dehydrated. I passed out in the shower and almost stopped breathing. Paramedics arrived and administered two bags of IV fluids to me. During my shigella infection, I couldn’t even take a sip of water. It took me three hospital visits and three and a half weeks of recovery. As a result, I’ve stopped rimming altogether. 

Thanks for your PSA.  I was ignorant, and now I am not after looking up shigella.  I must say this has convinced me not to rim or ask for it out of consideration for the provider and  me.

[caramelsub]

3 hours ago, Daniel84 said:

Two years ago, I rimmed a guy and contracted shigella. The infection was severe, and I became severely dehydrated. I passed out in the shower and almost stopped breathing. Paramedics arrived and administered two bags of IV fluids to me. During my shigella infection, I couldn’t even take a sip of water. It took me three hospital visits and three and a half weeks of recovery. As a result, I’ve stopped rimming altogether. 

That’s unfortunate. I don’t think I can ever give up rimming, but I’ve never been diagnosed with an std. I enjoy rimming probably more than sucking. And I’m not even a top. I’ve just always liked the smooth round bubble butt of a hot man.