Someone Wants To Be My Sugar Daddy!!

[+ Gar1eth]

I knew if I just waited long enough.

 

So a handsome 40 something year old on A4A asked me if I wanted a sugar daddy and sent the following. 
 

"My role as your sugar daddy is to take care of you emotionally, physically, sexually and to make sure you're financially stable. I'm willing to give you a weekly allowance $800 to help you pay your bills off and take care of yourself."

I'm just thinking of all the Arby's roast beef's I could buy with that. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’m willing to offer $801!

[+ Gar1eth]

5 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

I'm willing to give you a weekly allowance $800

 

48 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

I’m willing to offer $801!

Hmm should I take @PhileasFogg's kind offer on the table or open up the floor for bids. 
 

Decisions!! Decisions!!

[+ PhileasFogg]

Well, with my offer of $801, you also get PhileasFogg…a bargain at any price…

 

 

Edited December 4 by PhileasFogg

[+ Gar1eth]

4 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

Well, with my offer of $801, you also get PhileasFogg…a bargain at any price…

 

 

I like athletic guys like you!! SOLD!!

[+ PhileasFogg]

“Athletic guys”….thats funny!   But my doctor did just say I’m in really good shape “FOR A MAN MY AGE”…jerk!

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

“Athletic guys”….thats funny!   But my doctor did just say I’m in really good shape “FOR A MAN MY AGE”…jerk!

You body looks great to me-although your head is a bit globular and jaundiced looking. 

Edited December 4 by Gar1eth

[+ PhileasFogg]

2 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

You body looks great to me-although your head is a bit globular and jaundiced looking. 

My mother dropped me on my face as an infant 

[dutchal]

13 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

I knew if I just waited long enough.

 

So a handsome 40 something year old on A4A asked me if I wanted a sugar daddy and sent the following. 
 

"My role as your sugar daddy is to take care of you emotionally, physically, sexually and to make sure you're financially stable. I'm willing to give you a weekly allowance $800 to help you pay your bills off and take care of yourself."

I'm just thinking of all the Arby's roast beef's I could buy with that. 

I get several of these a week on Grindr.  And my profile clearly shows I'm years older than the sugar daddy offeror.

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, dutchal said:

I get several of these a week on Grindr.  And my profile clearly shows I'm years older than the sugar daddy offeror.

I think I don't list my age on most apps. I'll tell people if they ask. But isn't 'sugar daddy' more a state of mind and finances than a set age?

[+ PhileasFogg]

27 minutes ago, Gar1eth said:

I think I don't list my age on most apps. I'll tell people if they ask. But isn't 'sugar daddy' more a state of mind and finances than a set age?

Yes, but it's traditionally older supporting younger.    I think the question is "how much is enough" when all other personal expenses are covered.

 

[+ Gar1eth]

47 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

Yes, but it's traditionally older supporting younger.    I think the question is "how much is enough" when all other personal expenses are covered.

 

You don't think this guy would have wanted 'favors' from me, do you? I'm getting the vapoUrs just contemplating it. 

[maninsoma]

On a more serious note, what's the angle of this scam?  Are they hoping you'll give them your bank's routing number and account number because you believe they'll send you money and then they steal from you?

[+ Gar1eth]

1 hour ago, maninsoma said:

On a more serious note, what's the angle of this scam?  Are they hoping you'll give them your bank's routing number and account number because you believe they'll send you money and then they steal from you?

I really don't know. The profile picture was of a shirtless guy with a hairy chest-very attractive. The profile was only a day only. And he supposedly was only about 20 miles from me. 
 

At first I thought he was asking if I wanted to be a sugar daddy. I asked. He then made clear he wanted to support me. I told him I wasn't interested and deleted the message. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

4 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

You don't think this guy would have wanted 'favors' from me, do you? I'm getting the vapoUrs just contemplating it. 

You post YOUR picture and I'll let you know 

[MscleLovr]

18 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

He then made clear he wanted to support me. I told him I wasn't interested and deleted the message. 

That was intemperate of you. Let’s call it a rookie mistake. 

You wait charmingly until you’re given expensive jewellery. Then you delete any online details.

[Becket]

Congratulations. You should definitely play along, see where it leads; see what the angle is. I'd be very curious. 

[CuriousByNature]

11 hours ago, Becket said:

 see what the angle is.

Like, does it point up or down?  Or to the left or right?   

[DunwoodyGuy]

On 12/4/2025 at 11:38 AM, maninsoma said:

On a more serious note, what's the angle of this scam?  Are they hoping you'll give them your bank's routing number and account number because you believe they'll send you money and then they steal from you?

Yes--or credit card info. It's a well-known scam. But I don't know anyone dumb enough to fall for it. 

At the very least, these online scam attempts engage in (relatively) harmless data-mining, but they're really annoying. 

[Rudynate]

On 12/3/2025 at 4:39 PM, Gar1eth said:

I knew if I just waited long enough.

 

So a handsome 40 something year old on A4A asked me if I wanted a sugar daddy and sent the following. 
 

"My role as your sugar daddy is to take care of you emotionally, physically, sexually and to make sure you're financially stable. I'm willing to give you a weekly allowance $800 to help you pay your bills off and take care of yourself."

I'm just thinking of all the Arby's roast beef's I could buy with that. 

A4A is the only hookup site I frequent and it is rife with scammers and frauds. Best not to believe much of what people say on there.