Reggyreg56 Posted November 28 Posted November 28 Does anyone know of any providers who are actually attracted to chubs? In my experience some providers give less effort if there is no attraction to the client. Any feedback would be appreciated. + carlos45, SidewaysDM, Danny-Darko and 1 other 4
+ Gar1eth Posted November 28 Posted November 28 (edited) 2 hours ago, Reggyreg56 said: Does anyone know of any providers who are actually attracted to chubs? In my experience some providers give less effort if there is no attraction to the client. Any feedback would be appreciated. That's a difficult question. I mean even if an escort says yes-it could only be marketing. Your best bet would be to find an escort that is pretty much universally acclaimed -much harder to do now with the Review Site gone-and ask them. Two examples would be Mike Gaite https://rentmen.eu/MikeGaite and Kristian https://rentmen.eu/KristianLA Edited November 28 by Gar1eth SidewaysDM 1
Reggyreg56 Posted November 29 Author Posted November 29 2 hours ago, Gar1eth said: That's a difficult question. I mean even if an escort says yes-it could only be marketing. Your best bet would be to find an escort that is pretty much universally acclaimed -much harder to do now with the Review Site gone-and ask them. Two examples would be Mike Gaite https://rentmen.eu/MikeGaite and Kristian https://rentmen.eu/KristianLA Thank you so much for the information!
Trevor Posted November 29 Posted November 29 I would also ask @Keenanthat is an escort here, has the build, and can help!
big-n-tall Posted November 29 Posted November 29 Also it might help if you filter a RM search with providers having “bears” in their into’s. Once that’s done, read the ad copy to help further vet a candidate. Some guys make sure to highlight that they are into bears/bigger guys. DMonDude, SidewaysDM, Pd1_jap and 1 other 2 2
Reggyreg56 Posted November 29 Author Posted November 29 10 hours ago, big-n-tall said: Also it might help if you filter a RM search with providers having “bears” in their into’s. Once that’s done, read the ad copy to help further vet a candidate. Some guys make sure to highlight that they are into bears/bigger guys. Thank you so much! SidewaysDM 1
Reggyreg56 Posted November 29 Author Posted November 29 16 hours ago, Trevor said: I would also ask @Keenanthat is an escort here, has the build, and can help! I sure will! Thank you! Trevor 1
SidewaysDM Posted November 30 Posted November 30 Thank you guys, for this helpful information provided in this conversation. I am an older, chub looking for my second provider, since recently coming out. Mike Gaite has been on my radar. Now I see he is visiting Philadelphia soon. I plan on scheduling a visit with him, while he is in town. This site has been essential in my journey into my new life. Appreciate you all! Heart It Deep, RacerXLA, Asterisk and 2 others 2 3
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 4 minutes ago, SidewaysDM said: Thank you guys, for this helpful information provided in this conversation. I am an older, chub looking for my second provider, since recently coming out. Mike Gaite has been on my radar. Now I see he is visiting Philadelphia soon. I plan on scheduling a visit with him, while he is in town. This site has been essential in my journey into my new life. Appreciate you all! Would you let me know how it turns out? I am an older chub too so I am looking for a provider who is chub friendly. :0)
SidewaysDM Posted November 30 Posted November 30 Thank you guys, for this helpful information provided in this conversation. I am an older, chub looking for my second provider, since recently coming out. Mike Gaite has been on my radar. Now I see he is visiting Philadelphia soon. I plan on scheduling a visit with him, while he is in town. This site has been essential in my journey into my new life. Appreciate you all!
SidewaysDM Posted November 30 Posted November 30 I absolutely will let you know how it goes with Mike Gaite. I plan to connect with him next weekend, Dec 6-7, while he is in Philly.
jmichaeliii Posted November 30 Posted November 30 24 minutes ago, SidewaysDM said: Thank you guys, for this helpful information provided in this conversation. I am an older, chub looking for my second provider, since recently coming out. Mike Gaite has been on my radar. Now I see he is visiting Philadelphia soon. I plan on scheduling a visit with him, while he is in town. This site has been essential in my journey into my new life. Appreciate you all! If you need any recommendations for Philly, DM me. There are some great guys to sample.
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 25 minutes ago, SidewaysDM said: I absolutely will let you know how it goes with Mike Gaite. I plan to connect with him next weekend, Dec 6-7, while he is in Philly. Thanks so much. I appreciate it!
mrkileen Posted November 30 Posted November 30 On 11/28/2025 at 1:21 PM, Reggyreg56 said: Does anyone know of any providers who are actually attracted to chubs? In my experience some providers give less effort if there is no attraction to the client. Any feedback would be appreciated. It is a requirement for you to hire someone that is specifically attracted to you? Your best bet might be a dating site not an escort site 🤷 + Vegas_Millennial 1
+ sniper Posted November 30 Posted November 30 8 hours ago, mrkileen said: It is a requirement for you to hire someone that is specifically attracted to you? Your best bet might be a dating site not an escort site 🤷 If you're not significantly overweight you may never have experienced this, but a lot of escorts are fitness buffs. Many (not all, but probably most) fitness buffs are actually turned off if not outright repulsed by fat and for too many, their professionalism is not sufficient to overcome their visible aversion. For the gentleman of size this makes hiring a somewhat riskier proposition. So if you can find someone who's actively into it it greatly increases your odds of a good time. + Alabastrine, Hen, Walt and 5 others 2 6
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 2 minutes ago, sniper said: If you're not significantly overweight you may never have experienced this, but a lot of escorts are fitness buffs. Many (not all, but probably most) fitness buffs are actually turned off if not outright repulsed by fat and for too many, their professionalism is not sufficient to overcome their visible aversion. For the gentleman of size this makes hiring a somewhat riskier proposition. So if you can find someone who's actively into it it greatly increases your odds of a good time. Thank you! I couldn't have said it better myself. Once I saw an escort and he had a look of disgust when he saw me. I wasn't even grotesquely overweight but I had an awful time because he wasn't into it. I just feel it helps if the escort is turn on by a big man or at least any repulsed by one. Walt and RacerXLA 2
OneNightOnlyTravel Posted November 30 Posted November 30 I think if you can connect with Mike you will have a great time. He is the consummate professional and if you look thru his OF you will see he performs with all sorts of body types. SidewaysDM 1
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 That's great to hear. Thank you so much for your help!
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 Whose complaining? You sound like a real piece of work. mrkileen, Asterisk, Walt and 1 other 2 1 1
+ BOZO T CLOWN Posted November 30 Posted November 30 On 11/29/2025 at 12:55 AM, Trevor said: I would also ask @Keenanthat is an escort here, has the build, and can help! Bozo thinks that you misunderstood the question. The OP is looking for a provider that's "into" older chubs. Not a provider who is an older chub. Big difference. BTC 🤡 Trevor and pubic_assistance 1 1
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 32 minutes ago, BOZO T CLOWN said: Bozo thinks that you misunderstood the question. The OP is looking for a provider that's "into" older chubs. Not a provider who is an older chub. Big difference. BTC 🤡 Bozo is right! ;0) + BOZO T CLOWN and Trevor 1 1
thickornotatall Posted November 30 Posted November 30 1 hour ago, mrkileen said: So instead of complaining, consider your options. 1. Lose weight 2. Be happy if a provider agrees to meet you at all 3. Don't hire 4. Do nothing and complain about it. This is YOUR problem, why does it have to burden others. Idiotic response.. big-n-tall, sydneyboy, CADreamer and 15 others 4 1 12 1
Reggyreg56 Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 Just now, thickornotatall said: Idiotic response.. Exactly. Totally idiotic! Lol mrkileen, + jimbosf and + Gar1eth 1 1 1
DMonDude Posted November 30 Posted November 30 2 hours ago, mrkileen said: So instead of complaining, consider your options. 1. Lose weight 2. Be happy if a provider agrees to meet you at all 3. Don't hire 4. Do nothing and complain about it. This is YOUR problem, why does it have to burden others. The people this thread is resonating with are basically doing the equivalent of saying they have a specific type of hair and are looking for stylists who can work with that hair type, and your response is basically "stop complaining and shave your head". You sound like an absolute buffoon. Nightowl, Walt, Asterisk and 9 others 4 4 4
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