Wings246 Posted October 30 Posted October 30 (edited) 12 hours ago, GentJ said: Don't you clients ask one another for info all the time? I'm surprised anyone hires without first reaching out to a reviewer or two. Yes, "peer reviews" should be conducted in the utopian world, but in reality, they are not necessarily completed in all cases and they are not necessarily useful either. You have to put a lot of faith and trust in someone whose identity is covered / under disguise. For instance, I won't be too surprised if you tell me there are providers here on CoM who have multiple aliases/accounts to post positive reviews of themselves (as clients so as to bolster their profiles). The same can very well be true on RM. This issue has been discussed ad nauseam on this forum. Just imagine how ridiculous this scenario can be: a prospective client is contacting another "fake" client (who is actually the provider of interest) to discuss the hiring experience...... Edited October 30 by Wings246
HockeyMan Posted Monday at 02:18 PM Posted Monday at 02:18 PM On 10/29/2025 at 9:26 AM, GentJ said: Don't you clients ask one another for info all the time? I'm surprised anyone hires without first reaching out to a reviewer or two. It's a common practice, especially for non-premium users who can't read full reviews. But you're overestimating how much due diligence clients do when they're horny. Plenty hire only based on profile photos and stats.
GentJ Posted Monday at 03:03 PM Posted Monday at 03:03 PM 45 minutes ago, HockeyMan said: It's a common practice, especially for non-premium users who can't read full reviews. But you're overestimating how much due diligence clients do when they're horny. Plenty hire only based on profile photos and stats. What do you mean by 'full reviews'?
HockeyMan Posted Monday at 03:19 PM Posted Monday at 03:19 PM 14 minutes ago, GentJ said: What do you mean by 'full reviews'? "Full reviews," means the written reviews. I can only see star reviews for providers, not the written ones. GentJ 1
+ JamesB Posted Monday at 04:51 PM Posted Monday at 04:51 PM 2 hours ago, HockeyMan said: It's a common practice, especially for non-premium users who can't read full reviews. But you're overestimating how much due diligence clients do when they're horny. Plenty hire only based on profile photos and stats. Being unable to read the written portion of reviews isn’t tied to membership level, it’s based on your location. And yes, I completely agree most clients don’t bother doing much due diligence. HockeyMan and WestLA 1 1
SecretProvider Posted Monday at 07:36 PM Posted Monday at 07:36 PM 4 hours ago, GentJ said: What do you mean by 'full reviews'? you can see the full text of the review by using a VPN set outside of USA. MikeBiDude, WestLA and DMonDude 3
GentJ Posted Monday at 09:26 PM Posted Monday at 09:26 PM 1 hour ago, SecretProvider said: you can see the full text of the review by using a VPN set outside of USA. Wow, I have some really good ones.... That hardly anyone will ever see 😭 borgerback 1
mike carey Posted Tuesday at 04:50 AM Posted Tuesday at 04:50 AM 7 hours ago, GentJ said: Wow, I have some really good ones.... That hardly anyone will ever see 😭 You may be surprised how many potential clients use a VPN (perhaps more so in here where VPN/overseas access to those reviews has been discussed from time to time) or who are not in the US will have read your great reviews. GentJ 1
+ JamesB Posted Tuesday at 04:15 PM Posted Tuesday at 04:15 PM 11 hours ago, mike carey said: You may be surprised how many potential clients use a VPN (perhaps more so in here where VPN/overseas access to those reviews has been discussed from time to time) or who are not in the US will have read your great reviews. On the other hand, you’d be surprised how many clients don’t even know written reviews exist on RM. Let alone how to use a VPN to actually read them. borgerback and mike carey 1 1
WestLA Posted Wednesday at 11:37 PM Posted Wednesday at 11:37 PM On 10/14/2025 at 4:15 AM, jackcali said: I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in. It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider. I have done that, too.
+ PhileasFogg Posted 19 hours ago Author Posted 19 hours ago (edited) On 11/3/2025 at 3:26 PM, GentJ said: Wow, I have some really good ones.... That hardly anyone will ever see 😭 Indeed you do! What’s are you doing on…. 😉 Recently, I’m corresponding with a young man in South America that I’m meeting next month and he didn’t know that US ip addresses couldn’t see the comments. He was about as shocked as you are now learning of their existence Edited 19 hours ago by PhileasFogg
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