Hiring a low donation provider w/o physical attraction

[viewing ownly]

We see ads not all that frequently from guys with bad teeth, unattractive stomachs, or just a photo of rolled up towels with candles behind them. In each of these cases, their hourly is on the lowest end of the price spectrum. When money is tight, I'll bite, and always wish as inexpensive as the experience was that I just saved what I gave to see someone better later. One guy was over 20 years older than he claimed he was (chatting about tv extra work he did in the 70s - 1970s to clarify). Another used a substance on my body that made me a scratchy mess for days - he wanted me back for seconds for free. An unforgettable cheap-y flipped out at me for tagging along with a car to get into his gated complex. Uh, should I exit the place and start over? Lastly, I had a guy more interested in me ingesting smelling salt type stuff when face down more so than actually massaging me. Great news - all 4 of these gentlemen are not available anymore!

I don't want to give the impression that every single inexpensive hire was terrible. I've had just a couple that blew my mind, and in their cases I extended the session (and of course my donation) since they were willing. One I couldn't at all understand why he wanted so little, but he told me that it enables him to do it for a living with constant business. The other I understood because he was up there in age, but had a body half his age. He looked even more amazing at 60 than he did at 55. He also is able to do it as a regular occupation due to a consistent stream of clients. 

[56harrisond]

7 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

When money is tight, I'll bite, and always wish as inexpensive as the experience was that I just saved what I gave to see someone better later.

This is the answer.

[+ ThroatCummer]

Drug addiction almost 100% of the time. They will do anything to get money for more drugs. Sad. 

I had one provider who was in the middle range of prices once. We had an "okay" time but I had hired for three hours and paid up front. So as we were talking, once he learned what I did for work, he got really clingy and kept messaging me almost daily to hire him again... even went into a semi stalker thing where he found my social media profiles and tried to add me and message me through them (Facebook, Instagram, even LinkedIn).... I think he got my name because I had a business card out and visible in my kitchen (rookie move). 

Edited September 5 by ThroatCummer

[+ DrownedBoy]

There was a long time escort who was in the area. I was surprised that an escort with 50+ stars quoted me 280 an hour. I checked the 411 in here on CoM, and he was seen as ok, although not the type who goes to the gym all the time.

His last photo was a few months ago, and damn, he packed on the pounds in that short while. I had him keep his shirt on, but his face was fat too, which really darkened the mood.

Yes, if the price seems low, there's always a reason.

Edited September 7 by DrownedBoy
Clarified CoM 411

[+ Just Chuck]

I've seen a couple of masseurs who are:

• four-out-of-ten-looking,
• who I think are really just in the business of providing therapeutic massage for most of their customers,
• normally charge less than $100/hour,
• give a pretty good therapeutic massage, and...
• are thrilled to find out that I'm open to letting them engage in some extras with me.

These tend to be guys in their late fifties to late sixties and carrying quite a bit of extra weight.  They have well-established massage businesses with several years of experience.  

The real upside to these guys is they are SO INTO the sexual component of it.  The BEST oral sex always comes from someone who is absolutely into giving the oral sex and is having the time of his life while he does it!

[Occasional]

On 9/7/2025 at 3:14 PM, DrownedBoy said:

if the price seems low, there's always a reason.

But the reason might be one you can live with.  It can be a case of "cheap but cheerful" or even, quite easily with a bit of care, "good value for money".

Example: located well away from central London, Zone 3* Tube (metro) station, and not near at all even to that station (but a short drive from me). Hence ruled out straight away by the majority of punters. Well into thirties (no problem for me), body not gym-toned but far from gone to seed.  Poor marketing (I told him to log on daily to his Sleepyboy profile, and update it at least weekly even just by changing a single word, so that 'Last Online' and 'Last Updated' look 'fresh' - ignored). But gave me the hardest pounding I think I've ever had, after starting with a professional-quality massage. What's not to like?

* concentric zones on the Tube for fare purposes, from 1 (central) to 6 (very much outer suburbs) - social cachet and willingness to travel from the centre drop off from zone 1 to 2, and more sharply from 2 to 3.

Edited September 8 by Occasional
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[soloyo215]

On 9/3/2025 at 1:38 AM, viewing ownly said:

We see ads not all that frequently from guys with bad teeth, unattractive stomachs, or just a photo of rolled up towels with candles behind them. In each of these cases, their hourly is on the lowest end of the price spectrum. When money is tight, I'll bite, and always wish as inexpensive as the experience was that I just saved what I gave to see someone better later. One guy was over 20 years older than he claimed he was (chatting about tv extra work he did in the 70s - 1970s to clarify). Another used a substance on my body that made me a scratchy mess for days - he wanted me back for seconds for free. An unforgettable cheap-y flipped out at me for tagging along with a car to get into his gated complex. Uh, should I exit the place and start over? Lastly, I had a guy more interested in me ingesting smelling salt type stuff when face down more so than actually massaging me. Great news - all 4 of these gentlemen are not available anymore!

I don't want to give the impression that every single inexpensive hire was terrible. I've had just a couple that blew my mind, and in their cases I extended the session (and of course my donation) since they were willing. One I couldn't at all understand why he wanted so little, but he told me that it enables him to do it for a living with constant business. The other I understood because he was up there in age, but had a body half his age. He looked even more amazing at 60 than he did at 55. He also is able to do it as a regular occupation due to a consistent stream of clients. 

I agree that not all of the inexpensive providers result in a less than ideal experience. Personally I haven't experienced "toothless", "much, much older", or a picture of the guy in the profile that shows him in much better shape than he is now. There have been differences, but not to the point where I feel that I should sue for false advertising.

I mostly stay away from very inexpensive providers. My thought is that my willingness to pay comes with an expectation of a level of quality. For poor quality I rather use some hookup app or website. The less expensive ones that I have ventured hiring have resulted in good experiences, have gone beyond the basics. The opposite is true too, some of the ones at the regular price or above have not been worthy of the expense.

This is a high-risk setting for both sides of the business, so as clients there's always going to be a risk of being deceived, regardless of the price.

Just my experiences, not law.

Edited September 8 by soloyo215

[Wings246]

It seems like some of you run into these hidden gems (inexpensive but above-expectation experience).  Is it by chance or do you seek them out on purpose?  If it's the latter, how and where?  And what's your definition of inexpensive?

[+ DrownedBoy]

21 hours ago, Wings246 said:

It seems like some of you run into these hidden gems (inexpensive but above-expectation experience).  Is it by chance or do you seek them out on purpose?  If it's the latter, how and where?  And what's your definition of inexpensive?

I find guys who live in low income urban areas. You can get them for 150 an hour.

The problem is while their bodies are good, their personalities are horrible, and they can't think longer than 24 hours into the future. I need to dispose and find new all the time. They usually beg to get back after awhile, once they realize how easy my money was, but too late.

[Wings246]

So the moral of the story: the ultimate total cost is the same; it's just manifested as a hidden fee elsewhere in the whole experience.  It's up to you to decide if the hidden fee is tolerable.

[Jay17403]

I have done this before and sometimes you do end up with some hidden gyms. However I have hired knowing going into it that I was not going to be physically attracted to the person. However it can still be interesting and fun. I would never over pay for that situation but it has its place. A couple of months ago I got into a town late and the only person available was far from hot. He was under 30 but had bad acne and the teeth although not missing could use some work. I made it clear before what I was looking for and was able to handle the job well. I was happy with the experience and it was a lot less expensive than the average I normally pay. 

[Wings246]

Every once in a while, an Extra Value Meal at McDonald's is all you need.  Normal people do not dine at Michelin-starred restaurants every day.