Jamie of Sean Cody has passed at 35

[dutchal]

https://www.menofporn.blog/2025/08/passed-away-last-week-jamie-of-sean-cody.html

[+ poolboy48220]

So sad. He was one of my top favorites on Sean Cody. I found out he'd had a rentmen ad but only after it'd expired. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Why’d they have to make an obituary (of sorts) and then put his mug shot up?

kinda tacky IMO

[BSR]

I think we all hope that our favorite stars “graduate” from porn and go on to finish college, start a successful business, settle down with a wife & kids … but it rarely turns out that way.  R.I.P. Jamie.

[+ ApexNomad]

8 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Why’d they have to make an obituary (of sorts) and then put his mug shot up?

kinda tacky IMO

Because it’s an easy way to frame his life through the lens of shame instead of humanity; a reminder that some people still see his work as something to be punished for rather than a life to be honored. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, ApexNomad said:

Because it’s an easy way to frame his life through the lens of shame instead of humanity; a reminder that some people still see his work as something to be punished for rather than a life to be honored. 

But that had a hint of vengeance - almost like they had a falling out when he quit 

[MaybeMaybeNot]

I found an obituary and gofundme online. He died of fentanyl, leaving behind three kids. It is a tragic loss. It also explains the mugshot. Addiction is terrible and turns otherwise wonderful people into someone else. Let's try to keep in mind who he was and how any one of us can fall into addiction.  

[maninsoma]

14 hours ago, BSR said:

I think we all hope that our favorite stars “graduate” from porn and go on to finish college, start a successful business, settle down with a wife & kids … but it rarely turns out that way.  R.I.P. Jamie.

You think wrong, then.  I don't hope that my favorite porn performers are all straight, and I don't hope the gay ones "settle down with a wife & kids."  I get your sentiment -- that once a performer leaves porn that they have a fulfilling life.  I just don't think that necessarily means having a hetero-normative life.

[maninsoma]

I was horrified by the mug shot (shows how drugs can really ruin one's looks), and maybe it was included as a cautionary example of "don't let this happen to you."  Still, obituaries, if they include photos, generally just show the deceased in some healthy state, not when they are at their worst.

[Lazarus]

I don’t think he looks bad in that mugshot. Although the beard is a bit out of control. 

[caliguy]

On 8/15/2025 at 7:20 AM, maninsoma said:

I was horrified by the mug shot (shows how drugs can really ruin one's looks), and maybe it was included as a cautionary example of "don't let this happen to you."  Still, obituaries, if they include photos, generally just show the deceased in some healthy state, not when they are at their worst.

Damn. I must look like the Crypt keeper if you consider that to be "ruined looks". 

A shave, tan, and a haircut and I don't seem much of a difference though. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[BSR]

@caliguy and @Lazarus made me take a second look at the mugshot.  I agree, with a shave & haircut, mugshot Jamie would look pretty good.  I think what struck me was the stark contrast between his beautiful smile during his SC heyday and the sad (empty?) look in the latter photo.  

[MaybeMaybeNot]

On 8/17/2025 at 11:34 AM, BSR said:

@caliguy and @Lazarus made me take a second look at the mugshot.  I agree, with a shave & haircut, mugshot Jamie would look pretty good.  I think what struck me was the stark contrast between his beautiful smile during his SC heyday and the sad (empty?) look in the latter photo.  

There were recent photos posted elsewhere online, and he retained his good looks.