Jump to content

Recommended Posts

  • 2 weeks later...
Posted
13 hours ago, Pensant said:

Why the thumbs down, may we ask?

Two Thumbs down = Very Bad Experience. Would never even consider even contacting him again.  There are other extremely better providers out there.

Posted (edited)
1 hour ago, AtlTopGuy said:

Two Thumbs down = Very Bad Experience. Would never even consider even contacting him again.  There are other extremely better providers out there.

I understand that you feel you’ve had a bad experience.   I also know that you’ve thrown shade on guys that I’ve had  consistently OUTstanding experience with.

I agree with @Pensantthat some insight is useful.   Disparaging remarks without context are not useful without substantiation.

I appreciate you sharing your feelings.  Personally, I benefit from knowing why you feel so bad about the encounter. 

Edited by PhileasFogg
Posted
1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

I understand that you feel you’ve had a bad experience.   I also know that you’ve thrown shade on guys that I’ve had  consistently OUTstanding experience with.

I agree with @Pensantthat some insight is useful.   Disparaging remarks without context are not useful without substantiation.

I appreciate you sharing your feelings.  Personally, I benefit from knowing why you feel so bad about the encounter. 

I have to truly chuckle at your response.  You understand that I "FEEL" I have had a bad experience.  Let me say in no uncertain terms that I "DID" have a bad encounter.  Your phrasing just tells me that you do not have an open perspective or empathy to see beyond your own opinion.  Anything I say or write will NEVER change that and I am not stupid enough to beat my head against the virtual wall to try to make you.    I am ecstatic that you have had OUTstanding experiences with him and others.  I have never claimed that you did not nor demanded that you provide details, only that mine were different.  Let me be clear that there are providers discussed here that forum members have just trashed and I have had the exact opposite experience with them...I just don't feel the need to call the forum members out and make them tell me "why" or justify my viewpoint.   Milage Varies as the saying goes.

A prior post of mine clearly stated that I was no longer going to provide the down and dirty details of good or bad experiences.  I no longer want to feed the voyeuristic vultures that circle and never hire nor the ones that get perverse pleasure from reading about other people's encounters.  A thumbs up or down is just as good as a 1 or 5 star review on rent.men.  If you want more....hire the provider and give em a whirl or talk with someone that will give you more information.   Providing details even goes to DM's...I no longer provide them and forum members have pushed for them.  Not my concern.

When I joined CoM I had high expectations of what I could learn and or share, a community of men that enjoyed a hobby of mine.  But it became very evident very quickly that 50%+ of posts are completely irrelevant to the provider of topic or are just downright attacks by forum members that never met the provider (tattoos, weight, face, habits, rate etc.).  Also, any contra-opinion is like a slab of meat that is thrown into a group of hyenas.   So maybe I will just watch the feeding frenzy from the peanut gallery or maybe I will toss in my thumb at times...but what I will not do is question the validity and demand the details of substantiation for anyone's good and bad experiences.  I will make my own decisions based on my own investigation and what may or may not be available here.

A little verbose but was cathartic.  

Posted (edited)
18 minutes ago, AtlTopGuy said:

I have to truly chuckle at your response.  You understand that I "FEEL" I have had a bad experience.  Let me say in no uncertain terms that I "DID" have a bad encounter.  Your phrasing just tells me that you do not have an open perspective or empathy to see beyond your own opinion.  Anything I say or write will NEVER change that and I am not stupid enough to beat my head against the virtual wall to try to make you.    I am ecstatic that you have had OUTstanding experiences with him and others.  I have never claimed that you did not nor demanded that you provide details, only that mine were different.  Let me be clear that there are providers discussed here that forum members have just trashed and I have had the exact opposite experience with them...I just don't feel the need to call the forum members out and make them tell me "why" or justify my viewpoint.   Milage Varies as the saying goes.

A prior post of mine clearly stated that I was no longer going to provide the down and dirty details of good or bad experiences.  I no longer want to feed the voyeuristic vultures that circle and never hire nor the ones that get perverse pleasure from reading about other people's encounters.  A thumbs up or down is just as good as a 1 or 5 star review on rent.men.  If you want more....hire the provider and give em a whirl or talk with someone that will give you more information.   Providing details even goes to DM's...I no longer provide them and forum members have pushed for them.  Not my concern.

When I joined CoM I had high expectations of what I could learn and or share, a community of men that enjoyed a hobby of mine.  But it became very evident very quickly that 50%+ of posts are completely irrelevant to the provider of topic or are just downright attacks by forum members that never met the provider (tattoos, weight, face, habits, rate etc.).  Also, any contra-opinion is like a slab of meat that is thrown into a group of hyenas.   So maybe I will just watch the feeding frenzy from the peanut gallery or maybe I will toss in my thumb at times...but what I will not do is question the validity and demand the details of substantiation for anyone's good and bad experiences.  I will make my own decisions based on my own investigation and what may or may not be available here.

A little verbose but was cathartic.  

Congratulations on the catharsis…which I read about two sentences of.  Maybe the problem isn’t the provider when everyone has a consistently good experience but you.

Sorry for the brevity, but it was cathartic to remove southern gentility and swap it for Delaware Directness 

But please don’t be surprised if your unwillingness to share your experience specifics winds up reflecting on you more than them. 

Edited by PhileasFogg
Posted
58 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

Congratulations on the catharsis…which I read about two sentences of.  Maybe the problem isn’t the provider when everyone has a consistently good experience but you.

Sorry for the brevity, but it was cathartic to remove southern gentility and swap it for Delaware Directness 

But please don’t be surprised if your unwillingness to share your experience specifics winds up reflecting on you more than them. 

This is the intellectual equivalent of the schoolyard response "yeah but you are ugly".  

Bye, Felicia.

Posted

He’s a great guy.  Solid thorough massage . Highly recommend.  Have seen him a few times. He has also gotten very fit and athletic the last two years.  Don’t miss a chance to experience him in Nashville or when he travels.  

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
×
×
  • Create New...