Race play - the basics

[marylander1940]

18 hours ago, sync said:

To each his/her own, but what could possibly go wrong?  ☹️

in most cases is a safe way to be humiliated while receiving some sexual pleasure. 

I've heard @pubic_assistance has done it a few times with young hot Asian boys from Grindr. He has talked about it on here!

[+ sync]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

in most cases is a safe way to be humiliated while receiving some sexual pleasure. 

I've heard @pubic_assistance has done it a few times with young hot Asian boys from Grindr. He has talked about it on here!

Interesting.  Clearly not for the woke.

[Player1Ready]

25 minutes ago, sync said:

Interesting.  Clearly not for the woke.

Cleary not for the weak either lol. Communication upfront on do's and don'ts goes along away

[urbanfetish]

I hired an Asian provider who either assumed I was into it or maybe he was into it himself? I don't know, but I didn't find it sexy. It was distracting and a turn off for me. However, I supposed if the client asks and the escort is ok with it, then why not charge for it, like a "role playing" fee? It would be the same (or at least similar to...) role play, costumes, S&M, etc. Not every provider offers S&M as an option for their services, while others deal exclusively in that field. I certainly ask my potential providers if they are ok with X, Y & Z when I hire. While my likes are usually pretty tame, not every provider is willing. Just have to ask!

[pubic_assistance]

23 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I've heard @pubic_assistance has done it a few times with young hot Asian boys from Grindr. He has talked about it on here!

Both Asian and African-American 

Both groups suffer from varying degrees of being told they are inferior to white men. So both have a powerful connection to a situation where a white man objectifies them and uses them for sex.

[caramelsub]

35 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Both Asian and African-American 

Both groups suffer from varying degrees of being told they are inferior to white men. So both have a powerful connection to a situation where a white man objectifies them and uses them for sex.

I have never heard of Asians being told they are inferior to anyone lol. Especially when it comes to things like academics, and certain professional performing arts fields, like classical music in particular, which they excel at. Maybe some Asian men might feel they are not as sexually attractive as white men. Asian men “stereotypically” veer on the nerdy side. Which is not a bad thing, being perceived as being highly intelligent.

Edited June 17 by caramelsub

[marylander1940]

30 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Both Asian and African-American 

Both groups suffer from varying degrees of being told they are inferior to white men. So both have a powerful connection to a situation where a white man objectifies them and uses them for sex.

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, caramelsub said:

I have never heard of Asians being told they are inferior to anyone.

You need to get out of the house more...

[caramelsub]

15 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

You need to get out of the house more...

You took my quote out of context. Blacks and Asians are rarely ever grouped together in terms of facing the same or similar adversity. The challenges they face, and how they deal with them are completely different. 

[pubic_assistance]

8 minutes ago, caramelsub said:

Blacks and Asians are rarely ever grouped together in terms of facing the same or similar adversity.

Well....they are both always on the bottom shelf of the dating pool with gay men. So they do share that in common.

 

[caramelsub]

9 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Well....they are both always on the bottom shelf of the dating pool with gay men. So they do share that in common.

 

Agreed. Not limited to gay men, with straight couples as well. Blacks and Asians are at the bottom of the dating pool. People have their preferred “types”.
But with the whole inferior thing, Asian men are definitely not trained to think that they are inferior to white men, when it comes to intelligence, academics, fine performing arts, as I mentioned before. They are very proud, when it comes to those subjects. Blacks are more likely to be stereotyped negatively in terms of intelligence and academics, and are more likely to have the inferiority complex to whites, you speak of.

[Obsidian]

I would love to see this dating pool data you guys speak so confidently about. I think a more realistic statement would be: " I/we believe that Asians and Blacks are the bottom of the dating pool".  Otherwise speaking for an entire demographic from a single perspective is crazy.

[pubic_assistance]

7 minutes ago, Obsidian said:

I would love to see this dating pool data you guys speak so confidently about.

I'm not quoting data from the internet. I am quoting observation from hanging around gay men for 30 years. 

[Obsidian]

9 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I'm not quoting data from the internet. I am quoting observation from hanging around gay men for 30 years. 

The Kinsey report would be an example of reliable and confirmed data regarding sexuality. What you're describing is based on views of you and some likeminded people. That's great you've got 30 years of experiance with knowing gay people. I doubt these friends you speak are even 1% of the population.

Edited June 18 by Obsidian

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, caramelsub said:

Asian men are definitely not trained to think that they are inferior to white men,

Never said they were "trained" to think so...but they just do.

[Obsidian]

What else..

[Obsidian]

In the words of the famous NeNe " I said what I said"!

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[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, Obsidian said:

doubt these friends you speak are even 1% of the population.

Correct. Its called six degrees of separation. All gay people know each other or somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who does.

Anyway. Every Asian guy Ive ever fucked (even for five minutes at a sex club) idolized me, like he was just touched by God. That isnt coincidence. Every Asian guy who I offered to fuck a second time, wanted me to abuse him, humiliate him, overpowere him or piss on him. Again...too much for mere coincidence.

[Obsidian]

13 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Correct. Its called six degrees of separation. All gay people know each other or somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who does.

Anyway. Every Asian guy Ive ever fucked (even for five minutes at a sex club) idolized me, like he was just touched by God. That isnt coincidence. Every Asian guy who I offered to fuck a second time, wanted me to abuse him, humiliate him, overpowere him or piss on him. Again...too much for mere coincidence.

The point remains, you're speaking from a singular and jaded point of view, not hard data or enough people to argue your point.

I see exactly what we have here, "they idolized me like they were touched by God". Did they though 😆. They idolize you so much that you've been paying them 🤔. In the past two decades im surprised one hasn't retired and fallen in-love with this Adonis of a man. The hard and obvious truth is the "inferiority complex" belongs to you. You feed that by degrading the ones you want but couldn't get without a rate. That to me is the definition of inferior, AND the literal bottom of the dating pool.

Edited June 18 by Obsidian

[+ Lucky]

52 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Correct. Its called six degrees of separation. All gay people know each other or somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who does.

Anyway. Every Asian guy Ive ever fucked (even for five minutes at a sex club) idolized me, like he was just touched by God. That isnt coincidence. Every Asian guy who I offered to fuck a second time, wanted me to abuse him, humiliate him, overpowere him or piss on him. Again...too much for mere coincidence.

As someone who has dated Asian men for 50 years, I too, often felt idolized, but have never had any seek to  be degraded. The idolizing made me chuckle, not condescend.

[caramelsub]

I have been in a field/industry dominated by Asians since I was 10. Most of my teachers/coaches/colleagues in this “field” have been Asian men, straight and gay. They do not think that they are inferior to white men. One of my Asian male professors told me, a lot of Asians think they are white passing, or at least the equivalent to being white. I know with Asian straight women they love white men, and see them as a trophy to be idolized. Not sure with Asian gay men. There are statistics that show Asian men and Black women are tied for being the least desirable on online dating sites. So that is a fact. 

Edited June 18 by caramelsub

[pubic_assistance]

39 minutes ago, caramelsub said:

There are statistics that show Asian men and Black women are tied for being the least desirable on online dating sites. So that is a fact. 

Ive dated a few black women. One who is still a close friend. Never had a drop of desire to date any of the Asian men who I fucked. But they all chased after me. Black women like to be in control...so I can see how that might not be compatible for a lot of men. Asian men like the white guy to be in control...which is fun in bed. But who wants to adopt a child in place of a boyfriend ? 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Obsidian said:

They idolize you so much that you've been paying them 🤔.

? 

I am referring to my younger years when I identified as gay...I hire now because I'm busy and I'm over 50. I don't recall ever hiring an Asian. Prefer the Mediterranean bloodlines. (Italian, Spanish, Greek, Middle Eastern, Israeli, or Black)

[Obsidian]

6 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

? 

I am referring to my younger years when I identified as gay...I hire now because I'm busy and I'm over 50. I don't recall ever hiring an Asian. Prefer the Mediterranean bloodlines. (Italian, Spanish, Greek, Middle Eastern, Israeli, or Black)

You say you hire because you're 50+. Seems like that would be the bottom of the dating pool to me, instead of Asians and Blacks as you claimed earlier. 

[Obsidian]

What other gibberish do you have to share, Sir?