Self-Pleasure Illness?

[KrisParr]

A friend of mine, who’s in his early 70s, and his partner of several years recently split up. Said friend and I were having a discussion about his love life and he mentioned that he’d been engaging in frequent self-pleasuring activities since he has yet to begin dating. He noted that about every other time he “jerks the chicken” he experiences a few hours of nausea and not feeling well. Other times, nothing. He asked me if I’d ever had similar issues and was glad to report that I had none. After all, I consider myself to be quite the connoisseur of self-abuse since about the fifth grade on a regular schedule. So I told him I’d ask a group of experts. So, fellow boppers of the bishop, is this a common thing or should I advise my buddy to cool it or seek medical attention?

[MaybeMaybeNot]

Periodically in my 30s, I got intense short-lived headaches. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Ya learn something new everyday....

What is post-orgasmic illness syndrome (POIS)? - ISSM

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All women are different, so the answer to this question varies. One woman may reach orgasm quickly. Another may need more time. And some women don’t...

 

[caliguy]

This one's a new one. Choking the 🐔  in moderation is supposed to be good for you.  relieves stress and all. 

[Nightowl]

Is his erection medically enhanced?  Nausea might be a side effect… 

[jeezifonly]

I would ask him if he makes an effort to constantly keep breathing. We sometimes forget when engaging in that full-body tension that gets wound up inside just prior to release. And the disruption in O2 can trigger unpleasantness in the heart, head, or gut after a certain age. 

[KrisParr]

14 hours ago, Nightowl said:

Is his erection medically enhanced?  Nausea might be a side effect… 

Good question. Friend says he’s never used ED meds. Old fashioned porn gets him started. Thanks for the thought.

[+ azdr0710]

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[caramelsub]

When I jack off at night, for some reason I get depressed after I orgasm. But the depression goes away as soon as I pee after cumming. Strange.

[+ azdr0710]

2 hours ago, caramelsub said:

When I jack off at night, for some reason I get depressed after I orgasm. But the depression goes away as soon as I pee after cumming. Strange.

I sorta get that way, too....right after (some, not all) orgasms, there is some combination of let-down/is that all there is/even some guilt??.......perhaps to make me feel better, I attribute it to some sudden testosterone/hormone imbalance as an immediate result of the orgasm........ this feeling goes away within a minute or three and I sleep like a baby....... 

[Lookin]

23 hours ago, KrisParr said:

A friend of mine, who’s in his early 70s, . . . noted that about every other time he “jerks the chicken” he experiences a few hours of nausea and not feeling well. . . . So, fellow boppers of the bishop, is this a common thing or should I advise my buddy to cool it or seek medical attention?

Possibly, but sometimes just acknowledging a job well done can help to chase away the blues.

[Best Kisser]

Sounds like some post-nut clarity.

"Post-nut clarity" is a colloquial term referring to the feeling of increased mental clarity and focus that some men experience after orgasm. It's a subjective experience, and not everyone experiences it, nor is it consistently experienced by those who do. Some attribute it to the return of blood flow to the prefrontal cortex after orgasm, which is responsible for cognitive functions like decision-making. Others point to hormonal changes, like the rise in prolactin after ejaculation, which can promote a sense of calm and relaxation. 

[+ Pensant]

I usually pass out at night after a Jack-off session. Better than melatonin!

[dbar123]

He might just be dehydrated or have an electrolyte imbalance. Sounds like a trip to the doctor might be useful

[+ sniper]

How's his BP? Is he on any meds for that?

[KrisParr]

2 hours ago, sniper said:

How's his BP? Is he on any meds for that?

I asked him to take his BP when he experiences the symptoms - haven’t heard back from him. He’s really in great shape (better than me) - plays pickle ball twice a week at 6 am. 

[+ sniper]

He's at the age where things can suddenly turn even if he's in shape, so he should probably get checked out.