How long is the perfect length of time?

[+ nycman]

First time, I book for an hour. I find that 2 hours can occasionally be much, much too long, and 60 minutes is rarely too short. I’ve had zero success signaling in the heat of the moment that I want to extend for a second hour. So now I just let the time flow naturally. In the rare instance where the sexual energy is explosive, running over just seems to happen naturally, and I compensate appropriately for the extra time when we’re done. If I really like the guy, I’ll book 2 hours for the next appointment.

My record for longest "overtime" hire was an incredibly hot and energetic Serbian bottom in London. One hour turned into 18 hours of sex, dinner, sex, sex, sex, breakfast, sex, sex, lunch, and one exhausted but passionate kiss goodbye at the Knightsbridge Tube station.  Over a decade later, I still get weak in the knees when I think about him. 

[dbar123]

90 min is definitely a sweet spot. I find my attention starting to wane after that, unless it’s a provider I know well and feel like chatting

[bobsboy51]

I book for escorting, not massage, and always go with just 1 hour.  The one time I booked for 2 hours (with someone I'd met before and since), it just wasn't worth it to me.  At my age I know I'm only going to finish once so I'll continue to be good with an hour    But maybe I'll try 90 minutes one time and see how it goes.

[+ Pensant]

With regulars it’s two hours since I love conversation before and after.

[+ nycman]

8 hours ago, Pensant said:

With regulars it’s two hours since I love conversation before and after.

You talk to them?

You kinky little freak!

[jawjateck]

An hour is just a get acquainted interview. I've done that a few times when one of us was traveling or had schedule conflicts that made other meetings impossible. I just wanted to check the guy out. Otherwise, I can't enjoy an hour; as soon as it begins, I feel like it's almost over. I prefer overnight/multi-nights, although they are tricky as hell to pull off these days. I may be trying it again next month. 😋

[Archangel]

2-3 night BFEs

[LaffingBear]

All but one of my initial sessions with a guy were 1-hour.  Situations vary.  I'd rather have an excellent time and ask if he wants to extend - willing to risk that he can't or won't.   

What I wanted to avoid... 30 minutes in, nothing is wrong, but the X-factor is missing.  Things felt ok, but I'd have been content to end things even before the full hour.  No complaints.   But if I'd have booked 1½ or 2 hours, I wouldn't end early and short change a guy for subjective reasons.  So I'd feel a bit frustrated.  

[Rod Hagen]

I always thought my Combos worked well, one hour of massage followed by one hour of escort:   good way to get to know each other during the massage, make more money than just one hour, and have plenty of time for activities.

[afterfallhours1]

It depends on what you're doing but an hour is a good time for just sex. But if you're trying other kinks and playing with toys or whatever 2 hours would be best. It's kind of impossible to try multiple kinks in an hour session without rushing it. One time I only scheduled for an hour but it went on way longer because he tried various things on me. 

[+ nycman]

6 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

I always thought my Combos worked well, one hour of massage followed by one hour of escort:   good way to get to know each other during the massage, make more money than just one hour, and have plenty of time for activities.

I agree 100%. I’m usually a little nervous when I first meet an escort. Even one that I’ve met before. So massage kind of helps take the edge off and helps me relax. And if by some miracle of God, he is actually good at Massage. It’s even better. Of course my absolute favorite is meeting an escort that I know well. We start with fucking like dogs and end with a nice relaxing, post orgasmic massage. Nothing better. God I miss Jake….grin.