Under-the-Radar Erotic Masseurs

[+ Just Chuck]

Occasionally I’ve stumbled across or been referred to a masseur who doesn’t advertise at all or doesn’t advertise as anything but strictly therapeutic but provides a sensual or erotic massage.  There should be a way for us to:

• Share contact information for those masseurs here, and 
• Help the Under-the-Radar masseurs stay as underground as they want.

 

Maybe just list a city, state, and year last seen BUT NO NAME OR CONTACT INFORMATION? Then other members who are looking for a massage in a town where the advertised massage selection is minimal or nonexistent can reach out to whoever posted about the city via direct message here and keep the info out of view for most.

What do you think?

 

[Ted Neil]

from my experience these stuff are highly YMMV.

[DunwoodyGuy]

If they like it under the radar, why not let them keep it under the radar?

[kingsley88]

Through the years I know of masseurs who changed careers and stoped advertising as masseurs but continued providing massages to existing clients. 

[Jaystar14]

Let it stay that way. IMHO. 

[Michaell]

Please Share via DM if you have any in LA. I have some recommendations as well! Thanks! 

[NMGUY87]

DM if you know anyone in Albuquerque!

[FLJock]

I had a guy I saw locally at the end of our first session I got the “I don’t usually do this” line.  
One day he was traveling to NYC and I told the community to jump on it, figuring he’d like the extra business.  When he got back home I saw him and told him I made a post recommending his services and well, he was not happy.  He was concerned how much I might have said, as he didn’t actually do anything beyond therapeutic with almost any clients.  
Sometimes, you just have to enjoy what you get if they don’t advertise those services.  

[Typical]

1 hour ago, FLJock said:

I had a guy I saw locally at the end of our first session I got the “I don’t usually do this” line.  
One day he was traveling to NYC and I told the community to jump on it, figuring he’d like the extra business.  When he got back home I saw him and told him I made a post recommending his services and well, he was not happy.  He was concerned how much I might have said, as he didn’t actually do anything beyond therapeutic with almost any clients.  
Sometimes, you just have to enjoy what you get if they don’t advertise those services.  

Exactly.  There is an old and applicable saying: Don’t kiss and tell.  Nothing good can come of it. Nothing. Nothing at all. It’s the surest way to end the kissing. 

[+ JamesB]

10 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

Occasionally I’ve stumbled across or been referred to a masseur who doesn’t advertise at all or doesn’t advertise as anything but strictly therapeutic but provides a sensual or erotic massage.  There should be a way for us to:

• Share contact information for those masseurs here, and 
• Help the Under-the-Radar masseurs stay as underground as they want.

 

Maybe just list a city, state, and year last seen BUT NO NAME OR CONTACT INFORMATION? Then other members who are looking for a massage in a town where the advertised massage selection is minimal or nonexistent can reach out to whoever posted about the city via direct message here and keep the info out of view for most.

What do you think?

 

 

I know you believe you’re doing these masseurs a favor, but if they’re intentionally keeping themselves “under the radar,” what makes you think they’ll appreciate you sharing this kind of information? Some people prefer to maintain a low profile for personal or professional reasons, and exposing them without their consent could create issues for them. It’s always best to respect their privacy and let them decide how much visibility they want.

[Typical]

6 minutes ago, JamesB said:

 

I know you believe you’re doing these masseurs a favor, but if they’re intentionally keeping themselves “under the radar,” what makes you think they’ll appreciate you sharing this kind of information? Some people prefer to maintain a low profile for personal or professional reasons, and exposing them without their consent could create issues for them. It’s always best to respect their privacy and let them decide how much visibility they want.

Precisely. Many times these enhanced encounters are because the masseur has some unique attraction to the client and feels comfortable with that person. That won’t necessary transfer to others. It probably won’t transfer to very many others. 

I have someone I see on a semi-regular basis that goes beyond expectations (for no additional fee, fyi) and has been for several years. Every now and then he says “I trust you”. That means, don’t tell anyone - this is a private matter.  I respect that. We all should. 

[+ Just Chuck]

Thank you all for the sensitive and well-thought-out replies.  I'm glad that I asked and got your thoughts before doing anything.

[NMGUY87]

For me I think the under the radar is the best kind. There is something about someone finding you attractive and wanting to make a move on you. For me my love language is touch and during a massage I’m already relaxed but when someone makes that subtle move, just adds to the moment. 

[doclloyd]

Under the radar is extra hot for sure. Can confirm with a masseur I've seen for a couple of years who for the most part has been therapeutic (and very good at it!) that occasionally goes above and beyond during a session when he's feeling frisky   But I think it's a situation of us clicking where this isn't happening with other clients he has. (I could be wrong, but I don't think I am.)

[Roose71]

I have an under-the-radar sitch. Russian guy Ive been seeing for a couple of years. He is a fantastic masseur, used to work with the big hockey teams in Russia. 

It crossed over after I had gone to him for well over a year. We just laugh about it, really. Totally casual.

That said, he is married with kids and can be skittish at times. But it goes there nonetheless. 

Another is an older Italian guy I first went to at the gym. That also was awhile before crossing over. I now visit him in his private studio. He has kids but is divorced. Less skittish but he has a large legit clientele and has always made me swear not to leak his name. Makes it all the more hotter. 

 

 

[doclloyd]

This thread also reminded me of a situation about 10 years ago when I was going to PT/chiropractic for a few months and since insurance was covering a good chunk of costs I opted for massage to go along with my therapy. One therapist was cute but never said anything explicit to each other given we were in an office setting. 3rd session the sheet was thinner/not a blanket and that day I opted to slide the briefs off too. He slipped the sheet fully off that day during the massage which was super hot. Never went much further in office for obvious reasons, but was still very hot/under the radar action. This continued for a few months at future appointments with light play during sessions in office. Ultimately resulted in a couple of out of office non-massage encounters