Masseurs that provide a boyfriend experience

[Callas]

Could you recommend some masseurs that provide a boyfriend experience? 
 

Like he is very friendly, welcoming, willing to kiss, hug, and really deliver an intimacy. 
 

NYC preferably, but anywhere in the US is fine, too.

Please DM if you prefer.

Thanks in advance!!!!

 

[+ ApexNomad]

You may just want to hire an escort at that point, unless there’s a massage component that only a trained masseur can bring. But from what you’re describing, an escort seems better suited. Literally say what you just wrote. 

[Callas]

Thanks, but I also want a good / decent massage as well 😅

[BuffaloKyle]

Yeah you're better off looking on Rentmen for a provider who does erotic massage as they'll be into hugging and kissing. It will cost you more though than their massage only rate most likely. You certainly can search on Rentmasseur but just might take a bit longer to find someone.

[BuffaloKyle]

Just now, Callas said:

Thanks, but I also want a good / decent massage as well 😅

There are plenty of providers who have an ad on both Rentmen and Rentmasseur so hit up those guys first.

[Callas]

Any specific names in mind? They might do both, but that doesn’t mean they could deliver a warm/friendly BF experience 

[RubMyThighs]

Fits my experience with Wagner

WagnerNY | RentMasseur

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Male Masseur WagnerNY in New York City, NY: offering M4M Massage, therapeutic, sensual, erotic, swedish...

 

[pubic_assistance]

18 hours ago, Callas said:

Thanks, but I also want a good / decent massage as well

There are escorts who are also good masseurs but I don't think most masseurs are in the business of providing faux-romantic-interludes.

There's an exception to every rule, but I think as @BuffaloKyle stated above, you may find what you want faster on Rent.men and search for massage.

[Simon Suraci]

I’m one of the few who do both quite well. We exist! I have ads on the massage sites and escort sites. I agree, RentMen for the Boyfriend Experience, and RentMasseur for Massages.

Some targeted research is necessary to get what you want - that and being upfront about exactly what you want with the guys in your shortlist. Masseurs won’t often deliver on BF experience, and escorts won’t often deliver on a quality skilled massage. Expect to pay escort rates whether or not there is a massage involved.

[Ali Gator]

This past summer, I met up with Onyxforu and had a great time with an erotic massage. He's a sexy guy with an incredible body and huge dick. Very polite and very interesting to have a conversation with, too. 

He offers three packages at different price points, so as a first-timer, I went with the 'erotic massage' for $200 (and had a great time). 60 mins.

The second package was erotic massage with a shower/body scrub and BFE (you both move over to the sofa or bed - whatever is in the hotel room) . No intercourse, and no open mouth kissing. $325 / 90 mins.

The third package was the same as the second (above) plus a 'mutual orgasm' - he will let you jack him off until he ejaculates for $550 / 2 hours 15 mins. I believe he only books this once or twice a day - even he needs a 'rest' (I think he told me he's in his late 30s but doesn't look it). 

There are plenty of threads on him here, if you wish to do a search. (I will upgrade to the second package next time he's in town). 

[BaronArtz]

I do not hesitate recommending:

TuckerNYC on RentMasseur

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He used to have a rentmen ad that he withdrew.  Solid massage, kind person who cares about his craft.  He is interested in many fields and easy to talk to. Just be upfront about your expectations.

 

Edited October 27, 2024 by BaronArtz

[starman05]

A lot of interesting responses to this thread. It's funny. One person's BFE might be having sex. For another, it might be having the provider say: "I know. Life sucks. Put your head on my chest and close your eyes." And then he just holds you. 

 

 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, starman05 said:

A lot of interesting responses to this thread. It's funny. One person's BFE might be having sex. For another, it might be having the provider say: "I know. Life sucks. Put your head on my chest and close your eyes." And then he just holds you. 

 

 

Agree. 

If I want a Boy Friend Experience, then I'll expect the massuer to meet my family for an awkward Thanksgiving dinner and then fight with me to keep the dog when we stop seeing each other.

Edited October 27, 2024 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 10/25/2024 at 9:29 PM, Callas said:

Could you recommend some masseurs that provide a boyfriend experience? 
 

Like he is very friendly, welcoming, willing to kiss, hug, and really deliver an intimacy.

Instead of asking for a boyfriend experience, I would look for someone who provides an escort experience (hug, kiss, intimacy).

[Simon Suraci]

1 hour ago, starman05 said:

A lot of interesting responses to this thread. It's funny. One person's BFE might be having sex. For another, it might be having the provider say: "I know. Life sucks. Put your head on my chest and close your eyes." And then he just holds you. 

 

 

The needs of different clients regarding the “Boyfriend Experience” are multifold. Most want penetrative sex as part of the experience, maybe some only want oral or fetish play as the sexual component. Sometimes no sex at all, but usually some form of sex. Often the BFE is geared toward more kissing and hugging and physical intimacy in addition to the sex itself. But all BFE clients have needs beyond sex - for companionship, understanding, compassion, connection, and acceptance. That may come in the form of conversation over dinner or sharing in the client’s non-sexual hobby. Cuddling in bed before/after. Being seen, heard and respected.

One of my clients sees me for a combination of things. He likes to be massaged for part of his time which is great. I spank him and he ultimately gets off to that part which is how we typically end, but most importantly he sees me to kiss, cuddle, and to be held. We spend most of the session with me holding him in various close contact positions, and he weeps while I do. We alternate between moments of pleasure and moments of comfort, me holding him as he emotes. He likes to be physically dominated, and simulated sex is part of that (basically elements of frottage and wrestling), maybe some teasing his hole with my fingers and mouth here and there, but no actual penetration, says he doesn’t want it. Occasionally he likes to give oral. Those are the most traditional escort-y things we do. The real value to him is what we do beyond those. I don’t pry, but I know that he is a full time caretaker to his older husband and seeing me is his means of relief and reprieve, a sense of escape, and a place for him to relax and be himself. In fact, he often says “thank you for letting me be me”. 

Perhaps some of his need is to mourn the loss of his husband and by extension, loss of sex and a life with relative freedom. My client is clearly very sad and going through loss, even though his husband is still alive. In a way, it’s more difficult to cope because his husband lives on with a very limited physical capacity, leaving my client all the responsibility of marriage without any of the benefits. It’s sad. Seeing me gives him some sense of peace and comfort. For someone to take care of my client for a change. This is just one version of many constituting the “boyfriend experience”. Everyone is a bit different.

[+ Italiano]

In my experience throughout the years I think that a GOOD masseur who eventually offers a bf experience has to find you somehow attractive. I had few occasions where the masseur during or after the great massage started to grab, hug, kiss are nd eventually we fucked on the table or on the bed. It is for me the ultimate experience for a massage, which definitely doesn't happen often, especially alas at my age.

There is still a guy in Manhattan who for some reasons likes me and even if the massage is just decent I always leave walking funny and with a couple  of his beard's hair on my tongue.

 

[Erbenle]

On 10/26/2024 at 8:50 AM, RubMyThighs said:

Fits my experience with Wagner

WagnerNY | RentMasseur

RENTMASSEUR.COM

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Male Masseur WagnerNY in New York City, NY: offering M4M Massage, therapeutic, sensual, erotic, swedish...

 

Any dish on extras?

[+ DiscerningNYC]

Refreshing this topic with a bump  Thanks.

[+ Jamie21]

Interesting topic. I’m not sure I’d share as much detail as @Simon Suracion what my clients who come for massage and company (that’s what I’d call BFE) want because some of it’s very personal and I’d feel awkward sharing it here (even though no names are mentioned of course).

Generally what they want, alongside massage, is intimacy, some connection and space to be themselves without feeling judged. It can be having lunch, chat over a coffee, cuddling, going to a sauna together. Rarely is it full sex…maybe that’s a genuine BF experience! 

I think look first for someone you can connect with rather than being specific for a masseur vs an escort. Either could be ok but the most important thing is for him to be able to connect with you and part of that test would be whether he’s open to the proposition and how he reacts to your request.