Clients trying to take advantage of providers

[MeatHead]

Just like there are many bad providers they are also terrible clients. Many try to take advantage of escorts by trying to negotiate an almost insulting price or by simply not respecting their limitations/boundaries. My most recent experience was awful. It's the third one this year so far. I'm almost embarrassed to tell the story.

Why there isn't a sub forum on here for escorts to denounce charlatans,  scammers and time-wasters?

Edited October 16, 2024 by socurious

[DavidNY]

I’m sorry you had a bad client. There should be a forum for that, although respecting confidentiality is like the cardinal rule.  I’d like to hear your story. It helps me be a better client, which I think most of us want. We know you do a hard job and have to deal with a lot of creeps.

[MeatHead]

2 hours ago, DavidNY said:

II’d like to hear your story. 

We also need an anonymous mode option so we can be able to share things we don't feel comfortable sharing with our regular username. 

I will try to tell you in private later. Thanks for being so kind. 

Edited October 16, 2024 by socurious

[DavidNY]

Feel free to PM me. I mean it…I try to be up front with exactly what I want so guys have the choice of whether they want the date or not, and stick to it. I hate playing games. Provide good service you committed to at the price that’s agreed upon and get paid that. It’s not a complicated transaction.

[Keith838]

4 hours ago, DavidNY said:

I’m sorry you had a bad client. There should be a forum for that, although respecting confidentiality is like the cardinal rule.  I’d like to hear your story. It helps me be a better client, which I think most of us want. We know you do a hard job and have to deal with a lot of creeps.

@DavidNY It is WILD that you spent the entire day dragging an individual's name through the mud, with all his identifying information, and you now say that escorts sharing the username of a scumbag client is out of bounds. WILD!

[aiseeya]

I am intrigued....

[+ 7829V]

10 hours ago, DavidNY said:

 It helps me be a better client, which I think most of us want. 

 

[DavidNY]

7 hours ago, Keith838 said:

@DavidNY It is WILD that you spent the entire day dragging an individual's name through the mud, with all his identifying information, and you now say that escorts sharing the username of a scumbag client is out of bounds. WILD!

Not at all. I just meant it’s the cardinal rules for escorts to keep their clients’ confidential because if they don’t, other guys see that and don’t hire them. I think they should have a place to warn each other about bad clients. It’s actually more risk for them, dangerous guys that take advantage. I try really hard to be a good client, but I’m not going to be taken advantage off either. There needs to be mutual respect and trust.  If you look at my reviews, I also try to talk up good guys with hopes they get more business, as they should. The whole point of this site is that we figure out who are the honesty escorts, and who are  the scammers.  I think it suck that this guy got screwed over by his client. I hope he doesn’t get bitter and start thinking all clients are like this.

Edited October 16, 2024 by DavidNY

[ICTJOCK]

Sadly,  I'm sure there are always those  (provider or client)  looking to "get the best deal"  they can   and sadly,  that means trying to take advantage of another.    That's just life I suppose.    I've had my share of clients who tell me "all they have is....."   (typically a much smaller amount than my hourly rate).     If they aren't going to respect your requirements,  there isn' tany reason for the conversation to continue.

Always rough to hear about rude clients,  I hope you weren't insulted.    For me there's always a line and when the client crosses it,  the conversation ends and I move on.

[+ JamesB]

Just like in any service oriented business, you're bound to encounter both good and bad clients as well as providers. The key to success is having the right mindset along with the experience to differentiate between them and handle each situation accordingly. It’s about knowing how to adapt, set boundaries, and provide quality service while managing expectations. A positive attitude combined with the ability to read people and situations can make all the difference in navigating challenges and maintaining long term success.

[maninsoma]

I thinking "taking advantage" of an escort regarding rates is to agree to an appointment at a certain rate and then trying not to pay that amount at the time of the appointment.

A client offering an amount that's less than what the escort wants isn't "taking advantage" -- the escort can just reply that that isn't sufficient compensation and move on (or block the prospective client if need be).

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 10/16/2024 at 12:09 AM, MeatHead said:

Just like there are many bad providers they are also terrible clients. Many try to take advantage of escorts by trying to negotiate an almost insulting price or by simply not respecting their limitations/boundaries. My most recent experience was awful. It's the third one this year so far. I'm almost embarrassed to tell the story.

Why there isn't a sub forum on here for escorts to denounce charlatans,  scammers and time-wasters?

Yes, plus apparently some clients flake a lot.  Take this client, for example: 

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MeatHead

Posted May 19, 2024

The first time I hired was during the pandemic. It took me several month to finally meet with the escort I liked. Poor guy. I flaked so many times after contacting him because of my nerviousness... 

The day I met him I was so nervious that I decided to have a few drinks before meeting him. It was still awkward. I couldn't stop acting goofy the whole time...

Edited May 19, 2024 by socurious