What does topping feel like for bottoms?

[MeatHead]

Is there a reason why most bottoms can't top? Does it hurt when they top someone or they just don't feel anything? 

[NJF]

On 5/17/2024 at 11:19 PM, socurious said:

Is there a reason why most bottoms can't top? Does it hurt when they top someone or they just don't feel anything? 

Is this a serious question? I am baffled 

[+ nycman]

Every time a bottom tries to top….an angel loses their wings.

Well that…and two bottoms go home frustrated. 

 

Edited May 19, 2024 by nycman

[+ Lucky]

On 5/19/2024 at 10:59 AM, NJF said:

Is this a serious question? I am baffled 

Well, it was asked by a Meathead!

[Bobby6]

I don't think it's a matter of "can't".  As a bottom, that's what I prefer.  It's that simple.

[mtaabq]

On 5/17/2024 at 10:19 PM, MeatHead said:

Is there a reason why most bottoms can't top? Does it hurt when they top someone or they just don't feel anything? 

I will try to keep on topic. I have to echo what another contributor said when it's not a function of "can't" but more of a preference. Also, in our community of gay men there are those who find it necessary to "assign" roles to us. I mention this as I recently enjoyed the company of a nice young man (22) who had been told by others that he "couldn't" top as his dick wasn't big enough. His dick might be decidedly "average" (as is mine) but I assured him that he was, in fact, big enough to top and proceeded to show him that he could. (Also, his youth ensured that he was hard enough, too.) Based upon the noises he made I believe he enjoyed it very much; I don't think topping "hurt" him at all. One week later, at his request, I brought in a muscle Daddy provider who proceeded to show him how it feels to be topped by a guy with a big dick who knows what he's doing. The point here is that "topping" or "bottoming" are preferences according to what feels best to you and what you like best to do. Remember, too, that man-on-man sex isn't just about who "tops" and who "bottoms"; there's soooooo much more to it than that. (Not that anyone asked for my opinion ... but there it is.) 

[+ purplekow]

I have almost exclusively topped when doing anal but have tried, with very limited success bottoming.  However, as stated by Mtaabq, most of my m2m activity time is not spent doing anal though most times it is part of the entire buffet of sexual activity.  I think getting focused in on one aspect of the activities men can do together leads to lazy sex.  I top.  He bottoms.  That is it.  Guys, let you mind wander and let you imagination soar.  There is so much more than put it in the hole, pump, repeat.