confirmation of rate

[Mydavid]

If you go to a provider for multiple times, will you confirm the rate with them every time? Considering it may change?  Or it's the responsibility for the provider to tell you it has changed? Outside the US, the rates are listed on the profile, but we might not check them.

[+ JamesB]

With my regular providers, I don't confirm rates each time I engage their services. However, every six months to a year, I inquire whether they have updated or revised their rates. To date, none of my regulars have altered their rates on me.

[Luv2play]

I confirm the rate each time whether they are regulars or not. Mainly because I often schedule more than just the standard hour. For a short session I really prefer one and a half hours so that entails a small negotiation anyway. And some I might see after a year or so has passed so it’s best to check if the rate is the same.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I haven't had this come up too much, but I think if you're seeing someone weekly or monthly, it's on them to disclose a rate increase. However, if it's been months or a year, I would confirm. We had a regular who has since exploded in porn, and I've been thinking of seeing him again, and I will definitely confirm the rate. 

[dcguy20]

Someone I've seen 2-3 times per year, told me of his increased rates prior to my last appointment. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

If he hasn't confirmed first, always confirm before meeting.

[+ DrownedBoy]

If I contact a regular, I usually ask, "as usual?"

If a regular raises their price and waits until after the session to tell.you, you need to drop him.

EDIT In my experience,  good regulars lock you in at the original price. I only had one regular who (twice) raised his price, and it eventually ended badly.

When it's a new guy, I always repeat the amount of time and amount when asking for the final agreement.  The oral contract is made if he agrees.

Edited April 19, 2024 by DrownedBoy

[soloyo215]

On 4/18/2024 at 10:19 AM, Mydavid said:

If you go to a provider for multiple times, will you confirm the rate with them every time? Considering it may change?  Or it's the responsibility for the provider to tell you it has changed? Outside the US, the rates are listed on the profile, but we might not check them.

I don't think that this is a regulated profession, so what I do is that I pay the regular amount unless he brings up that there's a new rate. When there's a new rate, I may or may not agree to pay, and sometimes I agree to the higher rate but give less or no tip, depending. Inflation is out of control in USA, so we all have to be mindful of our expenses, especially us the working class.