BonVivant Posted December 29, 2023 Share Posted December 29, 2023 21 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said: I agree with you. Especially in your own home & the guest is making the drinks as noted in this story - no way. however - the bigger point is once someone is inside your home & is intent on doing harm, it’s gonna happen & not going to end well. Drugging seems to be the preferred method tho in these type robberies….gives them plenty of time to thoroughly rob & hack. I much prefer hotels where it’s my room & I can control it to a degree with everything locked in the safe. In that case, I tell the provider I have friends on same floor and limited time because meeting them for drinks/dinner. Second choice is providers hotel room or home. I only invite people to my home I’ve known for a long time - never strangers. There are a lot more of these type crimes that we never hear about - way more common than people think. Super easy from the criminals pov - they’re being invited in. Also - you should never have any financial apps on phone/tablet that open with facial recognition or fingerprint. Once you’re unconscious they can get into anything FYI - the RM profile is still up & says AVAILABLE NOW. unbelievable One other safety tip: having a front desk and camera, if you live in a condo or rental building. Smile; you’re on camera. And the doorman has seen you! Ali Gator 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spikeguy Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Why would a host let his guest make the drinks? Ali Gator, CarolinaRen, + Pensant and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walt Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 27 minutes ago, Spikeguy said: Why would a host let his guest make the drinks? "I'm here to take care of you. Let me do that. Sit down and relax! One cube...or two?" BonVivant, FunGuyUS and + nycman 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 3 hours ago, Walt said: "I'm here to take care of you. Let me do that. Sit down and relax! One cube...or two?" Just the sound of it turns me on. Truth is, I’m begging to drink the Kool-Aid! Thankfully, I’m smarter than that and you should be too. + glutes and Walt 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 7 hours ago, Spikeguy said: Why would a host let his guest make the drinks? That does sound odd, but it wouldn't be difficult for a guest to put something in a drink already made if the host is temporarily distracted or absent (going to the bathroom, getting something from another room, etc). BonVivant, Ali Gator, Walt and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cliff Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 44 minutes ago, maninsoma said: That does sound odd, but it wouldn't be difficult for a guest to put something in a drink already made if the host is temporarily distracted or absent (going to the bathroom, getting something from another room, etc). I just don’t have a drink when an escort is around, period. Not judging others, just saying what I do. Ali Gator, peter831, Redwine56 and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali Gator Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Another red flag for me on this particular guy - why would anyone hire someone who looks like Frankie Grande ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) 49 minutes ago, Cliff said: I just don’t have a drink when an escort is around, period. Not judging others, just saying what I do. Funny, neither do i. But there was one exception, with Mark Parker. He poured straight shots of Stoli into 2 glasses, toasted, we drank the same poison. Nostrovia! Edited December 30, 2023 by glutes Luv2play and Redwine56 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 9 hours ago, Spikeguy said: Why would a host let his guest make the drinks? Host asks guest if he wants a drink and guest says sure but I can make it myself. Could say something like I used to be a bartender and everyone loved this drink. Would you care for one too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali Gator Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 25 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: Host asks guest if he wants a drink and guest says sure but I can make it myself. Could say something like I used to be a bartender and everyone loved this drink. Would you care for one too? Host says to escort / guest : "I've heard that one before! The former bartender turned escort...You're going to make me a drink which will be drugged, knock me out for hours while you and your friend rob me blind. When I come to, you will be long gone, your Rentmen ad will be deleted, and your phone is disconnected. I have no recourse. All I'm left with is an empty condo and no cash or credit cards - even the family jewels are gone! Gone, I say! I'm left with just my Hillfigger underwear twisted around my ankles ! Like I've never seen an episode of 'CSI' in my lifetime. " Host gracefully falls on his nearby fainting couch, covers his eyes and lets out a deep sigh. Escort is befuddled, grabs his cell phone, and gets ready to leave. Host says: "Where are you going ? You promised me that drink..." Luv2play, + azdr0710, CuriousByNature and 3 others 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Plus the host was incredibly attracted to and horned up for the guest so he was probably gonna agree to most anything. Especially when the gust said to him let's have a drink and then get into some hot fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali Gator Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 2 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: Plus the host was incredibly attracted to and horned up for the guest so he was probably gonna agree to most anything. Especially when the gust said to him let's have a drink and then get into some hot fun. Exactly. He didn't know he was going to be Cosby'd. Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) it feels like there is more to this story. a guest from a hookup app doesn’t mix drinks for the host. a provider from RM is far more likely to mix drinks for the client. And we know the thief was/is an active provider on RM I’d say this was a paid encounter, not Grindr. As mentioned - I don’t think it makes a difference other than if the victim lied to police about circumstances. if he lied about it - it will come back to bite him because now his entire version of events are suspect. once the victim is caught in a lie then any future statements in court or otherwise will be ripped apart by thief’s public defender. That’s how it works the thief will say the victim was using drugs and he passed-out of his own accord, so he gets off on the drugging charges he might get off on robbery & extortion charges as well because it will be very difficult for victim to press charges knowing everything he says will be now viewed in context of lying about how he met the thief. it won’t be comfortable for victim at that point & many similar cases closed in this way. fyi - the pic of the victims building in the news looks nice & full service, meaning cameras and doorman. that didn’t stop the thief Edited December 30, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BonVivant Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 1 hour ago, BuffaloKyle said: Host asks guest if he wants a drink and guest says sure but I can make it myself. Could say something like I used to be a bartender and everyone loved this drink. Would you care for one too? Sure. In that case, hover & be around while drinks are made. Make conversation. Redwine56 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) I avoid this problem by always having cold bottled water on hand and sealed. I offer one to the provider and usually take one myself. I’ve never encountered a problem this way but I also vet my providers pretty carefully. Edited December 30, 2023 by Luv2play Redwine56, peter831, MikeBiDude and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enronnja Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 I remember when that provider scammed me and I said I was calling the bank right then and there to get back my money, then became angry, realizing it was working, he offered me a bottle of water. Said, see, its not open. I said no thanks. I am there for release, no socialization. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali Gator Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 20 hours ago, Enronnja said: I remember when that provider scammed me and I said I was calling the bank right then and there to get back my money, then became angry, realizing it was working, he offered me a bottle of water. Said, see, its not open. I said no thanks. I am there for release, no socialization. The provider in the OP ? How did he scam you ? How did you find out ? Tell us more... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 On 12/30/2023 at 1:03 AM, Walt said: "I'm here to take care of you. Let me do that. Sit down and relax! One cube...or two?" Yes or "I'm a bartender, allow me to make us a couple of nice drinks"! Would that sound very strange while you're all excited at meeting your new guest/playmate? Can't trust anyone unfortunately! Look at the price this poor bastard paid. He very well could have been found dead! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 On 12/30/2023 at 9:38 AM, BuffaloKyle said: Host asks guest if he wants a drink and guest says sure but I can make it myself. Could say something like I used to be a bartender and everyone loved this drink. Would you care for one too? @BuffaloKylewe think alike. I did not read your comment until posting my comment below. Smart guy you are. 😄 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 34 minutes ago, Redwine56 said: @BuffaloKylewe think alike. I did not read your comment until posting my comment below. Smart guy you are. 😄 Thanks but on my last hepatitis test I didn't do too good, I only got a C! TorontoDrew, Luv2play, + Vegas_Millennial and 4 others 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidir Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 Want to know more about him? "I mean, yes to all. Like, what more do I have to say?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 This short he posted too shows he's a real keeper: Simon Suraci, + Pensant, jcmiami1 and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 Yikes, he’s not at all what I imagined from his profile. Expectations and reality rarely meet. The second short reveals motive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcmiami1 Posted December 31, 2023 Author Share Posted December 31, 2023 (edited) Hopefully he’ll find a boyfriend… in prison 😜 I don’t think he’s going to scam anyone there and live to tell. Edited December 31, 2023 by jcmiami1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 I just watched the news video in the first post. His magistrate judge was Mindy Glazer! She's always on court cam! This will definitely be on one of their future episodes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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