I fisted Jesus and loved it

[soloyo215]

Just want to share this. Feel free to remove the post if not appropriate.

Please know that in the Spanish-speaking world, the name Jesus is common. I know several people with that name, many parents name their children Jesus. So in my recent vacation to Puerto Vallarta, I met this massage provider named Jesus. It was in one of those places where masseurs stand at the entrance offering massages to any passersby (that they find suitable; some completely ignore me). Right from the initial contact I felt good chemistry between us, and about 5 minutes into the first massage we were already blwoing each other.

He told me that he likes getting fisted, and although that's not my thing, I decided to say yes and went along with it. Now, that wasn't the first time that I incurred in the practice of fisting. My first ex, way, way back when (in the 80s) liked getting fisted, so I did it a few times for him. That was my introduction to that practice. After that, I've had a few encounters with some guys who wanted it, some I did fist, some I didn't. Never cared for that practice; I don't even think about it, and don't watch pornography that contains that practice, it's just not part of my sexual world. That is, until I met Jesus (why does that sound blasphemous?).

So for some reason, I was very aroused and excited as I was in the process of doing the fisting. He was prepared (clean and with all the necessary materials for it). I don't know what was it about it this time that I could not get enough of him. We had an incredible session, and after the session we talked. He told me that he has a boyfriend who doesn't know what he does for a living (how on Earth?) and that he doesn't do what we did with everybody (not that I care one way or another),  but he did say that he loved it from me. I left it at that, and then on another day I was zipping my coffee at a cafe, and he passed by, said hello, and we chatted a little. He invited me to another "massage session", which I accepted since, why not. Again, I was suprised by my level of arousal with him. Then there was a third session, and then a fourth session. At that last session, he gave me his number and we agreed to meet me later outside his workplace, so we got together and had an incredible time. We also learned a little about each other.

Never in my life did I imagine that I'd be som much into anyone who likes a practive that I don't even think of. Back home, I loved my encounters with Jesus, but I still don't think about the practice of fisting as anything I want to integrate in my sex life. This experience feels like some kind of Christmas miracle (now I'm really being blasphemous), something that I enjoyed, was magical, but I don't think that I will be able to reproduce with anyone else. When I told my husband about my Jesus experiences, his body language (as I know him for decades) was telling me "don't even think about proposing doing that with me".

I imagine that providers might step outside of their own preferences to cater some of their clients, but as a client, has anyone experienced something outside of their repretoire that turns out to be exciting? I'd like to know.

 

[+ Trebor]

Not MY cup of tea by any means @soloyo215, but if you and Jesus enjoyed it and it gave you a little “slice of heaven”, the more power to you!!

[BuffaloKyle]

I have only fisted one guy on a few different occasions a long time ago. He didn't ask me to until I got there but it was fun and I loved hooking up with him. I have an above average cock when it comes to thickness so after I would fist him he was opened up to where I could fuck him for as long as he wanted. With a lot of guys if they are pretty tight I can't seem to last too long with all the pressure around my cock. Hopefully will get the chance to fist another guy someday.

[Guest]

I wonder if the turn-on was the mutuality of the experience, meaning you knew you were servicing each other (as opposed to the provider servicing you), coupled with the vulnerability and trust of the provider. I’ve never participated in fisting but imagine it can be a deeper bonding experience. I’ve had a somewhat similar experience with a provider whom I’ve seen several times who was into dom/sub role play. Not something I’m into regularly, but on those occasions it was more exciting than the typical engagement because I knew the provider was really into it (and into me).

[pubic_assistance]

Interesting.

I've never understood fisting.

And I've probably tried most everything when I was younger.

I especially don't understand the turn-on for the top.

 

[+ Charlie]

To answer your question: no, I have never been introduced to something new by a provider and found that I liked it. The first time I had sex with another man, we tried almost everything I could think of (though fisting wasn't one of them), and I decided then which things I liked and which ones I really didn't want to repeat.

Two of my closest friends were members of FFA (that is not Future Farmers of America!), and they sometimes tried to explain to me why they found fisting so satisfying, both as tops and as bottoms, but since I don't even care very much for getting fucked by most men, I can't imagine having a fist in my ass would be at all pleasurable. I did fist  men a couple of times when they asked for it, but I was always rather nervous about it, worrying about whether my fingernails were manicured enough.

[Thelatin]

Not something I’d think I’d like but…I do occasionally see a provider with a small hand.  He keeps sneaking more fingers up there, and there is something very intimate about it.

[soloyo215]

8 hours ago, Km411 said:

I wonder if the turn-on was the mutuality of the experience, meaning you knew you were servicing each other (as opposed to the provider servicing you), coupled with the vulnerability and trust of the provider. I’ve never participated in fisting but imagine it can be a deeper bonding experience. I’ve had a somewhat similar experience with a provider whom I’ve seen several times who was into dom/sub role play. Not something I’m into regularly, but on those occasions it was more exciting than the typical engagement because I knew the provider was really into it (and into me).

Interesting. I believe that may be the case, and I also felt good chemistry between us right away, from the very initial contact, something that I have rarely experienced. I certainly don't see fisting as a regular practice in my sex life, but yes, maybe because it was him, and we were both very present

 

7 hours ago, Charlie said:

To answer your question: no, I have never been introduced to something new by a provider and found that I liked it. The first time I had sex with another man, we tried almost everything I could think of (though fisting wasn't one of them), and I decided then which things I liked and which ones I really didn't want to repeat.

Two of my closest friends were members of FFA (that is not Future Farmers of America!), and they sometimes tried to explain to me why they found fisting so satisfying, both as tops and as bottoms, but since I don't even care very much for getting fucked by most men, I can't imagine having a fist in my ass would be at all pleasurable. I did fist  men a couple of times when they asked for it, but I was always rather nervous about it, worrying about whether my fingernails were manicured enough.

LOL! You made me laugh. I'm certainly not joining the Future Farmers of America either. I feel the same about getting fisted. Also, I did worry about my fingernails being too long and causing damage (it didn't stop me, though).

 

Thank you all for your thoughts. I'm glad I found this place where I can share about this.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I am more sub than top - but I have certainly fisted a few hot men in my time.  

While its not something that I would miss if I never did it again, the first guy I fisted was in a sling - his hands were behind his head, and his cock was hard and bounding around, as I massaged his g - spot he let out a huge groan and a he shot  hot wads of cum, the first couple hit the ceiling.

As a more sub kind of guy - I really enjoy providing pleasure - so that is the kicker for me - providing pleasure to someone who wants it 

 

 

 

[Becket]

Your title was kinda funny, kinda shocking.

[+ nycman]

On 12/26/2023 at 12:23 PM, Charlie said:

I was always rather nervous about it, worrying about whether my fingernails were manicured enough