Two for the Price of One

[ICTJOCK]

Well I wanted to relay an interesting client experience last night.   Correlates with a couple of recent threads,  plus it was hella fun!

 

Had my regular client who is  a Dom kinda guy.   He scheduled at the last minute,  so it was gym time,  then off to the booking at 8:00 p.m.

Regular kind of start,  was kneeling on the bed, head down and I look up and here was an attractive man I had never met or seen standing in front of me,  naked with hard on.

I'm sure the look on my face was priceless.     The client had brought his boyfriend along.    The bf had seen my photos and wanted to meet me.    It was after the first round,  he actually  spoke and introduced himself.    Nothing like being involved with someone you'd never met or had uttered words,  except hearing "pants and moans".

It was a very good experience for me,   it added to the evening and I received a big bonus at the end.

He and I never talked about my rate for 2 versus one and the bonus really made the difference very minor.    We had talked here about "discounts"  and finding other ways to reward regular clients.

This was one!     I think we'd have to talk about it if Bruce  (the boyfriend)  joined regularly,   but both client and boyfriend were thrilled and I continue to learn the art of "flexibility".     I am not generally much of a spontaneous person  (very structured),   but .. I'm learning!

[cany10011]

You have a great attitude... but if that happened to me (not an escort), I would be WTF? What is this person doing here! At the end of the day it's about having fun and giving pleasure and you handled that situation better than I could have.:)

Anyhow, it's good that you enjoyed your experience and rewarded for your efforts !!

[ICTJOCK]

8 minutes ago, cany10011 said:

You have a great attitude... but if that happened to me (not an escort), I would be WTF? What is this person doing here! At the end of the day it's about having fun and giving pleasure and you handled that situation better than I could have.:)

Anyhow, it's good that you enjoyed your experience and rewarded for your efforts !!

Thanks very much.   I might mention that he had talked about his boyfriend joining,  but not recently.    It took me a minute to realize what was going.

 

[marylander1940]

33 minutes ago, ICTJOCK said:

Well I wanted to relay an interesting client experience last night.   Correlates with a couple of recent threads,  plus it was hella fun!

 

Had my regular client who is  a Dom kinda guy.   He scheduled at the last minute,  so it was gym time,  then off to the booking at 8:00 p.m.

Regular kind of start,  was kneeling on the bed, head down and I look up and here was an attractive man I had never met or seen standing in front of me,  naked with hard on.

I'm sure the look on my face was priceless.     The client had brought his boyfriend along.    The bf had seen my photos and wanted to meet me.    It was after the first round,  he actually  spoke and introduced himself.    Nothing like being involved with someone you'd never met or had uttered words,  except hearing "pants and moans".

It was a very good experience for me,   it added to the evening and I received a big bonus at the end.

He and I never talked about my rate for 2 versus one and the bonus really made the difference very minor.    We had talked here about "discounts"  and finding other ways to reward regular clients.

This was one!     I think we'd have to talk about it if Bruce  (the boyfriend)  joined regularly,   but both client and boyfriend were thrilled and I continue to learn the art of "flexibility".     I am not generally much of a spontaneous person  (very structured),   but .. I'm learning!

Are you sure that was his boyfriend... and he wasn't another escort? I guess if he mentioned that to you before that possibly was the case but some clients fantasize about making others believe they're way wealthier, successful and luckier than they really are.

What if the new guys had been someone who looks like an average American client?

I'm glad you had a great time and you got a bonus!

Thank you for sharing with us your recent experience!

Edited September 30, 2023 by marylander1940

[ICTJOCK]

Thanks for the input.  It was his boyfriend,   we talked about it more after.    Seemed like a very nice guy.      

If he boyfriend was an average looking man  (as most of my clients are)   I would have been thrilled and my reaction wouldn't have been any different.

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, ICTJOCK said:

I am not generally much of a spontaneous person  (very structured)

Clearly you are fond of this client because for most providers this situation borders on the disrespectful.

Inviting a second person (b.f.or not) without prior discussion of this being the occasion for such a visit is unprofessional.

Kind of you to keep an open mind...but you have a right as a professional escort to have limits to what goes down in a session.

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Clearly you are fond of this client because for most providers this situation borders on the disrespectful.

Inviting a second person (b.f.or not) without prior discussion of this being the occasion for such a visit is unprofessional.

Kind of you to keep an open mind...but you have a right as a professional escort to have limits to what goes down in a session.

You nailed it ☝️💯 👏

[ICTJOCK]

19 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

 

Kind of you to keep an open mind...but you have a right as a professional escort to have limits to what goes down in a session.

I do of course.   However,  we had discussed this in the past as a possibility.    Discussion for this booking would have been what I would have expected based on my own work as a professional,  but I didn't mind .    It added an element of surprise.    I grew from the experience  as did the boyfriend who had never had a threesome prior.    I did make it clear this was an exception to the norm.

Edited September 30, 2023 by ICTJOCK

[SometimesBi]

2 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

He and I never talked about my rate for 2 versus one

Now I'm curious... if an escort's rate is for time, why would 2 clients vs 1 cause a change in rate? 

[Guest]

20 minutes ago, SometimesBi said:

Now I'm curious... if an escort's rate is for time, why would 2 clients vs 1 cause a change in rate? 

Because some time can be more onerous than other time(s)  😉

[ICTJOCK]

20 minutes ago, SometimesBi said:

Now I'm curious... if an escort's rate is for time, why would 2 clients vs 1 cause a change in rate? 

We are paid for time,  but it isn't a blanket slate.    Differing requirements requires different compensation amounts.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Different take:  The client should have said something beforehand. 

This client knew exactly what he was doing. 

If this was a learning exercise, make sure to learn to not let people walk all over you.

[wsc]

4 hours ago, SometimesBi said:

Now I'm curious... if an escort's rate is for time, why would 2 clients vs 1 cause a change in rate? 

Because you're spending time with two? Same principle as a pregnant woman; eats one meal, serves two appetites.

[ICTJOCK]

57 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

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If this was a learning exercise, make sure to learn to not let people walk all over you.

Lets not be ridiculous and the above comment is way over the top.    Nobody walks "all over me".

[Simon Suraci]

It’s also about the value you are providing to each client, not just the time spent. I would charge much differently for a gang bang to repeatedly work me over than I would for one client to do the same. The value to each client is basically the same, but the escort is realizing half that value in terms of compensation.

Do whatever you are comfortable with. I would insist on knowing what to expect beforehand, however. If you consented to having the second person, all good,  but it’s a basic sign of respect for the client to inform the escort of what is happening during the session.

Some of my best clients have been couples and they each compensate me their share. Not always 1:1 what I would charge them individually, but close. Sometimes the same. If it’s one fee for two, I agree to that ahead of time, but I usually don’t do that.

[Guest]

@ICTJOCK your colleagues have spoken. It seems to me based on another post that you're quick to give the discount and what @BenjaminNicholas said rings true. 

Edited September 30, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[ICTJOCK]

1 hour ago, Vin_Marco said:

@ICTJOCK your colleagues have spoken. It seems to me based on another post that you're quick to give the discount and what @BenjaminNicholas said rings true. 

My colleagues haven't "spoken"  as you claim.   Most gave constructive criticism and from a very small cross section of escorts on this site..   I seem to have received very positive reaction with the first post on this thread.  I appreciate reasonable commentary from objective people.   And those that can't be positive or constructive,   aren't worth reading.

Edited September 30, 2023 by ICTJOCK

[Guest]

1 hour ago, ICTJOCK said:

My colleagues haven't "spoken"  as you claim.   Most gave constructive criticism and from a very small cross section of escorts on this site..   I seem to have received very positive reaction with the first post on this thread.  I appreciate reasonable commentary from objective people.   And those that can't be positive or constructive,   aren't worth reading.

But they have, you just didn't agree or like the comments lol 😂 What @BenjaminNicholas suggested was neither ridiculous nor was it "over the top" He's been at it quite a while and from what I'm told he's exceedingly good at what he does, maybe don't get so defensive? You may not realize it but I want you to do well, I want everyone to do well and win 🏆 

[ICTJOCK]

7 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

But they have, you just didn't agree or like the comments lol 😂 What @BenjaminNicholas suggested was neither ridiculous nor was it "over the top" He's been at it quite a while and from what I'm told he's exceedingly good at what he does, maybe don't get so defensive? You may not realize it but I want you to do well, I want everyone to do well and win 🏆 

The fact he has been in this business for some time isn't relevant to me with regard to his ridiculous comment.     Neither of you know me,  know  how I relate to my clients (of various kinds,  I don't just escort).   To make a comment about "people  (plural)  "walking all over me"  is an over the top comment and without basis.   This conversation between you and I is over.

Edited September 30, 2023 by ICTJOCK

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

2 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

Lets not be ridiculous and the above comment is way over the top.

Really?  

You're not going to last long on this board if you think that was beyond the pale. 

But seriously, you handle your business as you see fit and are comfortable.

I can only offer the advice of someone who's been doing this very, very successfully as a full-fledged career. 

My apologies if you felt it ridiculous.

[ICTJOCK]

1 minute ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Really?  

You're not going to last long on this board if you think that was beyond the pale. 

But seriously, you handle your business as you see fit and are comfortable.

I can only offer the advice of someone who's been doing this very, very successfully as a full-fledged career. 

My apologies if you felt it ridiculous.

Apology accepted.      Use of constructive words would have been better.    And I expect I will last on this board.    Thanks.

[soloyo215]

Why is this turning me on?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 hour ago, soloyo215 said:

Why is this turning me on?

Because you're a filthy tramp. 

[Guest]

7 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Different take:  The client should have said something beforehand. 

This client knew exactly what he was doing. 

If this was a learning exercise, make sure to learn to not let people walk all over you.

I feel a song coming on 😄

 

[Guest]

3 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

...I can only offer the advice of someone who's been doing this very, very successfully as a full-fledged career. 

....

And you've been very, very successful for a very, very, very long time! 😅