Archangel Posted September 5, 2023 Share Posted September 5, 2023 I know this has been visited on before… …but how do you guys who’ve done it have success engaging the services of guys on Instagram? I have yet to have any success. I’m sure many of these guys are on there. What am I missing as the clear indicator that a guy is a provider when I’m browsing Instagram? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nodalguy Posted September 5, 2023 Share Posted September 5, 2023 Interesting. I haven't considered trying to find a provider on Instagram because of their ban on X-rated content. Twitter on the other hand is good for finding or learning more about providers, as they can post nudes or adult videos as well as text content that gives you a sense of them as a person. + ButchAtl and liubit 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 6, 2023 Author Share Posted September 6, 2023 I have a proliferation of social media…I really don’t want more. And since Musk has lost his mind, I’m not excited about Twitter/X. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 6, 2023 Author Share Posted September 6, 2023 “TOS” never really stopped anyone before. There is PLENTY of salacious material on IG. Circumlocution has been the name of the game no matter the platform. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 6, 2023 Share Posted September 6, 2023 I've also been curious on a "how to" for setting up private meets with IG guys? I've had limited luck (once) on Only fans. Archangel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 6, 2023 Author Share Posted September 6, 2023 @MikeBiDude, I know some guys here have from time to time mentioned having made such arrangements. So I know it happens. I’d like to hear from those who have success stories, particularly on IG. Not other platforms. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 6, 2023 Author Share Posted September 6, 2023 (edited) Well, of course they’re not going to say they’re available for hire. Hence why I asked what the strategy is. In this hobby, we have been working with indirect discussion forever. “It’s against the rules” does not apply to any logical behavior in escorting because escorting is itself against the rules. There are clearly guys on IG who escort. And many a guy who does will direct you to his IG to see more pictures if you ask. So the question is…what strategies, if any, does someone use to approach a guy successfully on IG for a meetup? Clearly @arnemgreeves doesn’t do it nor does he have any advice on how to do so, but does anyone else? Edited September 6, 2023 by Archangel BonVivant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 I’m not midwestern. I also asked for IG strategies. You simply said guys don’t arrange through there. You provided no strategy and so didn’t in fact answer. Did not answer the prompt but instead reframed the prompt. Which is off prompt, and frankly unhelpful. Since you have nothing more of substance on prompt or on your reframed prompt, you probably can just let it go and the conversation can go in a helpful direction. Hot4latin, BonVivant and MikeBiDude 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 I'm just curious what kind of approaches you've tried thus far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 marylander1940 and BonVivant 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 16 hours ago, Archangel said: I’m not midwestern. I also asked for IG strategies. You simply said guys don’t arrange through there. You provided no strategy and so didn’t in fact answer. Did not answer the prompt but instead reframed the prompt. Which is off prompt, and frankly unhelpful. Since you have nothing more of substance on prompt or on your reframed prompt, you probably can just let it go and the conversation can go in a helpful direction. Back to subject! Would simply send a message saying 'you are very hot and asking something like would you be interested in me taking you out to dinner? Is there any chance we can talk by email outside instagram?" After that privately you can ask whatever you want. I'm sure most will turn you down and some will ask for a very stiff price but they might be worth it. Most successful Instagram models may not be cut off for escorting and possibly and they would ask you for pictures of yourself to make sure you are at least in shape. Good luck! TorontoDrew, Huxley, MikeBiDude and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 2 hours ago, maninsoma said: I'm just curious what kind of approaches you've tried thus far. 1. Reaching out to guys who have a linktree (etc) in DMs 2. Reaching out to guys who post clearly salacious material in DMs This what I said to the last guy I reached out to on IG: I really like your profile. I wonder if you provide paid services. Companionship and intimacy specifically? Of the guys who’ve responded, all have been polite. Never have I experienced rudeness. Just a lack of success. The response to the above was as follows: I stay pretty busy so don’t think I have time for that- I’m sorry BonVivant, TorontoDrew, Colton and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Nodalguy Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 I'm not sure how you would locate profiles on Instagram of providers (obviously that's the hard part and I think the point of your question), but once you do there are tons of things you can say to indirectly indicate you are interested in hiring them. "Are you into generous guys?" "I'm happy to give you something for your travel expenses and time." And so on. In terms of actually locating guys, which I do on Twitter, I use Google searches (specifying "site:twitter.com" and including "'[my city]'") on different phrases : things like "m4m massage" "masseur" "gay escort" "gay client". I also have a number of more explicit things as well as Spanish phrases I search for, as I like Latino guys and I've noticed a number of recurring things that they say. Archangel and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 The problem with the word “generous” in general is it means different things to different guys 😂 To some, it’s simply code for “do you escort?” and for others they think you’re lavish with escorts. I like to think I’m “generous” but my means aren’t limitless! TorontoDrew and Huxley 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 I have never contacted anyone through IG, but it is the preferred platform among Brazilian adult models. They rarely advertise their escorting services openly and rarely publish on an escort's website. I am not talking from experience, but I think the key to avoiding frustration from Instagram cruising is not getting obsessed with anyone in particular. I would contact everyone I like, and some will respond. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, Archangel said: The problem with the word “generous” in general is it means different things to different guys 😂 To some, it’s simply code for “do you escort?” and for others they think you’re lavish with escorts. I like to think I’m “generous” but my means aren’t limitless! Can you send a gift on instagram just like in OF or TikTok? That's a way to sweeten the pie @Archangel and let your real intentions be perceived. Edited September 7, 2023 by marylander1940 Archangel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 I've asked "do you do private meetings?". TBH I haven't had luck (only tried once or twice) on IG but has worked on Only fans. I also found out on OF you can't use the word "meet" in a DM 😂I forget my workaround but I did end up meeting the OF guy. TorontoDrew, Huxley and Archangel 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 2 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said: I've asked "do you do private meetings?". TBH I haven't had luck (only tried once or twice) on IG but has worked on Only fans. I also found out on OF you can't use the word "meet" in a DM 😂I forget my workaround but I did end up meeting the OF guy. I bet you it was "meat" 😇 Huxley 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nodalguy Posted September 7, 2023 Share Posted September 7, 2023 6 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said: I also found out on OF you can't use the word "meet" in a DM 😂I forget my workaround but I did end up meeting the OF guy. Ahh, I forgot about this. Yes, I remember I was stymied in sending a series of messages by OF's fascist censorship. In the one case I found and pulled up, I just asked "Do you ever visit [my city]?" And then told him that I had originally written more but OF monitors private messages and blocked it. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 7, 2023 Author Share Posted September 7, 2023 Big Brother (public or private) is always watching! Theres’s a guy I follow on IG whose profile I got from RM. His profile on IG is clearly a platform to drive business to his OF. But just because a guy has an OF doesn’t mean he’s open to meeting up. As has been discussed here ad nauseam a lot of guys prefer OF to escorting because of a host of reasons – mainly because they don’t have to deal with us! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 (edited) I’ve met a guy on IG. I forget what word I used but I thought it was meet—as in do you ever meet guys for private meetings but maybe I used a different word. He said yes then gave me his phone number and asked me to text him there which I did and we made an arrangement. Edited September 8, 2023 by LookingAround Huxley, Archangel, + bashful and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GTMike Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 9 hours ago, MikeBiDude said: I've asked "do you do private meetings?". TBH I haven't had luck (only tried once or twice) on IG but has worked on Only fans. I also found out on OF you can't use the word "meet" in a DM 😂I forget my workaround but I did end up meeting the OF guy. Yep likewise. Had similar experience with "meet" haha and then later we "met". Literally you can use "m&*t" or other characters MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted September 8, 2023 Author Share Posted September 8, 2023 So that’s how you discuss it. How do you identify guys who such talkarounds will register with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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