411 on RyanCross

[R.Meadow]

Hi friends, any info or experiences with RyanCross in Chicago?

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[Jostar]

Be careful this guy is crazy. I compliment how he has a nice body. And he just started insulting me for no reason. I guess he super sensitive about his body. Well not stop talking insult after insult. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[jonnychgo]

I agree.  It was many years ago, but i made an appointment for a late Sunday afternoon/early evening.  The morning of, I woke up with a cold and contacted him to cancel.  He went batshit crazy.  I mean repeated messages batshit crazy.

[wayout]

I had the complete opposite experience with Ryan.  I haven't seen him since the pandemic but he used to pass through my city somewhat often.  I had a number of overnights with him at my house and I had a fantastic experience each time.  Very respectful and very accommodating.  One of his many reviews on RM is from me.

[Jostar]

1 hour ago, jonnychgo said:

I agree.  It was many years ago, but i made an appointment for a late Sunday afternoon/early evening.  The morning of, I woke up with a cold and contacted him to cancel.  He went batshit crazy.  I mean repeated messages batshit crazy.

You are so right. He text me nonstop of cursing. Ryan cross is 

[Jostar]

He is crazy 

[Becket]

Lordy talk about mixed reviews!

[+ DrownedBoy]

Yeah, tell me about it! Such different reviews!

I think he had a break from escorting, because he's been in Chicago forever.

I met him twice within, I think, the past 6 months. Easily the most intelligent and cultured escort I was able to meet and have a conversation with.

Of course, I was more impressed with his mind than his body....which seems to be a factor here.

 

EDIT: I should add that I don't generally hire escorts who mention their intelligence, as I'm admittedly shallow, and I've hired many "educated" escorts who seemed anything but. However, if his knowledge of the humanities is any indicator, this guy struck me as someone who received a humanistic education at a very good university.

Edited April 24, 2023 by DrownedBoy

[jgoo]

My time spent with him, which has been multiple times, has been outstanding.  I recommend him very highly.  Never showed any attitude or being "crazy" in any way.  

[+ DrownedBoy]

22 hours ago, jgoo said:

My time spent with him, which has been multiple times, has been outstanding.  I recommend him very highly.  Never showed any attitude or being "crazy" in any way.  

Well the people saying he's "crazy" are people who only texted him, whereas others actually met him.

Getting to be a tough competitive market out there.....

[Gymowner]

Those that saw him liked him. Those that appeared to waste time he went batshit on. See the correlation?

Honor the appointment and no problems. A good time. Flake or waste his time... no bueno. Can you blame him?

[TJMS]

I am surprised that in a service business he would react so harshly to a cancellation, especially to friends of ours here who use escorts regularly

[wsc]

Has anyone attempted to correlate experiences with phases of the moon? May be a Jeckel/Hyde thing here?

[TJMS]

LOL!

[marylander1940]

On 4/25/2023 at 6:52 PM, Gymowner said:

Those that saw him liked him. Those that appeared to waste time he went batshit on. See the correlation?

Honor the appointment and no problems. A good time. Flake or waste his time... no bueno. Can you blame him?

I guess he's nice once you meet him. 

On 4/24/2023 at 6:50 PM, DrownedBoy said:

Yeah, tell me about it! Such different reviews!

I think he had a break from escorting, because he's been in Chicago forever.

I met him twice within, I think, the past 6 months. Easily the most intelligent and cultured escort I was able to meet and have a conversation with.

Of course, I was more impressed with his mind than his body....which seems to be a factor here.

 

EDIT: I should add that I don't generally hire escorts who mention their intelligence, as I'm admittedly shallow, and I've hired many "educated" escorts who seemed anything but. However, if his knowledge of the humanities is any indicator, this guy struck me as someone who received a humanistic education at a very good university.

 

Does he look like his pictures? He's body is just average although in America that usually means something else than in other countries.

Did you have a good time?

If he's 6'1, that cock is huge!

 

On 4/24/2023 at 2:04 PM, Jostar said:

Be careful this guy is crazy. I compliment how he has a nice body. And he just started insulting me for no reason. I guess he super sensitive about his body. Well not stop talking insult after insult. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I guess you told him that by text, right? Not in person. I understand after his reaction you decided not to meeting him. 

[TJMS]

Looks like RyanCross got his negative review removed. He has clout

[Jostar]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

I guess he's nice once you meet him. 

 

Does he look like his pictures? He's body is just average although in America that usually means something else than in other countries.

Did you have a good time?

If he's 6'1, that cock is huge!

 

I guess you told him that by text, right? Not in person. I understand after his reaction you decided not to meeting him. 

I ask to make a appointment with him, i was very polite and I gave him a good compliment about his body. Next thing he started to flip out and jumping to conclusions. I told him if I offended him I apologize. And he still kept talking trash. I never reply back. Kept texting me like crazy. Something wrong with that dude. I think he might be bi-polar 

[marylander1940]

10 minutes ago, Jostar said:

I ask to make a appointment with him, i was very polite and I gave him a good compliment about his body. Next thing he started to flip out and jumping to conclusions. I told him if I offended him I apologize. And he still kept talking trash. I never reply back. Kept texting me like crazy. Something wrong with that dude. I think he might be bi-polar 

Considering how nice he was to others I wonder if it's what you described or PNP. 

 

[Jostar]

3 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Considering how nice he was to others I wonder if it's what you described or PNP. 

 

Probably bi-polar or pnp. 

[marylander1940]

2 minutes ago, Jostar said:

Probably bi-polar or pnp. 

you, Sir:

[RyanCross]

On 6/9/2023 at 5:40 PM, Jostar said:

Probably bi-polar or pnp. 

I don't do drugs and I don't have bi-polar. What I do have is freedom. To be able to discern who I meet and who I don't meet is one of the few benefits this job provides. I claim it as my continued right. Fortunately for providers, unfortunately for entitled clients, this is not a conventional business where the usual dynamics and mores of a service industry apply. It is a two-way two-sided contractual transaction where both parties have the freedom to decide on who they meet. I can see why some would take issue with this right of providers and the existing dynamic, but that would suggest maybe they're the one with a psychiatric problem or some stunted interpersonal skills not I. 

I have a very strong financial incentive to meet you. Others are correct that I stand to financially benefit with ensuring an appointment follows through with you or if you cancelled, we meet another time. That is in my economic and financial interest. As indicated on here and my reviews, I've also met with countless others with no problems. So, if your personality or sense of entitlement is that much of a disincentive for me to meet, perhaps that calls for some introspection on your part? Essentially what it means is that I came to the conclusion that your negative attributes outweigh the very real financial incentive for me to meet with you as I have met with many others over the course of many years. However, I realize that it is easier and more effortless for some who lack this capability of introspection to instead convince themselves that the other person is crazy or on drugs. That delusion requires less work rather than confronting the reality that maybe you need some improvement in how you communicate and relate to others. If you can't even pay me hundreds of dollars to meet with you as I've done with countless others in this work (and in my personal hook up life I might add), then I sincerely don't know how such an individual can flourish interpersonally in this society. 
 

On 6/9/2023 at 5:22 PM, Jostar said:

I ask to make a appointment with him, i was very polite and I gave him a good compliment about his body. Next thing he started to flip out and jumping to conclusions. I told him if I offended him I apologize. And he still kept talking trash. I never reply back. Kept texting me like crazy. Something wrong with that dude. I think he might be bi-polar 

If this particular individual is who I think it is, then they have over eight complaints on MyNumber from eight different providers than myself. This leads me to caution others on here to not take everything that is claimed on here at face value. There are always two sides to an event or interaction. 

 

On 6/9/2023 at 5:13 PM, TJMS said:

Looks like RyanCross got his negative review removed. He has clout

The website has a very judiciously sound, fair, reasonable and timeless rule when it comes to leaving reviews. If I did not meet you, then you don't get to leave a review. Isn't that great? According to the website:

If you did not meet the Escort no matter the circumstance the Review will not be approved. Since the Reviews are subject of approval, RentMen webadmin has the right to reject a review"

If someone attempts to leave a review without me agreeing to meet you or without us ever meeting, I simply message the admin with the receipts and documentation. To reference Tony Kushner's play, I am not Roy Cohn. I do not have clout. I am a homosexual.

 

On 6/9/2023 at 9:12 AM, wsc said:

Has anyone attempted to correlate experiences with phases of the moon? May be a Jeckel/Hyde thing here?

If one is to do this, please do compare it with the correlations that may or may not exist with the IQ, level of agreeableness or social skills of the clients who like me versus the clients who dislike me. I'm more curious if correlational patterns exist there versus which phases of the moon, we're in.  That may better help in making sense of this great unsolvable mystery. Of course, that is if we are to think no correlation exists between those who actually met me versus those who I didn't even end up meeting.

As stated elsewhere, I've been doing this for a very long time. Some may even say too long. I've learned to watch carefully to subtle words and tone. My ability to detect whether it is going to work with a client is usually pretty immediate. A sense of entitlement can't hide itself very long. My senses end up being vindicated quite regularly because the reaction of a client to my rejection of them usually reveals further what kind of person they are. I also sometimes play a game where I'll say to myself after the first or second message "I bet this client has had complaints on Mr.Number". And time and time again, I'll be right when I look up their number. Sure enough, a handful of providers have complained about their time being wasted or a persistent pernicious arrogance that occurs in the appointment. 

Over the decade, there has been a very noticeable decline in client etiquette. The regression of society and our culture has been widespread and encompassing. Client and provider etiquette in this industry has not been immune to this bigger societal shift. It is an end of an era. When I started in this work, people didn't waste time. Date, time, location, and preferences were communicated clearly, timely and effortlessly. That was the norm back then, today it is the exception. Then people didn't act like I was their waiter or cashier. There was less ghosting, less last-minute abrupt cancellations, less flakiness, less of an attitude of "I'm the one paying". There was a sense of class and courtesy with clientele in these arrangements. A drink at a nice hotel bar before going up. An appointment that was scheduled days in advance. A nice meal before or after. Less unpaid labor and time wasting before meeting. Prompt and to the point on arranging, and more class/personality when time was spent together. Things have changed. I've heard others on the client-side label this development "the grindrification of escorting" when complaining of providers. In my experience, the regression has been on both sides of the deal. It's becoming something different than what it used to be. It's something else. I'm just glad that I got to experience its previous form while it lasted. I have a deep lasting gratitude that I got to live its final days before it dived into a lot of the current crap and nonsense. I'm glad my early days did not start in today's era. The time of decency is gone. 

[+ nycman]

6 hours ago, RyanCross said:

What I do have is freedom.

 

In all seriousness, the kids obviously got a brain. 

Bravo!

[wsc]

11 hours ago, RyanCross said:

 The time of decency is gone. 

Not, sir, for as long as you live and breathe.

Your post is an erudite and polished Apologia, as good or better as some of the best I've ever encountered.

I am sorry for the lack of consideration you've experienced from others, and hope I did not join that company in my joking -and perhaps clumsy- attempt to explain the dichotomy in reports of interactions between you and actual or would-be clients. Your expression of a personal viewpoint and perspective is welcomed and appreciated.

To echo the above poster's sentiment, Bravo!

[RyanCross]

7 minutes ago, wsc said:

Not, sir, for as long as you live and breathe.

Your post is an erudite and polished Apologia, as good or better as some of the best I've ever encountered.

I am sorry for the lack of consideration you've experienced from others, and hope I did not join that company in my joking -and perhaps clumsy- attempt to explain the dichotomy in reports of interactions between you and actual or would-be clients. Your expression of a personal viewpoint and perspective is welcomed and appreciated.

To echo the above poster's sentiment, Bravo!

I appreciate your kind words and take no offense. I should add an addendum that not all is lost. Not everything is forsaken. Glimpses of a more decent epoch still occur. Gentlemen of class still very much exist within the ranks of today's clientele. Though such individuals are fewer in number, their contributions and counteractions do not go unnoticed or unappreciated. While today's rookies in the industry largely missed out, I do hope that some of them get a taste of what once was and still could be. 

[Basstiann]

He’s very rude.